Ok, well the first question I asked didn't and wasnt what I ment to make it seem like, ok, sorry let's do this agian. I'm 18 and I graduated already I live in Las Vegas, and when I was young, I was sexually molested, and then well I grew up and this is who I came to be now, well I once dated a guy who was 20 at the time I was with him for a while and well you can say I was hooking up with different people while I was with I'm, but we were just eff buddies, and I dont know after some stupid drama it was over after that like that! I noticed that I diserved better and havent done anything bad since and well it's been about one year and eight months since I've dated or kissed anyone to be honest. I know I'm beautiful and I have NO idea on why i posted that lame question, but my question is does my past have something to do with me being single now and acting the way I did before? Kind of long sorry :-[
2007-01-06 21:28:24 · 7 answers · asked by natali3x3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no I dont think so..just dont cheat when you get a bf and stick to 1 guy
2007-01-06 21:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it probably does. If you are in a serious relationship again and want to avoid promiscuity, look for alternative ways other than screwing around to satisfy yourself. Some women just self pleasure themselves, some do it on here, or a dating site. But, yes, being molested can lead to promiscuous behaviour. Unless you want an open relationship that is all I can suggest. Nite.
2007-01-07 05:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your past has nothing to do with it. People like to blame the past on everything. But you can see a guy grow up in a really good home with plenty of discapline and money and grow up to be a druggy drunk or nutjob. So you have to grow up and learn what you like for yourself. You become your own person people don't change the way your brain works.
2007-01-07 05:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure i mean it sounds like you didn't feel worthy or i guess you were too afraid to have a happy healthy relationship. so you settled for being eff buddies cause you want the closeness but you don't want the pain that comes with a relationship. we see ourselves the ways others see us. and yeah people don't change the way our brains work.. but how they treat us can affect how we feel emotionally. you seem to be moving forward though so just keep moving forward and remember that the past is the past it isn't your fault that that happened to you.
2007-01-07 05:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forget the past and move on, just try not to make the same mistakes again.
2007-01-07 05:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well like u said earlier, "lets start over". i really think u should start things all over again. starting over again n bn sincere with who so ever u wish 2 start with. whosoever doesn't mean any kind of guy. it means starting with a decent kind of person, one who will believe and thrust u whenever, wherever & however. luck.
2007-01-07 05:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by aigberua ayotunde 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're 18... you're supposed to be single. Have fun, life gets way too serious way too fast.
2007-01-07 05:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by trk_drvr_otr 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋