i found a new friend but kind of analyser idont like it, he first told me people that are skinny are moody, i took it lightly n simply told "well i dont know the criteria u use to say sm one is skinny cos i dont consider myself skinny n to make matters good im not moody", as if that was not enough he said people that walk first get annoyed so first. Remember all these general analysis came from nowhere but told me he is a scientist. i ditaste that kind of a friend that seem to categorise ur physical appearance with negative stuff. i like him as afriend but he is kind of a friend that knows how to put medown. This guy is short and have not told him that short people are short tempered. wat do i do, i feel like going after him n let him know abt the character attached to his physical appereance. plis help
2007-01-06 21:48:08 · 7 answers · asked by Ruth M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he sounds like he lacks life experience and maturity. It is really hard to open someones mind when they are like that, just dont hesitate to express how short sighted his views are and dont let his assumptions influence your thinking!
2007-01-06 21:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by S W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?!! SHORT PEOPLE ARE NOT SHORT TEMPERED!! I'M SHORT AND I HAVE A HEALTHY TEMPER!! Naw, i'm just playing. You need to tell him that you really don't appreciate his generalizing points of views and you'd like him to not make those comments around you. You can reword it to make it nicer, but that's just what I'd say.
2007-01-07 05:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him u dont like the way he speaks. if he's ur friend u got to be frank..if he belittles u just tell him you dont like it.if he can be so open about his opinion about other ppl so can you about his. There's nothing rude about it.and that's the right thing to do too
[and if u dont mind being a lil rude honey , just tell him his attitude stinks]
2007-01-07 06:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by nivya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes putting you down hes not a friend
2007-01-07 05:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a guy that is tooooo full of himself....
ask him to prove these theories... and if he can't ...tell him to P OFF and take his so called scientific answers back to the peanut gallery
2007-01-07 05:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must like to put you down to avoid his insecurities. Time to call him stumpy!
2007-01-07 05:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the right time to tell now.
2007-01-07 05:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by horizon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋