Whats the difference between the two and which do u prefer?
2007-01-06 22:05:07 · 21 answers · asked by Bridget H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both are great. Mood depending. Right now....sex I guess.
The diff is sex is more physical and urgent, while making love involves affection and tenderness, as well as greater focus on your lover.
2007-01-06 22:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you just have sex...that's all there is to it...the act of doing it for the outcome, the pleasure at the the end and the pleasure is over when the act is done. When you make love to someone, the pleasure is in the giving, receiving, the kissing and embracing..the feelings leading up to it. It's an all encompassing feeling. There's emotion and passion. There is a feeling there that doesn't go away after. It's like a song and there's a rhythm. It's sweet and sincere. When making love, there is usually eye contact and sweet whispers. There's a connection there. Although 'making love' sounds lame, that's what I prefer.
2007-01-06 22:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The difference is the emotion that you attach to the person. If you have absolutely no emotions for the person that you are effing, then it is just sex. If you are in love with someone and you know for sure they are in love with you, then the sex will be much more intense and it creates a greater bond between you and the other person. That is when you are making love. When you have no mutual agreement in place, then everything you are doing is just sex. I personally prefer to be making love because it is so much more intense!
2007-01-06 22:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the difference is making love you put all your emotions and affection into love making, Sex is just that, its give it to me and your done. In a relationship you will do and have both it all depends on the moment and the mood your in. So to answer your question, i prefer both because you will never just want making love you also will want just a quickie.
2007-01-07 00:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by P_a94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they are two faces of the same coin but i prefer to call it making love cause having sex feels like a machine cause it includes alot of feeling of the partner and u must feel the other person need to have a good sex
2007-01-06 22:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by clueless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is just an all out crazy screwfest (which can be fun). Making love is slow and sensual, and can take hours. I prefer to make love, as it's more meaningful and gratifying.
2007-01-06 22:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jack S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
making love is an experience two people share on a emotional level not just sex, sex is just fun for the moment with no feelings
each are good in the right setting
2007-01-06 22:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by jokerswild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex to me is jus that,a casual thing that has no real deep meaning,making love is with that someone special and the memories that will continue on from the experience,also knowing how to make each other feel loved,special and desired is an unreal feeling,making love is by far the better,for me anyway
2007-01-06 22:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by delboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when making love you love somebody and its more intimate. You caress the girl and make her feel special, taking your time and plasuring her. Having sex you just go to a party or club find some whore and f**k the sh*t out of her.
2007-01-06 22:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just like having sex because I have no desire to be i a relationship and to make love you need to be in a relationship.
They are both great though
2007-01-08 04:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋