Family & Relationships - 6 January 2007

ok, i'm planning my wedding, but i'm not sure if i have everything i need. I got the place, I am getting invitations, there are decorations, the cake, my dress... what else do i need to think about getting so I don't forget anything...

Thanks for the help

2007-01-06 16:30:29 · 13 answers · asked by underwaterangel 3 in Weddings

there's a guy whos in grade 12 (i'm in 11) who started talking to me on msn the other night. i have one class with him, but i seldom talk with him. anways, he kept asking me the most bizarre questions, like "how is the love life going for you?" and all these other personal questions. does he like me?

2007-01-06 16:30:16 · 3 answers · asked by dash! 1 in Singles & Dating

Was just wondering what guys thought of virgins...

Most young guys that I know just wanna do 'em, to say that they've done a virgin, but what about older men?

Actually, what do men in general think of them?
Do they find experienced women more attractive? Does finding out that you're a virgin make a man look at you in a different way?


{ Like, if you were trying to get in a relationship and he didn't know you were a virgin, and then found out? Would he not want to have sex with you, if he knew the relationship wasn't going to last, even if you wanted to? }

2007-01-06 16:29:50 · 11 answers · asked by La-La-Lacie 1 in Singles & Dating

I have told my husband I wish he would be more attentive to me. I just want him to talk with me or put his arm around me when we are watching TV. Why would he not follow through on any of this? It is so hurtful to me when he always has time for the kids, but when they go to bed he just falls asleep on the couch.

2007-01-06 16:29:46 · 19 answers · asked by chatter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was friends with the guy and the girl in the couple. They break up. The girl calls me crying so i go over there cuz she asks me to and she ends up kissing me. I am really better friends with the guy. what should i do from this point?

2007-01-06 16:29:38 · 3 answers · asked by cherp36 1 in Friends

me and this boy have been friends for 2 years now. i love him but i dont no if he feels the same.i go to his house and play games, we sit together on the bus. my friends told him all last year that i loved him but he has never said anything about it. i think he feels the same way,im not sure any suggestions on how i can tell?there any hints i can drop?

2007-01-06 16:29:24 · 3 answers · asked by mudball 1 in Singles & Dating

A 14 year old girl, and a 19 year old guy both should wait for a while before considering being together. But when does that 5 year gap become socially acceptable for a couple?

2007-01-06 16:29:05 · 18 answers · asked by krn_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for two years now.
Little by little I'm seeing a side of my husband that I never knew existed.
The first few months he doted on me in 'little' ways.
Going out to dinner, buying me some new clothes Etc.
But if I ask for something that costs $1000 or more (like new carpet) he says he'll think about it. Our carpet is falling apart,
and is all matted looking. We had it cleaned but didn't help much.
Before the carpet I asked him if we could get a cover put on our back porch, which would cost $800, so we could sit out there
in the evening.
The reason I'm saying this is, we do have money, and he's just spent $23,000 on a new tractor, a month later he spent $8,000
on a new riding mower, and this week he spent $5,000 to have our pond cleaned out and a ledge built around it.
I quit working a year ago because he wanted me to, now I wish I hadn't.
I really feel like he considers the money he makes 'as his' and puts all his wants and needs first.

2007-01-06 16:28:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-06 16:28:13 · 13 answers · asked by livethegoodlife2002 1 in Weddings

This guy said to my friend, "I'll fu**ing kill you"!! And he met my other friend online and after a month they talked on the phone one time and he told her, "I feel so close to you" and "Our babies would be beautiful"! What do you think? Go to his myspace!

http://www.myspace.com/bigstegs

2007-01-06 16:27:32 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 16:27:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate my eyes is there some way i can change them?

2007-01-06 16:26:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you know? Tell me how? I will show.

Have a super fun 2007!

2007-01-06 16:26:03 · 8 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Singles & Dating

for a girl to want to be with 1 are 2 are 3 are even 4 guys at the same time ?

ever sense i utrned 13 i been thinking about it!!!

2007-01-06 16:26:00 · 7 answers · asked by Music Maker 1 in Singles & Dating

so i like this guy and we're just friends and talk all the time...how do i know if he's into me as more than a friend?

2007-01-06 16:25:45 · 13 answers · asked by razorbladekisses 1 in Singles & Dating

maybe some kind of love song or something like that

2007-01-06 16:25:19 · 13 answers · asked by Morgan B 1 in Singles & Dating

I started cutting myslef again tonight because all of my friends ignored me and they won't talk to me at all. I just don't know what to do. even mygirlfriend has not talk to me for over 3 days the one that I am currently going out with. I might as well dropp out of school and kill myself. What should I do any girls or guys help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-06 16:25:19 · 10 answers · asked by cameron 1 in Friends

almost a month ago today, rumors started going around that my wife slept with my cousin. when i confronted her about it, she lied to me about some things at first, but later on confessed those things but never confessed about seeping with him. she insists she is telling the truth and threatened suicide when i didnt believe her at first. my cousin that they in fact had sex and she sucked him off. my cousin also lied about this day in parts, but now he is insisting that he is telling the truth. me and my cousin were never really close and me and my wife had only been married for 5 months at the time. i am also in iraq and she was living with my mom at the time of all this happening. who should i believe and what should i do.

2007-01-06 16:25:17 · 16 answers · asked by young grown man 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend for 4 years treat me like a child when things don't go his way he give me the silent treatment don't say nothing for days but then when i get mad and i don't feel like speaking he don't like it then get mad when i hang out with my friends and if one of my guys friends call god forbid he have a heart attack i don't know what to do i love him but i can't take the way he treating me what should ido should i stay or let it go

2007-01-06 16:24:11 · 14 answers · asked by sexy girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have seen it happen way too often. When a couple with kids breaks up, the mother of the kids tend to want to keep the kids away from the father. She wants the child support, but don't want anything to do with him including having him have contact with the kids.

Why do women think that after the break-up that the kids are just hers? Why does the woman put the kids in the middle of the battle when the man moves on and be with another woman? What do the kids have to do with this?

Why can't people fight and be angry without brining the kids into the situatiion?

2007-01-06 16:23:46 · 21 answers · asked by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a boyfriend and we've been together for almost 3 years now... i care about him a lot and i love him and i hate seeing him hurt but a couple months i met a guy at my job. When i first met him for the first time i did not flirt at all ( which i usually do ) i was just myself and we became pretty close but he didnt know i had a boyfriend...we kissed, went out, talked on the phone until it got to me that i had to tell him my friend was disappointed but yet able to understand me because of the situation my boyfriend and i have that we dont see each other and my parents dont like him so now im in between letting my boyfriend go because i dont deserve him or staying with him...all im scared of is how heart broken he will be because hes a great guy that has done nothing to harm me just love me but maybe hes not the one for me or maybe he is...?

2007-01-06 16:23:16 · 16 answers · asked by candy 1 in Singles & Dating

does the gal saying yes...or after tht getting married....or anything.....i want to knw views....thanks

2007-01-06 16:22:40 · 4 answers · asked by buddy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-06 16:22:36 · 21 answers · asked by Rae 1 in Weddings

well okay this one boy in my school likes me and came up to me and ask me out but my friend came running up to him and ask him out and he said yes to her when he was asking me out.And he part that i am confused was that when my friend asked out the boy that was asking me out he said yes to her and i just don't get it i thought he was going to ask me out but some how he said yes to my best friend when he was asking me out before she came up to him to ask him out.And i really wanted to go out with him.And that was my chance to go out with the boy that i liked and she took it away from me.What should i do.

2007-01-06 16:22:35 · 4 answers · asked by - Allison 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband has a child from a previos marriage that he pays $450 a month child support on.His ex-wife will not work and keeps threatning to take him back to court for more child support we are barely making it now with both of us working we have 3 children to support.If she does take him to court will they consider my income because when they sit the child support we were not married yet?

2007-01-06 16:22:10 · 8 answers · asked by ladybug1976 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They all went to parochial school and always went to church. 4 are doing well and on their own,but I find it so disrespectful to butt in on what I should do with my 3 youngest. My 19 yr old just moved out of state w/her 28 yr old sister to go to a college there because I can't stand the younger ones watching this disrespect while I am paying for her college. (Oldest is a college professor) I just don't know if I was too strict or am I not strict enough in dealing with this. I really feel their friends act this way also. Is it this 'entitlement' thing with this generation?

2007-01-06 16:22:01 · 6 answers · asked by jean l 2 in Family

I'm 21, and whenever a guy asks how many "partners" I've had, it always makes me uncomfortable. I always like to be honest, but I don't like telling the truth some times because I think I might scare them off. I just want to know what you people think (especially guys), about what is "too much"/"too many partners" ...maximum or minimum....

2007-01-06 16:21:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with a guy that I've been with for 1yr 1/2. I knew that he had Seasonal Affective Disorder but I didn't see it effect him 'til this winter season. At the start of November he started to get antsy about our relationship (long distance) once in a while but seemed to have a different opinion every day. By December he was getting drunk a couple times a week and calling me and being a bit beligerent, but would call and apologize the next day. When sober he still had huge mood swings.
By the end of December, he was being 'civil' to me and told me he needed some space to sort through things so that he didn't snap on me and lose me forever. New Years eve he snapped. He called me several times while wasted to call me bad names and left a message for me insulting my entire family and telling me I should kill myself. I left a message for him that night telling him I couldn't be his gf after he said those things but I still loved him. Haven't heard from him since.

2007-01-06 16:21:30 · 10 answers · asked by sarahjaniepoo 4 in Singles & Dating

so, im a freshman in college & i am dating a wonderful guy who i have been with for a year now. We have talked about going to college together & continue dating. He is still in high school & doesn't know where he wants to go to college?
He has a few in mind...would you follow him? should he follow me?.....

2007-01-06 16:21:02 · 1 answers · asked by TriStar_15 1 in Singles & Dating

...not all the time, I just keep 'em for about a month and then go get another freshly used pair. Is this common among men? (...and no, I don't try them on.) She has the most unusually pleasant personal smell (shwing.) ..also, she's a lesbian (so I have no chance.)

2007-01-06 16:20:29 · 13 answers · asked by TurnMeOut 3 in Friends