My ex is soo distant .?
Help with ex. wants time?
my ex is stressed out. he is really sxcare dof me and others . having panic attacks and hates being out the house. we used to be soo in love then it went wrong and i used threats and so did he which as messed everything up. i wnat thingsto work out . at the moment he says hes terrified of seeing himself with me or anyone . he isnt saying he loves me but he also is saying he doesnt love anyone not even himself. i have chased him and have kept phoning which i know i shouldnt isit to late for me to do whats right. i love him i know he did me its just all this i dont know what to do. please dont say move on. k knoew that allt hats stopping us is the past.
2007-01-06 02:13:41 · 8 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like you are both really screwed up. I suggest you go see a counselor or your church pastor and get help.
It's hard to believe anyone would try to salvage a relationship where he tells you it's over and you want to hear answers that don't include moving on.
GET HELP
2007-01-06 02:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 04:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it sound you need to sit , and find the reason of what happen, and why this happen, if you can forget all the past and start over why not, we need to move to the future not keep living in past, past just for lessons for learning what to do in the future, what the motive of our live, and how to make our live more happier, if you could pass away the reason of what you are in, you can start again and be happy all the way
wish you good luck
2007-01-06 02:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by tours 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do want to move on than you need to try some kind of counciling dealing with this issue...Love should not take this much work!!!
2007-01-06 02:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this ex needs to see a doctor. there are meds. out there that will help with his panic attacks. You are still concerned with him and try and get him too see a doc on this prob.
2007-01-06 02:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he is suffering from deppression which could lead to isolation and social anxiety.
2007-01-06 02:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by jacksonvillegarycollins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you continue to presser him he will take the choice from you !
2007-01-06 02:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax.
Find.
Speak.
Life.
2007-01-06 02:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by Phlow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋