Am I normal in wanting to save myself for someone special, if it is that rare?
2007-01-06 23:12:28 · 31 answers · asked by Mr. Shadow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please do save yourself, being that yes it is rare to have a man in his 20's saving himself for marriage in the society that we live in today, if a woman has the choice to wait then why can't a man. I truely wished that I would have waited, but what can you do when your young. Anyways, don't ever let anyone put you down for that, they just don't know what true love is.
2007-01-06 23:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by natali3x3 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
It might be rare, but it's extremely admirable that you have the self-discipline to do that, so don't let anyone tell you any different. I'm 21 and and lost my virginity when I was 20 and still feel like I should have waited (even though I'm engaged to the guy). Whoever you choose to do it with first, she will probably be honored that you waited for someone special and she may have been waiting for that someone too. A lot of guys want it early and often for no reason other than physical, but really, how stupid is that? Good for you :)
2007-01-06 23:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by Grace1228 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
WHAT????????? you nonetheless a virgin on your 20's ?????????????? Now this marvel might want to be taken 2 techniques. yet for my section you're a very sensible guy, why is it that all of us needs to hurry into human being issues. you'll comprehend even as the time is sweet and after all its meant to be particular which lately is basically portion of the traditional ingredient to do. so the what's a marvel to work out that someone is honestly a virgin nonetheless at that age, yet nonetheless you may experience happy with your self and by no ability let society make u do issues which they imagine is commonplace. it truly is what you imagine is sweet and commonplace to objective this's the numerous ingredient, in easy words because you may stay your human being life no longer them stay it for you. nicely carried out your father and mom could be happy with you :o)
2016-12-28 07:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by cleaves 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because there is not alot of guys that are not virgins does not make you a freak! You are genuine and rare!!! So...be proud of that!!! The girl that gets to experience your special moment is a very lucky girl!!
2007-01-06 23:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u saving urself is very sweet and genuine 'lucky girl'most guys believe that u become a man once u have sex,others follow friends that has had sex and they dnt wanna feel abnormal and ashamed,other guys are just curious,us woman feel strongly and emotionaly bout sex,for guys its all bout sex!So majority guys loses their virginity in their teen yrs,very rare in their 20To be one!Be proud
2007-01-07 00:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by Cassý 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there, YES save yourself for someone special, It can be the hardest thing to do, but you might miss out on that someone special if you don't. You will be rewarded for your effort.
2007-01-06 23:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by treb67 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you're normal. sex doesn't define who we are so it makes no difference if you've done it or not. I commend you for waiting. Too many people lose their virginity when they are young and really regret it later, you're saving it for someone who really loves you and you love, that'll make you beyond normal and really special. Don't let anyone ever tell you what you ought to do, do whats right for you.
2007-01-06 23:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
How refreshing. I hope it is not as rare as one thinks today. Hold on to that virginity and keep away from the HIV ect. Just think how much more that special will be.
2007-01-06 23:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong with that buddy. I have only one person that I have been with and that is because I originally thought I would marry her. I will not do it again with someone until I feel strongly enough to marry them. I have had plenty of opportunities as well. In this day and age its better off. Way too many diseases and set-backs.
2007-01-06 23:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by Jonny 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for you to save yourself for someone special as I am doing the same thing. I think you should have sex (for the first time) with your special someone.
2007-01-06 23:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋