He avoids me. How do I approach him? I know that he likes me. But don't know that can he get over it.
2007-01-06 23:17:08 · 12 answers · asked by LotsaQs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to him....try to get him alone and talk to him...say that u dont want to lose a friendship or get a friendship ruined because of it(wateva that make the relationship turn bad)....tell him that u miss the good old times...that u want it back...
2007-01-07 20:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by Alicia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is still on the healing process... He wants space so that he can get over you... If you want him back, then make the first move, since he is avoiding you... Try to approach him... Everything else follows... Does that makes sense? Sorry I am expert on relationships, just trying to give you an advice.. :)
2007-01-07 08:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by lia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have done something, apologize. Ask to please sit down with him that you have something you want to say. Tell him you value your friendship and if you have done anything, apologize. Tell him you want to remain friends even if you know it won't be the same. You don't want him avoiding you. If you made a mistake, ask him to forgive you. If it was him, then tell him you forgive him.None of us are perfect, that you just want his forgiveness or you forgive him and you want to remain friends.
It is up to him whether or not he accepts your invitation. All you can do is wait for his response. You can be there if he accepts. Just smile at him when you see him. Only you know what happened to end the friendship. Be honest and communicate. Hugs to you. Best wishes.
2007-01-07 07:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask yourself why is he avoiding you? If you want a friendship back you must have had it at one time, so the question is "What did you do" that is where to start to resolve the issue.
2007-01-07 07:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am not sure of your personality, but the easiest and hardest way to do it is be honest with him and put it all out there. Tell him how you feel and what you'd like to see happen. Do not be afraid of rejection because then you'll never have the courage to do it.
2007-01-07 07:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Mojo Risin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes u how come he avoids u...
just ask yourself if he likes u he want to be near u forever... don't approach him let him approach to u
2007-01-07 07:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your situation is like mine my very best friend is avoiding me because of what I have done to her......I think you should approach him when he is alone and try to ask him what's wrong and say sorry.......;-)
2007-01-07 08:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by ChoEEy ChocO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat eva you do do not get into an argument about it.. send him an sms about friend ship and say your sorry for water you did... even if you did nothing and say you really miss being friends and it would be great if things could go back to the way they were
2007-01-07 07:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by noonoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well walk up and say hi, by the way what is it he can't get over
2007-01-07 07:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want him back as a friend and that you miss him and ask if he is ok with it
2007-01-07 07:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by pretty1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋