Please an ansewr other than move on.?
My ex is soo distant .?
my ex is stressed out. he is really sxcare dof me and others . having panic attacks and hates being out the house. we used to be soo in love then it went wrong and i used threats and so did he which as messed everything up. i wnat thingsto work out . at the moment he says hes terrified of seeing himself with me or anyone . he isnt saying he loves me but he also is saying he doesnt love anyone not even himself. i have chased him and have kept phoning which i know i shouldnt isit to late for me to do whats right. i love him i know he did me its just all this i dont know what to do. please dont say move on. k knoew that allt hats stopping us is the past.
2007-01-06 02:15:40 · 4 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like it's very stressful right now. It might be good to take a break for at least a few weeks. Find things to do with friends, find things to do that you enjoy. In the future, keep everything very calm and easy with your ex. It sounds like he's having problems with anxiety. If you get a chance later on, you might tell him that a doctor might have medicine that can help him.
2007-01-06 02:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by Faith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine had a harsh falling out with the love of her life when she was in her early twenties. Though they desperately wanted to stay together, they realized that they needed some time apart. Last month, after almost 30 years, they finally married. She had already been married, had children who where fully grown, built a career, a life, traveled, everything. And now she has everything she wants and needs.
Don't let this mess keep you from living your life. It sounds like your ex needs some space while he figures things out, and it won't hurt for you to take some time for yourself, get your life on the happy track. If you are meant to be together, you will be together. And if not, then you won't waste precious time in a dead end relationship that is only going to end in both parties getting hurt. I know it seems like it can, but your love can't heal this.
2007-01-06 10:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by IamBatman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to have this type of confusion and to have complications like this..if this guy were interested in being together, there would be no question for you to be asking..if you are unwilling to move on, then it just means that for some reason you are enjoying the misery and complications or hoping to "fix" him...you are rejecting the only answer that you know is the correct one....move on...
2007-01-06 10:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is having panic attacks, then he needs to relax a lot.Give him time and leave him alone for some time. He will be back to normal.
2007-01-06 10:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋