I need advice on how to tell a guy that's 2 years older than me that i really need to wait a while before i start going places with him, because my parents really dont know him that good yet. He really cares about me and i need a way to tell him where it don't hurt his feelings or make him not like ne anymore. i bet this sounds really stupid but i am in desperate need of help!!!!
2007-01-06 00:32:14 · 12 answers · asked by pretty_grl_321 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be honest with him! tell him you need tiime to familiarise yourself with him and get to know him better..if he really likes you..he'll wait..keep the tone and mood light when telling him that..don't worry..sounds like he's a great guy..he'll difinitely understand! =)
2007-01-06 00:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds corny and a little overused but sweetie, if he cares about you, he'll wait (and I don't mean just going places). Although I'm not sure if we're talking about your boyfriend here but it's best to be with a person who you are comfortable with talking, about anything and everything. So, just tell him "I can't go places with you yet because me mom and dad don't really know you very well. Perhaps you wanna spend more time at my place? My mom makes great lasagna... yadda yadda yadda."
Best of luck. Oh and learn to relax.
2007-01-06 08:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Gnisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your parents are protective of you and that they want to get to know him before they allow the two of your to go off alone together.
Try to see if your family will agree to have him over for dinner. That would be a good chance to see how he reacts to interacting with your dad. If he puts up with it (I mean the tons of questions your dad will probably ask him) then he's probably worth it.
Just be straight forward in telling him these are your families rules and you have to obey them until you (and he) can prove you guys are responsible.
2007-01-06 09:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by milwaukiedave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well start with the eye contact, act but be cool, yet be a little flirtacious. It's all in the eye contact. Then see what happens. Do not appear too anxcious.
2007-01-06 08:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by redstarr7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! If u get any answers to that..I really would be honored to know..Cuz am in exactly the same position as u...and am just trying to hang-on there..I mean I have enough age to go out any where..but am not ready...I don't know how to deal with guys either or face them..but easily break their heart.Well I hope u get help with your question.gotta go....bye...goodluck.
2007-01-06 08:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by Annabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure he want get hurt if you explain it in a caring way. bottom line is that you should not make him feel that you are trying to move away from him.
2007-01-06 08:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by omegafoxbat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you just need to tell him what you said here - tell him you really like him but explain the situation. i'm sure it won't hurt his feelings
2007-01-06 08:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you just need to tell him what you said here - tell him you really like him but explain the situation. i'm sure it won't hurt his feelings.
2007-01-06 08:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by amazingtessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if someone is in love with you and really has feelings for you then be bold and tell what you want,he has to understand and respect your views.If he doesn't then tell him to think of what he wants.There is a saying here(Africa)that there is no rush in Africa
2007-01-06 08:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by kibendetb T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him," I can't date you because I am to young for you. " If the guy likes and respects you he'll be OK with that. If he gets pissed off he was only looking for sex to begin with.
2007-01-06 08:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋