Well going to have my first time dont have an idea what to do
2007-01-06 21:25:14 · 14 answers · asked by Kruschiv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the girl is a virgin
2007-01-06 21:30:23 · update #1
Make it all about her, dont rush it. Spend alot of time on foreplay and try not to be too nervous. Just enjoy it, you might not be fantastic your first time but then there's the fun of practicing next time. Goodluck
2007-01-06 21:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hope you aren't just pinking anybody so you can get your first time! If it's someone you know and like and care about, or want to and have some trust in, you could try telling her. Many girls/women find shy guys or virgins charming. It's possible she might be one....
Assuming you've done some nice playing around and some good petting (preferably heavy), it's all foreplay. So just keep it up and gentley trying to get there. Those with a standard routine really don't much care, so if it seems awkward and clumsy and there's somelaughing and you end up both feeling good, that's what matters!!! I sure remember the first time I had sex (not makeing love) and it was good, but the first time I really cared about who I was with was terrible phisically and absolutely wonderful emotionally and spiritually. I'd never felt that kind of closeness in my life. I'd always wondered what the big deal was before that. I sure found out. My wife and I have been together nearly 24 years.
I almost always feel that same incredible closeness when we make love and lots of the time it spills over to everything else.; It's one of the things that keeps people together - reminds them WHY!
2007-01-07 05:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by sirsmoss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch a bit of porn- for learning purposes only! These days you can just look these things up on the Internet because there is SO MUCH on the subject! Otherwise just go with the flow I guess.
Make sure you use protection okay.
Edit: Oh wait- reading other peoples posts reminded me to say that if she's a virgin too- don't go rushing anything!
2007-01-07 05:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by claireybearyfairy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to keep in mind is that you want it to be special and memorable. If this is your first time then go slow and believe me doing things will come natural. You can light candles, you can have romantic music, you can take a small feather and stroke her with it, there is nothing more romantic than romantic actions. Remember that.
2007-01-07 05:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by yutrppn45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok man, if it is her first time to then just have fun with it honestly. You will both have no clue what to do other than the end result so just start with a little fore-play then move in. If you are well-endowed it may hurt her a little if its her first so be gentle otherwise have fun with it.
2007-01-07 05:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first time is NOT the time to be creative! Just take it slow, try and be as non-invasive as possible under the circumstances and make her feel as if this is her time...you can get your ya-ya's out at a later date; you sound as if you just cracked the eggshell yesterday, anyway!
2007-01-07 05:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, see what kind of girls she is, if she is a virgin, then try something slow and romantic. if she is more experience than you, let her take control and just enjoy the ride.
2007-01-07 05:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas Le 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What so simple just wore a condom bcoz to avoid diseases and remove ur dress and her dress and have sex in different angles.and i can stil in more detail , but it wil be not nice to tel in so detail ok once u do u wil get to know. but i havent tried it .
2007-01-07 05:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by manju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow "fuzzle master"'s advise....LOL...
Well just find a hole between her legs.... and anything which standup between your legs shall enter into girl's hole.
You want to know further...OK...now keep removing and inserting your thing into her hole...till some liquid is released from your thing...
Have fun....
2007-01-07 05:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by GS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you best leave sex alone for now. Gop to moives instead. Live your life and stop thinking about sex...she may bring you trouble in paradise.
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