2007-01-06 02:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by msredbonel1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dated this guy that would only let me order from the $1 menu at McDonald's. But, if I paid he would want to go to an expensive restaurant...I told him to get the hell out of my life!!!
2007-01-06 02:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dated a guy that spent all his money on beer and gambled it all away. Not to mention he would borrow money from me and use my car all of the time. Even though he had one of his own but he was too busy spending money on other stuff to get it fixed. He had a good job. I think I would rather date a "cheap" man who saves his money rather than one who spends it like there is no tomorrow. Do you have any money of your own? You pay for your stuff and he can pay for his. That way he won't expect anything in return if you get my drift.You have to find a balance. I just would rather pay for my own meal than some guy expect me to put out when he takes me home. I have had that happen and the guy guy got mad at me. Said, "Well you slept with "Bob". Why won't you sleep with me?" Like I am a whore or something. Some guys like those mentioned above are extremely cheap, some are just not responsible, and some know how to maintian the balance. But hey some women are that way too though.
2007-01-06 02:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by tigerlily23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. It gets really ANNOYING. My ex would always make me pay when we went out, would always take my car because he didn't want to use his gas. He wouldn't even buy me Christmas or birthday presents because he wanted to spend his money on himself.
I finally got fed up with that. Someone who is "thrifty" can be OK as long as they realize they have to pull their weight in the relationship. No one should be going broke to be with the other person.
2007-01-06 02:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how else could someone be cheap if not with money??
anyways yes, this guy once took me to the movies and didnt have enough to pay! so I had to pay for it, then he told me was hungry so I had to buy him food too!... needless to say i never went out with him again.. and he wasnt poor or anything, he was just plain CHEAP
2007-01-06 02:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes but if he /she wasnt going to treate you like a lady/gentleman than he is not right for you at the end you will end up with no money cause he will probaly try and make you pay for everything
2007-01-06 02:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by meme c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did in high school. Once I moved on from that relationship I never looked back.
2007-01-06 02:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by jonesty1284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah! He'd could have a grand in his wallet and still expect me to pay. he became history right quick.
2007-01-06 02:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have, but that was when i was in high school
2007-01-06 02:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by boehlingsfam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married to one (although he wined and dined me before we married)....
2007-01-06 02:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope and never will
2007-01-06 02:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by Ahhh....Me Time 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋