Family & Relationships - 6 January 2007

My mother never hugged or kissed me or told me how special i was to her,she told me she loved me after about 34 yrs of giving birth to me and my instant reaction was disbelief and mistrust.Before she passed away i asked what i had done wrong and she replied,
"nothing but you don't cook for me".She told me i was useless everytime i tried to please her and told her mates tht i ws a 'bastard of a child like my father' & 'possessed', i was even told tht if she knew this is hw i wld have turned out she would have smothered me at birth.I suppose as an adult i should pull up my socks, put the past behind me and live my life, very true, but everytime i think i get somewhere it is followed by a set back of some sort.
i have been for counselling on and off for the last 15 years .
i exercise regularly and go to dance classes as these things make me happy but am not really good at striking up friendships as i feel that these people will only get to knw the horrible person that i am,any advice

2007-01-06 02:25:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-06 02:24:00 · 38 answers · asked by rupinder k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-06 02:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by msredbonel1 2 in Singles & Dating

I just love boobs big ones, small ones, but why?????

2007-01-06 02:22:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-06 02:22:29 · 10 answers · asked by composure 1 in Friends

Have you ever been with another woman?

2007-01-06 02:21:25 · 13 answers · asked by Mike S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-06 02:20:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I.E. - Should a married couple share everything as an indication of complete trust or is it a good idea to have private conversations.

2007-01-06 02:20:06 · 22 answers · asked by megalomaniac 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-06 02:19:49 · 35 answers · asked by wrik d 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 02:19:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 6 months often has the most strangest of dreams. The latest one, being of last night he was with his ex-partner and mother to his child having intercourse, he says he doesn`t think about her or have any feeling for her (and I believe him) just wondered if anybody knows of the interpretation of dreams, I do have books on the subject but they are not concise enough. Any thoughts anybody?

2007-01-06 02:19:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

~child lives with mother
~parents are in different states
~father not currently not paying child support

2007-01-06 02:19:11 · 12 answers · asked by ShawtyPhat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-06 02:18:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a young lady, and not a guy!!

2007-01-06 02:18:07 · 6 answers · asked by happy 2 in Family

2007-01-06 02:17:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls :

If a commercial website was selling something that you were finding so cool and want to have it and too it's not that much expensive; would you use the link "say him you like that" and send the email adress of your boyfriend/husband to let him know that you will be very pleased if he buy that for you ?

Boys :

Would you buy it or not if you knew that that thing will realy please your girl and too you because his pleasure would lead to pleasure for you to ?

thank you.

2007-01-06 02:17:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend is engaged to a guy who has twins frm previous relationship. they are 2 yrs old and she loved them to bits but the mother left i think after they were born, im not sure when but she hasnt come back ever since for them and left them to thsi guy who is npw engaged with my mate. the mother could come anyday for them again and she could get custody of them if she wanted via the courts. am ii right? she is getting more and more attched to them but one day she may appear and take them away from her. She says they are all mine now but how can i get this across to her that one day she may get hurt and she has to be prepared jsut incase. maybe in yrs to come etc. they will soon find out that they have another mother figure who is a real mother to them and may choose her over my mate. That is mostly the case but not always. These 2 little girls are precious to her but do you think she has thought of this but it doesnt seem like it coz she has just been over the moon with the way life

2007-01-06 02:16:46 · 17 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please an ansewr other than move on.?
My ex is soo distant .?

my ex is stressed out. he is really sxcare dof me and others . having panic attacks and hates being out the house. we used to be soo in love then it went wrong and i used threats and so did he which as messed everything up. i wnat thingsto work out . at the moment he says hes terrified of seeing himself with me or anyone . he isnt saying he loves me but he also is saying he doesnt love anyone not even himself. i have chased him and have kept phoning which i know i shouldnt isit to late for me to do whats right. i love him i know he did me its just all this i dont know what to do. please dont say move on. k knoew that allt hats stopping us is the past.

2007-01-06 02:15:40 · 4 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-06 02:14:56 · 5 answers · asked by Urban Piglet 1 in Singles & Dating

my hart bin getting broken ever since middle school i have a probelm i alwayes follow people to get there attation i onley had two boyfrends but they were nastey jurkes so i broke up with them now every time i get a crush im allwayes afraid that they wont like me or use me i feel like im never going to get the purfact guy to be my boy freind how can i be happey with out a boy frend

2007-01-06 02:14:18 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley H 1 in Singles & Dating

The thing is, he/she never like to be corrected when ever they do wrong. You see I have a friend and he did something which I believe he could see he was the wrong one but the thing is, he's not speaking to me because of the incident which he caused, how can I really tell him how I feel about his behaviour knowing he has done me wrong and him not being so cold with me.

Thanks a lot

2007-01-06 02:13:53 · 6 answers · asked by Naffysha 1 in Friends

My ex is soo distant .?
Help with ex. wants time?
my ex is stressed out. he is really sxcare dof me and others . having panic attacks and hates being out the house. we used to be soo in love then it went wrong and i used threats and so did he which as messed everything up. i wnat thingsto work out . at the moment he says hes terrified of seeing himself with me or anyone . he isnt saying he loves me but he also is saying he doesnt love anyone not even himself. i have chased him and have kept phoning which i know i shouldnt isit to late for me to do whats right. i love him i know he did me its just all this i dont know what to do. please dont say move on. k knoew that allt hats stopping us is the past.

2007-01-06 02:13:41 · 8 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay my man was cheating on me while i was out for the weekend some time agao and i cant get this out my mind!!! is it calld cheating if your man got his d**k suck bye a dude????

2007-01-06 02:13:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been going out for a year & a half and he still will only call me once a month it seems like...I see him at school but sometimes a girl needs a little more attention than that!! I mean I'm not the type to be up a guys butt all the time but I want him to want to call me....How can I get the point across w/o causing some sort of fight??

2007-01-06 02:13:34 · 13 answers · asked by Amber M 2 in Singles & Dating

Are there any clubs or things that i can join/do in highschool to meet more people? Right now I don't really come in contact with very many people and I want to start dating.

2007-01-06 02:12:56 · 13 answers · asked by Kyle 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 02:12:46 · 11 answers · asked by ahhihello 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Anything I wanted to.

Good advice or bad?
Two secrets to keep your marriage brimming
1. Whenever you're wrong, admit it,
2. Whenever you're right, shut up.

The most effective way to remember your wife's birthday is to forget it once...

A good wife always forgives her husband when she's wrong.

First Guy (proudly): "My wife's an angel!"
Second Guy: "You're lucky, mine's still alive."

2007-01-06 02:11:32 · 14 answers · asked by rusco21 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a girl turning 13, and my mom says that she'll only pay to do something(not to expensive) for a few of my friends, but i can invite more if they pay for themself. i don't want my friends to have to pay too much though! also, she said it can't be a sleepover. any ideas?

2007-01-06 02:09:49 · 12 answers · asked by Rachel K 4 in Friends

My bf met a girl at swim camp this summer and people there told me they had a thing... even though he denies it so he won't hurt me.
Well, next week he is going to swim at her school and she will be there watching.
This girl knows about me and I'm going to be there too. What should I say to her?

2007-01-06 02:09:45 · 7 answers · asked by tadpole 2 in Singles & Dating

do u hug, peck on the cheak, kiss on the lips, make out etc... i always think why not just go all the way!

2007-01-06 02:08:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating