I am.......it sucks....i wish i wasnt......she has moved on.....but still calls me just to mess with my head.......she thinks im her insurance just in case she breaks up with her boyfriend.
2007-01-06 21:48:31 · 21 answers · asked by John D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I probably used to be 'just like your ex.' My brother once made a remark about me 'having this guy or that guy' 'on the side'...like as a back-up or something.
I finally realized it was sort of true. Not altogether true because a lot of guys I only wanted to be friends with and it never went further than that, but in a way-in not wanting to hurt their feelings, or lose their friendship-I may have led them on. I was always honest and truthful and many times these guys just wouldn't listen-because it wasn't what they wanted to hear.
You may not be her insurance. You may just be a true friend...but for whatever reason she wanted to see what this other person was like.
I know how it is to still be in love with an Ex. I still have feelings for my last boyfriend OMG...and it's been a few years now, and I have also moved on and gotten married. I still wonder about him, and probably always will.
If she's messing with your head, you should just tell her you're confused, and repeat what she's said and ask her to explain it (women like explaining things anyways) lol...
See if she's just afraid to lose you as a friend, reassure her you will always be her friend and she doesn't need to flirt with you or 'mess with your head'. Just lay down the rules.
2007-01-06 21:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by Little Jeannie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you always will be, unfortunately. When you truly love someone I don't believe you every get over it. Time does heal the pain. If you don't feel you are ready to move into another relationship I would suggest that you find something to take up your time, stay busy. Don't let her mess with you head, that just keeps the wound open and prolongs the pain. Good Luck
2007-01-07 06:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by Redhead 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am & it hurts so damn bad. This the frist time anyone ever broke up with me, and he said it was for my own good, and at the end of the call he said, 'Hey I love you, dont you ever forget that.' Who does that kind of thing. I don't know if I'm insurance I know that there aren't any woman were he's at in Iraq. But I definetly feel used.
2007-01-07 05:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of women do that to keep their "insurance policies" around...I myself am guilty of doing that in the past...Tell her you do not want to hear from or see her again...change your phone number ... but beware..when you stand up to her she will probably say she made a mistake and say she wants to try and work things out....She really doesn't ...it is just another tactic to keep you hanging on....Accept that it is over and move on!
2007-01-07 05:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am... me and my boyfriend were together for awhile
and everything was absolutly perfect.. well i thought
it was.. one day he was at my house just hanging out
& then just left!! i was soo confused. he ignored my
phone calls for 2 monthes. well then me and my friend
were by his house and decided to stop. it was soo akward
he looked at me once and then hid behind the door and talked
to my friend..
he finally answered the next time i called him ;; i found out that
he had been cheating on me for 2 weeks and was sick of hiding
it from me, so running away was the best option..he recently had
surgerey over christmas and i found out from one of his friends
i was going to go and visit him by a surprise, but i wasnt sure how
he would react, so i called.
nothing is the same as it used to be. i prolly wouldnt go w/ him
again, just because he lied to me. and it takes alot to gain that
back from me
i hope yuor situation works out tho.. you are not alone
peace & blessings.
2007-01-07 05:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by chelsღ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea, pick me. I dated my ex for 4 years we broke up and i havnt gotten her outta my head once...it freaking sucks i hate it so much....man i feel your pain....i have been trying to move on but every girl i date i just compare to her and they dont even come close. IT FREAKING SUCKS!!!!!
2007-01-07 05:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y u break up if you still love her.. so in that situation i would just talk to a new girl... start something new...
2007-01-07 05:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to marie. she brings up iraq in all her questions and answers.she is no good and needs to grow up.
2007-01-07 06:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by mr_ignorant2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am definitly my cok gets hard just thinking of her I miss her so much and want her to see the better man I am she willl be proud to of my heath is better
2007-01-07 05:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by As Good As I Once Was 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not me. that is what ex means. OVER. Time to move on.
2007-01-07 05:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by P.A.M. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋