Family & Relationships - 6 January 2007

2007-01-06 16:19:42 · 10 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4 in Marriage & Divorce

well i was just thinking about the guy im interested and i was thinking if he was interested in me then he would have approached me and asked me out cause i would like to do that but im afraid he'll say no or something and im thinking i really feel for guys now cause it is nerve wrecking, how do you guys get the guts to do it? and if this guy hasn't come up to me does it mean he's not interested or is he nervous like i am? we smile and look at each other. all opinions welcome.

2007-01-06 16:19:41 · 9 answers · asked by latina ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Was it with someone experienced or inexperienced?

Where they older? Younger?
Also, were you in a committed relationship or not?
Do you regret it if it wasn't?

I'm still a virgin, but I would think that'd it'd be better to lose your virginity to someone that was experienced... One of us would have to know what we're doing, and it obviously wouldn't be me, haha... (I'd want the guy to be older too, but that's just my personal preference)

I'm just asking, because it's been on my mind lately...
I can't bring myself to get in a relationship with someone who I'd feel like I'd be "wasting" my first time on...

2007-01-06 16:19:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what are some sweet sayins that i can say to my girlfriend. examples would be like i cant stop thinkin about you. u kno what im sayin? like i wanna be original i dont want to say stuff that everyone knows but u could say that cuz it would help a little. i just want to get her to think im really sweet i mean i have said alot of sweet stuff before i just need some more ideas to work with, i dont wanna lose my touch

2007-01-06 16:19:26 · 6 answers · asked by lilblazex7 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I leave this spiral? I know it's unhealthy, and I know it's wrong, but I don't know how to make it stop.

I seem to be successful in many things. I've been with several dozen girls already, for what that's worth. But with attractive girls, even 7/10 and 8/10 girls, I stumble into the same damn thing. In casual conversations, looks, etc, just in casual interactions, they are not interested. They aren't receptive to what I say. I don't even flirt, just talk - still. And girls passing on the street -- I know I'm attractive, and I know I'm more interesting than the damn laundry sign and a parked truck.

But interactions with them seem to be these guarded skirmish w/ an enemy more than a possible exciting new beginning. If we date, girls fall in love. But casually, they turn away.

I want to relate to them normally, I'm tired of it being this warzone. How do I make it stop?

2007-01-06 16:18:16 · 4 answers · asked by Dasani 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I asked this girl out yesterday with great sucess. We have been goin on a couple of dates before I asked and we kissed(which I am not so great at). So next time I see her I want to give her the single most Romantic kiss ever so that she knows she made the right choice in being my girlfriend. Now Ladies what is the best way to be Kissed becasue I want my girlfriend to dream about this kiss after.

2007-01-06 16:18:15 · 11 answers · asked by Hendawg 2 in Singles & Dating

ok heres da thing ma babycheeks have been tripin about me writing love letter s 2 his cuz ok i understand but dat was a long time ago i cant understand y he cant let it go were not going out yet but he said dat he needs sum time 2 know me moren i agree with it n yea know thingz have change n i really luv him know thingz are different we dnt talk dat much n he sayz i changed him should i keep him or move on??

2007-01-06 16:17:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We met on the net chatted the first month, chatted on the phone the next month. The third month he came to visit for three days, stayed in a hotel. We clicked, went to church together prayed together. Came back after Christmas for a week, he brough me a beautiful gold necklace (heart w/diamonds) I didn't buy a present and he said that I was his present. He has been a perfect gentleman and I find that I really care about him. He is already talking about a future together, he retires Dec. We are both over 60 and plan to go on a vacation week after next to his home state. We have a lot in common and he treats me like a queen and I treat him like a king and we both believe in God, and even brought in the new Year at church together praying. We even know what each other is thinking most of the times, and laugh about it. Am I dreaming? we are both divorced, he has no children I have a grown child and grandchildren who live out of state so there are no hinderances. Appreciate your answer..

2007-01-06 16:17:38 · 12 answers · asked by Kadeezha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-06 16:17:28 · 18 answers · asked by britt s 1 in Family

we was together for 2yrs. We have been broke up for 3yrs, relly bad break up. We didnt talk at all he only seen our baby at my mom house. We broke up bacouse we was so conrolling. He only seen our baby 12 times the whole 3yrs we was broke up. Then 4 months ago he started to see our baby 1 time everyweek he told my dad that he missed me and then we tryed getting back togerher. But i could not get over our bad breakup and told him it was not going to workout. Since I see how much i really do love and want him. I want us to be a family together really bad but now it seems that he dont want that anymore and is just happy with us just being friends.He have not try to get back with me at all he is just very friendly to me.What should I do ? Should I tell him how I feel or just let go?

2007-01-06 16:17:19 · 9 answers · asked by ashlee s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Back when I was 13 years old, my step-dad who absolutly hated me, that accually isn't my step-dad anymore because my mom and him got divorced, told my mom to make choice between her keeping him as a husband or me, her first child. Ofcoarse, my mom chose him and I was kicked out and moved in with my grandma. Now, after they got divorced, my mom see's the situation in a new light and wants me to move back in with her. I told her that she had the choice of who she wanted and it wasn't me. Was that the right thing to say? Should I go back?

2007-01-06 16:15:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i went to jamaica the 21st of december his birthday is on the 23rd of dec.i didn't get to wish him happy birthday but i wrote him b4 i left.he called and left a voice mail on my phone the 24 the day after his birthday i got it 3 days later becuz i was unable to check it becuz of no service in jamaica.is that so wrong then he says i cud of at least called him.wen he has no phone........

2007-01-06 16:15:18 · 5 answers · asked by kizznay s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 16:14:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we got along wonderfully in every other aspect, but i just couldn't get excited about sex w/ him...doesn't that more or less make us just good friends? i think good sex, fun sex, looking forward to & wanting sex in a relationship is really important! what do you think?

2007-01-06 16:13:57 · 31 answers · asked by how empty of me 2 in Singles & Dating

how do you know if it is the right time to have sex? i dont know but i think i am ready. but how do you know for sure if you are ready or not?

2007-01-06 16:13:53 · 16 answers · asked by cheerleader for life 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been a damn lier,lied to a girl,and tht girl afterwards became my gf and i confessed all the lies i said once we involved and she said tht she forgave me...after 4mon. yesterday she told me about those lies once more and tht she tried hardly to forget them but she couldnt itd all like a film strip which bothers her once she remember..i've asked her a chance to make it up to her and she approved saying tht i love u and i'm gonna help u but u wont...so i got one chance with her even if i lose her and lose myself after or win her once more,what can i do coz i cant really live without her,she made me another human than tht person which i hate the most...how can i make it up to her?

2007-01-06 16:12:45 · 1 answers · asked by lancelot_sword_2005 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm Maid of Honor for my best friend and the wedding is this December 2007. I need to start planning and reading some books to give me great ideas! Any other girls out there who was/is the maid of honor (or a bridesmaid)? What are you doing right now, what books are you reading or have found to be FUN and helpful!!?? How about some cool websites you have found for bachelorette things?? Thanks girls =)

2007-01-06 16:12:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

relationsip, what does he mean? Does he mean marriage or just some shack up deal? It seems like everyone is afraid to say marriage these days.

2007-01-06 16:12:07 · 16 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

How do you seduce a guy. like any tips....

2007-01-06 16:11:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok when i first went out wit my guy he cheated and left me for this girl.Well its been over 2 years.I was on myspace and i was talking **** to this girl.we wrote back and forth and come to find out it was that girl he left me for.He seen her pic on myspace and said he didnt know her.when i found out i was pissed and my bf an i fought he said he was going to leave me cuz i didnt trust him wich wasnt the prob in this case well this girl says she is going to come visit and give him a peice of her i dont want to bring the subject up cuz i dont want him to think i dont trust him but i'm scared you see he already left me and this girl is pretty body more than face he says he loves me and would tell her to leave but he is really shy and never likes to be the bad guy PLEASE SOMEONE DO YOU THINK HE WILL CHEAT OR BE FAITHFUL if she comes our relationship has been kind of bad latly cuz of our 8 month old she takes alot of my time SHOULD I TRUST HIM HOW CAN I LET THIS GO i'm obsessed with the sub

2007-01-06 16:11:10 · 7 answers · asked by tracemiss 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I hav not too many well wishers n friends so many times i feel it. Plz Help!

2007-01-06 16:10:54 · 8 answers · asked by HEMANT K 4 in Friends

My grandparents give me gifts for Christmas. I would call them the next day to thank them for the gift, however, if I do not send a follow up "Thank you" card in the mail, my Grandmother especially will go balistic. I thought giving gifts at Christmas time was done out of love and a gift. A way to express a gift with love without any praise. Do you think a "Thank you" card, is necessary even after a call of thanks?

2007-01-06 16:10:08 · 8 answers · asked by hbuckmeister 5 in Family

what sould your main corcern in your 20's then in your 30's and in 40's

2007-01-06 16:09:21 · 17 answers · asked by robert 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriends mom and sister called my mom and told her a bunch of lies like I brainwash him against them (NOT TRUE) and a whole bunch of other lies. I have tried to be "the better person" and not said anything to them(my dad said that would be the right thing to do) but I am seriously RAGING about it. I seriously want to go off an both of them.......Any suggestions?

2007-01-06 16:09:11 · 8 answers · asked by queenbeckroe 1 in Family

Any ideas? No nonsense like naked waitresses or stripper pls.

2007-01-06 16:09:05 · 9 answers · asked by Eddy W 1 in Singles & Dating

ok I really like this boy and he likes me but we havent told eatchother yet. We heard that we like eatcother from ''a source''
and I know that he wants to go out but we're afaird what are freinds will think. I'm popular and so is he, but we're not that mean kind of popular we're like the popular kids that are nice to people. Plus im 12 do you think thats to young??? I'm also going in the buissness of modeling and acting.We talk and stuff, we fool around with eatcother and sometimes he even flurts.I go to a private school so does he. I really need to know what to do!

2007-01-06 16:09:05 · 4 answers · asked by carribianlatinqueen 2 in Friends

ok im 15 and i havnt had a boyfriend, havnt even been close. im realy shy and not good at talking to guys. and they never talk to me. i realy want a boyfriend, but i am not going to make the 1st move. can you help me?

2007-01-06 16:08:43 · 4 answers · asked by arielaungst 3 in Singles & Dating

hey guys. Im lost I really dont know what to say. My boyfriend's mom has been really ill with heart conditions the whole year. She has been in and out of the hospital manytimes. Today he sms-ed me saying she looked really bad today. she is in the hospital. I feel so sad! I really wish i know how to comfort him but I dont know what to say!! My heart feels so....I want to throw my arms around him and say everything will be ok...but will it?...I wish I could take away all the fear....What's the use of asking "is mummy ok" when its so obvious she isnt? what should I say? how should I reply his msg? please help.
thanks!

2007-01-06 16:08:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I owe the guy I like a meal, as I offered and promised if he should win this thing, I will treat him to a meal. Now it was back in early December when one Friday I proposed that particular weekend sometime we could go out for a picnic or go out for a meal, but he happened to be totally occupied that weekend with relatives. He apologised and said he'll keep me posted. Is that a brush off? And does he expect me to propose another time or would he actually suggest another time?

2007-01-06 16:07:55 · 13 answers · asked by Lilliana 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 16:07:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating