well okay this one boy in my school likes me and came up to me and ask me out but my friend came running up to him and ask him out and he said yes to her when he was asking me out.And he part that i am confused was that when my friend asked out the boy that was asking me out he said yes to her and i just don't get it i thought he was going to ask me out but some how he said yes to my best friend when he was asking me out before she came up to him to ask him out.And i really wanted to go out with him.And that was my chance to go out with the boy that i liked and she took it away from me.What should i do.
2007-01-06 16:22:35 · 4 answers · asked by - Allison 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
And if you are wondering how old i am i am 14 years old.
2007-01-06 16:23:18 · update #1
well i don't want to give up i really want to steal him.How do i do it.Well he asked me out the same freaken time she ran up to him and ask him out that makes me mad..
2007-01-06 16:38:07 · update #2
Hi sweetie, I remember when I was 14 and the guys back then and now just haven't changed. Their the ones confused honey, not you. If I were you, I would be friends with him because this is your best friends relationship now. Get to know him on a friendship level ..... he might not be as great as you thought.
A friend of mine gave some good advise I'd like to share with you, he said that he would date someone for 6 months, if there were no sparks, he would remain friends with this person and would continue dating others until the right one came along. He always says, 'why ruin a friendship when you know a relationship won't work out'. Good Luck to you honey.
2007-01-06 17:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by hot single mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allison, I hate to tell you this, but you may as well know the truth:
90% (if not more) of all boys and men are complete arseholes and jerks.
Even when they grow up to be "men", they still don't give a flying rat's penis about the woman.
From a very early age (late puberty) I set out to be a different kind of guy - a true gentleman, and the best lover I could be, but not many men take this road.
Here is something for you to consider:
Measure a guy against a male role-model you look up to. Perhaps you have a really great Dad. If so, measure the guy against him. If your Dad is a loser, I am sure there is some other adult male that you admire and respect. Measure a guy against this person.
Also - and I am teaching my boys this as they are growing into puberty: Look at the guy's Dad, because someday, that is who he will become. If you don't like the Dad, don't bother with the guy!
2007-01-07 05:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Michael, Count de Berçon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allison, you were a victim of circumstances. But let's break this down. You had expectations which didn't work out the way you wanted them to. The expectations were about this guy. This guy who was so fickle that he accepts an invitation from another girl while he's asking you out. What kind of guy would do that? Sounds to me he doesn't know himself...much less show any respect to you. Reconsider your feelings for him. Consider that you are truly a great and wonderful woman...so do you really want to go out with a guy who doesn't recognize that?
2007-01-07 00:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you snooze, you lose. Remember that the next time.
2007-01-07 00:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋