My husband of 6 months often has the most strangest of dreams. The latest one, being of last night he was with his ex-partner and mother to his child having intercourse, he says he doesn`t think about her or have any feeling for her (and I believe him) just wondered if anybody knows of the interpretation of dreams, I do have books on the subject but they are not concise enough. Any thoughts anybody?
2007-01-06 02:19:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think it's the dream that's the problem, but the fact that he's telling you about it. If that were me, I'd keep very quiet.
2007-01-06 02:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It could be that your husband doesn't have any romantic feelings for her but it would be hard to believe that he doesn't have any feelings at all. I would say that he is dreaming about her because she still plays an important role in his life - after all she is the mother of his child. He has probably experienced a lot with her and so subconsciously she represents the idea of "the woman" in his life. Don't get me wrong, this isn't to say that you aren't the love of his life. It's just that time and history usually play a stronger role in what you dream that what he is currently experiencing. If you've ever dreamed about being at home and the house is the house where you grew up (not where you live right now) then I would say that's what he's going through.
2007-01-06 02:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me a few weeks ago and it is a very unsettling feeling. My boyfriend woke up crying after having a dream about his ex-wife. In the dream he was saying stuff like, "you know you're the only woman I've ever loved." He claims it's not true, but it didn't make me feel any better.
I decided I had no choice but to let it go and forget it. What else can we do?
2007-01-06 02:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had dreams like this of my ex and I dont think about him in waking life,so its fair to give him the benefit of the doubt. Also, I used to be real into dream books and the people,monsters,animals in our dreams are us and has nothing to do with the person.
2007-01-06 02:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow Craig B are you some style of Preacher? you frequently write a similar component, saying that all of us is selfish. nicely thats human nature i'm afraid. you come throughout as very bitter. Now to respond to the question. I wouldnt worry about it, merely ignore concerning the needs and luxuriate on your new relationship.
2016-12-01 22:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't mean he doesn't love u, sometimes someone shows up in a dream that we haven't thought about in years, and we can't even place where the thing got into our subconscious. most dreams mean nothing at all, don't worry about it unless he starts exhibiting any of the sign es of cheating, don't buy trouble when there isn't any.
2007-01-06 02:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would he have told you about this.Dreams are dreams and some people say that they are subconscious desires,but i wouldn`t get to upset by this.There must be somehere online you can find out more about this if you really feel you need to.
2007-01-09 00:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he told you and thats great. i dream about my ex sometimes and i hate him with a passion. if you spend a long time with someone it takes a long time to forget them. i wouldnt worry, itll mean nothing and be thankful he's being honest. If he liked her, he would of felt guilty about the dream and hid the fact.
2007-01-10 02:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by tinkypinkles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be so upset if my husband had been married before and said that to me. I really wouldn't be able to cope. Why is he telling you that? Does he want you to feel insecure?
2007-01-06 02:29:25 · answer #9 · answered by : 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably Hot!! But so is Pam Anderson, Doesn't mean a thing! Happy marriage
2007-01-06 02:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by sunkissed 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋