Ok when i first went out wit my guy he cheated and left me for this girl.Well its been over 2 years.I was on myspace and i was talking **** to this girl.we wrote back and forth and come to find out it was that girl he left me for.He seen her pic on myspace and said he didnt know her.when i found out i was pissed and my bf an i fought he said he was going to leave me cuz i didnt trust him wich wasnt the prob in this case well this girl says she is going to come visit and give him a peice of her i dont want to bring the subject up cuz i dont want him to think i dont trust him but i'm scared you see he already left me and this girl is pretty body more than face he says he loves me and would tell her to leave but he is really shy and never likes to be the bad guy PLEASE SOMEONE DO YOU THINK HE WILL CHEAT OR BE FAITHFUL if she comes our relationship has been kind of bad latly cuz of our 8 month old she takes alot of my time SHOULD I TRUST HIM HOW CAN I LET THIS GO i'm obsessed with the sub
2007-01-06 16:11:10 · 7 answers · asked by tracemiss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is my opion that you should leave him.. and i am a guy.. Think about it if he was bold enough to go looking and told you it was over because she is going to come see him than you better take a hard look at what is mostly on a guys mind... all most men want is a peice.... and you said your relation ship was not that good since the birth of your child so it just might be best to get out now before it is too late and you have to go thorgh this for years to come.. Good luck... this is coming from a man who is a faithful man.... I know we are few and far betwween
2007-01-06 16:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by markloiseau1000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater ....... the only way to find out is to have her visit. unfortunately, there is an 8 month old involved. you can get over it but the 8 month old will eventually start asking questions unless you let him remain in the 8 month olds life, which means she or another female will be involved. men love the excuse you don't trust me, well guys there has to be a reason your girl doesn't. she just proved that point with this question. hon, just take it one day at a time and see what happens. he will either leave you or her. if he leaves you ..... he never loved you to begin with. sorry, hope everything works out for you
2007-01-06 16:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by sandydeedum1tx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He never likes to be the bad guy??!! yet he cheated on you and left you for this ho?? Honey open your eyes, if you cant trust him then its for a good reason. I understand you have a kid but thats no reason to live a miserable life always wonderin if he wil cheat. Find someone who deserves your thoughts and energy and throw this loser away
2007-01-06 16:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that once a cheat, always a cheat....love is sometimes a terribel thing, do the right thing for yourself......on the other hand if you think you can tame him over time and keep him in line, then maybe your obsession will pay off...remember, you chose to be a childs parents..this child shoul be ommy and daddy...not mommy and THENEWGUY's name if possible..
2007-01-06 16:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Smoothie, aka Mr. SmartAss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would consider this a test.. see how faithful he can be. See if you can trust him. Don't tell him this is "his test," I wouldn't just up and leave him considering you have an 8-month-old in the picture. Just see how it goes. Good luck!
2007-01-06 16:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's going to cheat, ( waves at 10 points swirling down the toilet)
2007-01-06 17:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by theeyeofthehawk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋