What answer to give to a man who is 31 years you older and who said to?

Question

What answer to give to a man who is 31 years you older and who said to
you:
"Dear, there are so many jobs in the area where I live. Some needs
qualifications, and some do not. Move in with me, and get a job with
the largest salary you can, because I am looking for a soulmate,
a partner, and a lover. Be quick, because I am considering 4 others, they are slim, blond, professional, but you are my number one on the list."

"Make sure the job you find here is good, for I am in no position to support you."

Answer 1

dear, if u r a female then listen,whats that man is trying to do is concubine u.then what? he tries to give u a job which needs a qual-" it must be job of personal secretary" or which doesn't needs any qualif-" like a brothel gal or a part-time whore".

All i wanna say is this man wants to use u out of ur best.
Listen, if he really loves u then he won't say "move in and 'get a job with largest salary u can'", because he's showing that u really need money and he needs urs too.
If he's really interested in u , he won't say " i am considering 4 others". and the fact that" but u are my number ine on the list" is a lie.he should have told the same to all those 4 gals that they r the no. 1 on his list so that he can use all of u to his maximum benefits.
I can't tell u for what he wants to use for , but there's something definitely u'll dislike about it, and he knows it, so he's hiding it from u. If he really loves u and has faith on it, why will he hide? he'll rather explain u everything and keeps asking "anymore questions?"
what do u think? all the best and wish u good luck in making ur decision.

Answer 2

SEE YOU NEXT YEAR! xo EDIT: Oh, wait, I read the question. I think said "girl" should be allowed to date a bit before an arranged marriage like this. Something is not right here. Was the mother paid off? Does the girl have "issues" and this is the best her mom feels she can get? This just seems unsavory. Though, 100 years ago, such arrangements were common in the US. Sometimes the guys were much older.

Answer 3

Tell him to go to the next girl on the list. If he's looking for a soulmate, why does he need you to get the largest salary you can? This guy sounds like a loser in every way possible.

Answer 4

tell him to get a life, you dont need to up root your life to apease an old man!! think about this eventually you will be pushin his *** in a wheel chair and wipin his butt... ha no fun...... Im more than sure that you are a great person and you dont need to be compaired to 3 other chicks or put on a list of whos acceptable and who isnt... Life is to short to live for someone else unless you are truly in love with the person so as it may be, live life for yourself to the fullest until you find someone to compleate you!!

Answer 5

Well seems like hes conning you, hes looking at others and just trying to get of them with him. Not interested in what he claims,hes selfish and wanting a hot young chcik to parade around and use as his trophy, which women are not meant to be.

Answer 6

Definitely get a detailed job description, vacation, med/dental benefits, and ask for his health records just to make sure his "equipment" works.

Answer 7

Tell him you want to be with someone who wants to be with you, and you alone, and that since he's considering 4 others you know it's not true love.

Answer 8

Are you serious? This fellow is not a keeper, although some people, whether able or not, do not support each other.

Answer 9

check for health benifits and typical hazards of the job.

Answer 10

I would tell him to just go with one of the other four he has in mind and then I would kindly let him know to ***** off :) :) :)