My boyfriend for 4 years treat me like a child when things don't go his way he give me the silent treatment don't say nothing for days but then when i get mad and i don't feel like speaking he don't like it then get mad when i hang out with my friends and if one of my guys friends call god forbid he have a heart attack i don't know what to do i love him but i can't take the way he treating me what should ido should i stay or let it go
2007-01-06 16:24:11 · 14 answers · asked by sexy girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell it to him straight. tell him that you dont deserve to be treated like so and you're getting sick of it. tell him you really really love him but he's got to treat you right.
2007-01-06 16:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by aesthetic90210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it seems like it might not go anywhere. California seems to change men sometimes, I'm not sure how or why. Maybe you should move on?.. Sometimes we have to even if we don't want to. You guys are only 20, still young. An a 20 year old man in California....... Enough said! Also making it in California for break dancing and stunting isn't likely. Many people head to Cali to be discovered and get famous only to find the priceyness of living in Cali. Move on, he wants to break up so it's his loss.
2016-05-23 02:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women mature a lot faster then guys. Guys are not mature until around 35-36 so just date until then or you will spend the first part of your marraige with a immature boy that you love.
2007-01-06 16:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by Kandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont leave him he loves u thats why hes actin like that hes jealous very and he dont nobody else to have you if he cant then nobody can but he really does LOVE you so talk to him about it and tell him how u feel towards him treatin u like that.
2007-01-06 16:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by angellious2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't take it, you should leave. Mind you, your relationship with him is not going to change. If you want to be like this for the rest of your life, be my guest. If you don't, then leave. It's that simple.
2007-01-06 16:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u reallt have to think: do you really love him or do u just not want to break it off since it has been going for so long. like do u think that you are really going to be with him FOREVER?? u shouldt let anyone walk all over you like that. if he expects you to be fine with his mood swings then he should be fine with you and your things.
2007-01-06 17:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go. this is how many early relationships go...it blows don't it? anyways find a guy that is secure, because your boy sounds pretty insecure to have to worry about guy friends calling to chat.
2007-01-06 16:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his A**. and forget about him. he ain't worth it if he is ignoring you. you need someone who is there for you when you need someone to talk to when you are alone. I feel that way about this girl i'm going out with we have been going out for 5 yrs now and Its lasted longer than i expected.
2007-01-06 16:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by cameron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him obviously theres something there to work on give him the chance to work on whats buggin you if he won't change than leave him
2007-01-06 16:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by porkey_jrabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's gonna end up bein' a waste of time so shrug him off
2007-01-06 16:27:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋