2007-01-06 16:22:36 · 21 answers · asked by Rae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Shouldn't you have been invited? If you weren't invited, you shouldn't go.
2007-01-06 16:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were invited to the wedding then I say yes, go. IT will only be awkward for a short while, such as during the wedding and then during dinner when you two wont be sitting toegether, but other than that, there really is no problem with you attending (unless of course you werent invited)
If you still feel a bit apprehensive, or question it, just talk it over with your BF and see what he says. He may feel more comfortable with you there!
2007-01-06 16:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend has expressed that he wants you to then yes....I just pray that you know some people there, because as best man, it isn't likely that he will be much of a companion for the night...don't get mad though...he has obligations on a night like this....take the opportunity to meet some distant family members and enjoy the food and the booze, and charm the pants of his family.
Stay out of the wedding party's hair, but be there to be helpful and you'll win not only your bf over, but his whole family!!!
2007-01-06 16:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by elysialaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is the best man, and the family knows that you are a couple, of course you should attend. What does your boyfriend say about whether you attend the wedding or not?
2007-01-06 16:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by Lottalady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were invited,yes. If not you might ask your boyfriend. Some weddings are very informal. But you should hear from either the bride, groom or a set of their parents to confirm. If no invite by voice comes through, I would stay at home.
2007-01-06 16:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by swamp elf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are invited yes! If things get more serious with your boyfriend the fact that you didn't go to his brothers wedding will come back to haunt you. Consider it a good time to meet people you may have to be nice to in the future!
2007-01-06 16:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by emmandal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are invited and if you are not invited, do not get upset. I kind of had that situation. I THOUGHT I did not like my fiance's brother's girlfriend (turned out she is really nice and is even helping me plan the wedding.) When I thought I did not like her, I didn't want to invite her but now she is invited. The point is, you may not be invited because they want to keep it simple or are on tight budget so don't get offended. If you are invited, you should be there.
2007-01-08 06:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by sjlova86 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I attended a wedding with my boyfriend (at the time) and I was so impressed with the way everything came out. First I found out what the colors were and then what color my boyfriend was wearing and matched off him. Everyone thought we were "beautiful" together. It also gave me a chance to meet family that he don't really see during the year. I would definitely go and "show um what your workin wit"......good luck sweetie
2007-01-06 16:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by passion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of that may depend on how long you two have been together. If you are a new couple, then bringing you to the wedding may be uncomfortable--especially if you smooze with the family, they love you, then you two break up.
But if you've been together for a while, I would expect that he could bring you as his date or that you would have received an invitation anyway. Ask him what he thinks--it's his family that you'd be around for this event!
2007-01-06 16:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is the best man, and his family is aware that you are dating then you should be invited and should go. It would be disrespectful not too.
If you are not invited, then I would find out the reason why. I wouldn't ask to be invited either, that is very bad wedding etiquette. But, you should find out why this family didn't want you to be there.
2007-01-06 16:34:56 · answer #10 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its YOUR duty to be there you are, his "better half" at the wedding, especially in case the BRIDE need some sort of help!!!
have attended weddings where best mans "lady" where urgently needed!!
2007-01-06 18:07:31 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋