Family & Relationships - 6 January 2007

What answer to give to a man who is 31 years you older and who said to
you:
"Dear, there are so many jobs in the area where I live. Some needs
qualifications, and some do not. Move in with me, and get a job with
the largest salary you can, because I am looking for a soulmate,
a partner, and a lover. Be quick, because I am considering 4 others, they are slim, blond, professional, but you are my number one on the list."

2007-01-06 21:44:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell me something about.....what i ask...?
i hope...everyone.....will...do that..
thanks

2007-01-06 21:43:51 · 14 answers · asked by ananya 1 in Friends

I think it is very disrespectful for a man/woman in a serious relationship to go to a strip club. I don't think it is fair for a person to admire another persons body in a sexual type of way when they should be enjoying their partner's body instead. My fiance' thinks it is not wrong to go to a strip club, he says it's just a show for entertainment. I think it's ok to go ONCE just to see what it's like. Everyone is curious, however after that it's just wrong in my opinion. What do YOU think? Keep in mind I'm not a jelous person except when it comes to that.

2007-01-06 21:43:06 · 16 answers · asked by SHY 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 21:42:05 · 8 answers · asked by raja n 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been with my girlfriend who is 30 now for 4 years. I'm 35. she has two children from a previous and we bought a house together some 2 years ago. my problem is that she has changed in the last year or so. she has turned into somebody who cannot accept criticism and generally does as she pleases. she has always liked to party and now is prepared to stay out all night and do so in the knowledge i am at home looking after 'our' children (she doesn't want more kids despite telling me different for the first couple of years). she is stubborn and doesn't budge on anything at all. She lost her job a few months ago and has done temp stuff for a few days in that time. The house is generally untidy and i work 50-60 hours a week. I tidy the kitchen most nights after work to 'help' she spends much time with her friends and theres always excuses or reasons to party! Talking presents no long term solutions. Does she REALLY want to be with me or just want the benefits of 'living with me'?

2007-01-06 21:40:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

as you can tell from the question, i am very bored and would like some new friends lol i dont care if ur a guy or a girl but can you be my friend..... please? my email address is cale411_pies4ever@hotmail.com yes i know it is a very odd email but yeah im very lonely lol so can u guys please add me or email me or whatever is good, thanks in advance
ps im not perverted and i dont plan on stalking or molesting any of you lol

2007-01-06 21:40:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Help me out with this male body language please.
My boyfriend will
1-Stand in front of me while im sitting and talk to me while looking down at me
2-He will start biting his nails after we kiss or cuddle
3-He's always trying to look me straight in the eyes but I've never really been comfortable looking people directly in the eyes so why does he do this?
4-If we're play fighting or something he always has to end up the winner or the one who restrains
5-He's always saying things like "if you do that again imma tackle you but I'd do it gently"
6-And we just started (french kissing) and when we're kissing he's always pushing his tounge in my mouth even when I'll back away a bit (where usually laying down watchin a movie when that happens)
7-And we will be sitting down like on a bad and he'll like playfully push me down onto the bed and lay all his weight on me.

What does all this mean please help meh I've googled it but I found nothing helpful-
Thanks-Ashley~

2007-01-06 21:39:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 21:38:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend's son is 14 yrs of age. He often visits my home. Whenever he comes to my place, he wants me to wear diffenrent shades of Lipstick. He wants to be present near the mirror when I apply Lipstick. Is this behaviour normal? Why is he doing so? Shall I encourage this?

2007-01-06 21:37:23 · 23 answers · asked by lisa_roy36 1 in Friends

I'm looking for a good movie that has conversations where it is obvious that the man is using rapport to mirror the women's body language etc.

Scenes that I can learn from would be great.

2007-01-06 21:36:40 · 6 answers · asked by Maggs 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 21:36:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 21:35:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How about going down with her to see what kind of sea creatures we both share in common? I'm not an octopus on a first date, but if she wants to have a wet dream, I'm not going to be shellfish!

2007-01-06 21:35:49 · 5 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5 in Singles & Dating

is it normal for your ex to tell you he/she still loves you but then a few days later (and after no contact) he/she acts like he hates you and says it? is this normal in divorce, or what does it mean?? my feelings have remained steady, like i'm sad but know its the best thing to do and i stay fairly calm when around my ex...so whats up with the emoional swings?

2007-01-06 21:34:46 · 19 answers · asked by dianek 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-06 21:34:18 · 19 answers · asked by Mr. Kinky 1 in Singles & Dating

Not boobs, but the little belly bit all soft and smooth protruding just slightly. Why don't I like flat tummies ?

2007-01-06 21:34:01 · 18 answers · asked by chillipope 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 21:34:01 · 6 answers · asked by nick0rox 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, well the first question I asked didn't and wasnt what I ment to make it seem like, ok, sorry let's do this agian. I'm 18 and I graduated already I live in Las Vegas, and when I was young, I was sexually molested, and then well I grew up and this is who I came to be now, well I once dated a guy who was 20 at the time I was with him for a while and we were just eff buddies, and I dont know after some stupid drama it was over after that like that! I noticed that I diserved better and havent been with anyone since and well it's been about one year and eight months since I've dated or kissed anyone to be honest. I've never been on a date either, nor have I ever recieved a Valintine's gift, I know I'm beautiful and I have NO idea on why I posted that lame question, but my question is does my past have something to do with me being single now? Kind of long sorry :-[

Another thing is that I'm also mean to men sometimes, and I think i blame them for my past, but I changed that kind of.

2007-01-06 21:33:02 · 15 answers · asked by natali3x3 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 21:32:20 · 4 answers · asked by lilly l 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 21:32:04 · 12 answers · asked by Ellie W 3 in Family

what can i do to make it better i am going to make the party on thursday and invited all these guy but i dont want it to go bad like last time .there were p i want to know what towear eople throwing food on others and i was trying to kiss a guy but a girl told me they were throwing food and it just went bad i cant talk about it but this time i want to know what to wear , what to bring to eat and how to make the decorations

2007-01-06 21:30:47 · 7 answers · asked by lover 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 21:30:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you know when it comes to a relation ship.

2007-01-06 21:30:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am a filipiana who worked in other country and met a american before i went back here in the philippines im pregnant and now i just want to know if our baby could possibly use his last name or can have american citizenship even our baby will be born here in the philippines and even were not yet married since he is still working on his divorce. thanks a lot!

2007-01-06 21:30:30 · 10 answers · asked by sweetbaby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, I am going thru a divorce, and I was at my ex's house (my stuff still there, he wont let me take anything untill there is a court order to allow me) and I was trying to talk to him about some agreements and how we can get along better especially for our kids...anyways, he starts doing that blamming bullcrap that i did this and this and thats why our marriage failed...so, i look over and i see on this bookshelf the container that he kept his steroid pills in (and yes its the illegal ones) and he said he "sold them" when we were battling the drug issues in court. anyway, i got so fed up with him telling me how i messed everything up...i grabbed that container and said "no, THIS is why YOU f**ked up..and i flushed the pills down the toilet before he could stop me. some of them missed and fell on the floor and he was picking them up like he was a tweeker. so now he is REALLY pissed off at me, and this shouldnt be used against me in court should it? wait...he would be a complete idiot..

2007-01-06 21:29:39 · 7 answers · asked by dianek 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-06 21:29:12 · 25 answers · asked by Ellie W 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, well the first question I asked didn't and wasnt what I ment to make it seem like, ok, sorry let's do this agian. I'm 18 and I graduated already I live in Las Vegas, and when I was young, I was sexually molested, and then well I grew up and this is who I came to be now, well I once dated a guy who was 20 at the time I was with him for a while and well you can say I was hooking up with different people while I was with I'm, but we were just eff buddies, and I dont know after some stupid drama it was over after that like that! I noticed that I diserved better and havent done anything bad since and well it's been about one year and eight months since I've dated or kissed anyone to be honest. I know I'm beautiful and I have NO idea on why i posted that lame question, but my question is does my past have something to do with me being single now and acting the way I did before? Kind of long sorry :-[

2007-01-06 21:28:24 · 7 answers · asked by natali3x3 2 in Singles & Dating

his ex on the day of her wedding? Especially when she told him not to call because it would be disrespectful.

2007-01-06 21:27:33 · 10 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

want to try differnt areas u can do it in

2007-01-06 21:27:27 · 9 answers · asked by Kruschiv 1 in Singles & Dating

Well going to have my first time dont have an idea what to do

2007-01-06 21:25:14 · 14 answers · asked by Kruschiv 1 in Singles & Dating