I think it is very disrespectful for a man/woman in a serious relationship to go to a strip club. I don't think it is fair for a person to admire another persons body in a sexual type of way when they should be enjoying their partner's body instead. My fiance' thinks it is not wrong to go to a strip club, he says it's just a show for entertainment. I think it's ok to go ONCE just to see what it's like. Everyone is curious, however after that it's just wrong in my opinion. What do YOU think? Keep in mind I'm not a jelous person except when it comes to that.
2007-01-06 21:43:06 · 16 answers · asked by SHY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's wrong period. I think they should all be burned. I don't agree with either of them-male or female strip clubs. What a waste of time and energy-time could be better spent admiring and supporting a good friend, and sexual energy should be reserved for your spouse only-ALL of your sexual energy. It's totally natural for us to admire beauty-but...I just don't agree with these places...it's like a brothel to me...a whorehouse...and you know that 'you can pay for it', in most of those places-if you take it 'outside' the joint. What is there to be curious about? How you are going to feel? You know how you will feel seeing someone strip tease-it's a turn on-you already know what that feels like right??? I just don't see the point-even in 'recreation'. I don't agree also-based on religion too.
2007-01-06 21:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by Little Jeannie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your fiance' is like a lot of men, 'uncommited to their lover'.
When a man 'truly' loves a woman (and visa-versa) there should
'never' be any need OR desire to go to these places!
His 'excuse' because that's what it is, is paramount in a man's
world. Some men have a 'sick' sense of sexuality and relationships, just as your fiance' does.
I have seen and know of people who have split up, and/or devorced over this same problem.
So 'if' it isn't any big deal (as your fiance' seems to think) then he must also have a 'sordid veiw' as to why this type of behavior causes breakups.
Bottom Line, you need to think about your future with this guy, and to be quite honest with you, you deserve 'better' than him!!
If this is his way of thinking now, I guarentee he'll (secretly) go
to these places after you are married.
Don't say you haven't been warned!!
2007-01-07 06:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm married and my husband has gone a few times with his brother. (3 times in 4 years) It's really not that big of a deal. If he wanted to go once a week we would have words...
If it really bothers you, you need to talk to him before you get married. Something like that can lead to other problems in the marriage. And you deserve to be happy.
2007-01-07 05:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by MotherMayI? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stippers is entertaiment for Men, so why would he want to take his wife or girlfriend to a strip club is beyond me.
Just about every girl on there dancing is on Cocaine so if you got the powder honey they got the time.
2007-01-07 05:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you really think about it, whats the big deal.. It's not like if you took him he'd leave with one of the girls he saw dancin.. it's just a strip club and not anything more then that, keep an open mind with him and take him there at least just once so he can experience that and you should not be jealous, there is nothing to be jealous of.. their just women :) :) :)
2007-01-07 05:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it is entertainment but if u trust ur man then there is no problem. now if he is going every night........kick his ***. if it is once in a blue, let him enjoy it, just let him know u can look but don't touch. a good idea is to strip fro him and sees if that makes him stay home.
2007-01-07 05:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by blueygirly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i totally agree its not right to go if u have a partner those places are usually for singles plus by going to those places things never end good
2007-01-07 05:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by Barbie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband used to go to them for lunch..LMAO when we first got together and a few times after we were married.. I told him to stop and that if he didn't he might as well move out.. He quit.. I wouldnt tolerate it..neither should u
2007-01-07 05:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most strippers are coke and crack whores. They only want money, the guys want a ego boost. Tell him to stay away.
2007-01-07 05:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's wrong, you're right about admiring and enjoying only your spouse.
2007-01-07 05:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋