We have been going out for a year & a half and he still will only call me once a month it seems like...I see him at school but sometimes a girl needs a little more attention than that!! I mean I'm not the type to be up a guys butt all the time but I want him to want to call me....How can I get the point across w/o causing some sort of fight??
2007-01-06 02:13:34 · 13 answers · asked by Amber M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have been going out for a year & a half and he still will only call me once a month it seems like...I see him at school but sometimes a girl needs a little more attention than that!! I mean I'm not the type to be up a guys butt all the time but I want him to want to call me. All he does is play his dumb behind video game & then he always says I'm sry I forgot to call u....How can I get the point across w/o causing some sort of fight??
2007-01-06 06:40:51 · update #1
For that dude Chris...I'm NOT by any means too obsseded w/him!! I just think it would be nice for him to get off his video game long enough to call me before 9:40 at night when I've been sick & missed school!!
2007-01-06 06:44:22 · update #2
Simple: ASK him to call. There's nothing wrong with suggesting something. If you want him to call you more, you have a right to ask for him to do so. If he declines your proposal, either accept it or break up with him. You should never be afraid to make a suggestion, and it's always up to the other person what they decide to do with that information.
2007-01-06 02:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow, a yr and a half --- he hardly calls you? patience is truly your virtue but girls deserves more attention than a once a month call. where on earth is he? he visits you at school or goes to the same school.. its a bit confusing and suspicious if he doesnt give you a boyfriend should give as simple as a phone call... tell him, its about time.
2007-01-06 02:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by TOTALLY CONFUSED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-boyfriend didn't give me enough attention either. He ignored me in school, told me all these lies, and when we talked over the phone, he acted like I was wasrting his time or something. I dealt with that crap for 1 month... and then I had to leave him. You deserve way more, and if he can't give you what you need... Leave him! Don't waist your life on a dumb a.s.s
2007-01-06 02:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. Just tell him that you miss him at night and you need someone to talk to. Maybe there's things you went to tell/ask him when you're not in school or you forget. I hope this works because I think I'm going to try it to. Good luck!
2007-01-06 02:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by tadpole 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him how you feel, and if he still calls you once a month break up with him, he's not showing you enough love
2007-01-06 02:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by boehlingsfam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've stated your point well, and should say exactly the same thing to him. If he does get angry, I'd take a serious look at the relationship. You might be just spinning your wheels with this guy and going nowhere.
2007-01-06 02:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont seem he really like you... shool is not enough for a relationship... if after a year it's still enough for him to see you at school you should find someone who pay more attention to you
2007-01-06 02:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by naindesign 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a friendship more than a relationship. Just my opinion.
2007-01-06 02:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by simply_ch0c0late 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day when ya'll are flirting and the feeling and conversation between ya'll is light and happy, just kinda slip it in. "I'd love it if you called me more" But smile and flirtatious when you say it. That way he doesn't think you're mad.
2007-01-06 02:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by CAlifORniABABBAYY 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Wow..You need to break up with him..If you're craving attention from him that bad, he'll start avoiding you. News flash, guys don't really like calling girls everyday. Loosen up a bit.
2007-01-06 02:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by ez kid 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋