2007-01-06 21:59:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let go your anger and enjoy the birth of your baby. You'll see, things will turn out for the better if you do just that.
2007-01-06 22:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not good. If your boyfriend cheated on you and you know he feels guilty, that's punishment enough for him. You don't have to make his life miserable for it. Have his baby and take it from there. Let him do the talking and don't ever keep reminding him about what he did wrong. Both of you should concentrate on being happy with your new baby.
2007-01-06 22:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by Teach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,you're not wrong. And the fact that you're about to have the baby brings up the hurt again. This won't go away. Cheating is bad but cheating when your pregnant is worse. I know several women this happened to. choose your "revenge" carefully.
2007-01-06 22:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. I have had this happen to me. I got revenge, it felt great, but it did not change that man. I came to realize no matter what I did, he was not going to change. Basically, I'm saying don't do it! It will show that you are the bigger person. The best revenge that you can get is to leave him be and move on! He'll realize how much of a jerk he was and he'll be thinking about what the hell he did that was so bad that you don't ever want to be with him (and we know what he did, but he'll act like that's not it). He'll sulk about it to his new girl and then she'll get pissed because he's constantly sulking over you!
2007-01-06 22:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you took him back after he cheated, then yes because the whole point of trying again is moving on and forgiving him, but in saying that it's a lot easier to say then do. I think you should just concentrate on your baby first and worry about your b-friend later because only a jerk would cheat on his 7 month pregnant girlfriend!
2007-01-06 22:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a reason to be angry. But getting revenge isn't going to solve anything is it? I think you should just worry about your baby, because it'll affect your child as he/she grows up seeing his/her parents not getting along.
You should do what's best for your child. Because, revenge isn't going to help you, sweetie. But maybe, if it's the kind where you move on, and you show him you're happy and you got a new lover in your life, and it makes him jealous or regret ever cheating on you. Go for it!
2007-01-06 22:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it would not sound like a topic which would be repaired. it fairly is gloomy, given the variety of babies you have with him. yet you will possibly desire to have checked his money-spending behavior a protracted time in the past. additionally, the certainty that he has no interest or the rest... that would desire to have stopped you long term in the past, until now you had babies with him. the 2d concern is which you already kicked him out two times (if I count variety properly). you could not often assume a relationship to artwork in a while (and on your case, it did not fairly artwork even until now). Such issues (breaking a relationship) might desire to be carried out once you're a hundred% specific of what you're doing and you will not substitute your concepts. And as quickly as you do it, persist with it and flow on. purely ascertain you get baby help, because of the fact that if he had 4 babies with you, he wouldn't have the skill to get out with out any effects in besides.
2016-12-15 17:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by andie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are. When you're wasting mental energy on trying to concoct the perfect revenge, you could be figuring how to better take care of yourself and your baby. He doesn't sound like he's wirth your time and he apparently feels the same way about you. I'm kind of agreeing with the both of you at this point.
2007-01-06 22:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by your_name_here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, honey I'd go for the revenge! Look what he did to you! But yeah, wait til' after you have the baby...
2007-01-06 22:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by *Manda* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no 'right' or 'wrong' in this situation...but you might consider the fact that it isn't going to help you to do something stupid, and it may not really hurt him; it might just be a hollow victory that later on comes back to bite you in the azz!
2007-01-06 22:04:12 · answer #10 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋