Girls! When you lost your virginity... (questions from a virgin) !?

Question

Was it with someone experienced or inexperienced?

Where they older? Younger?
Also, were you in a committed relationship or not?
Do you regret it if it wasn't?

I'm still a virgin, but I would think that'd it'd be better to lose your virginity to someone that was experienced... One of us would have to know what we're doing, and it obviously wouldn't be me, haha... (I'd want the guy to be older too, but that's just my personal preference)

I'm just asking, because it's been on my mind lately...
I can't bring myself to get in a relationship with someone who I'd feel like I'd be "wasting" my first time on...

Answer 1

I was 21. I decided at a young age that I would wait till I was ready. 16 you get your license, 18 you are able to get into clubs, and 21 you are able to drink. What is there to look forward to after your 21st bday? That is why I waited. I was in a committed relationship. Luckily he was willing to wait for me. He was 26 and definately more experienced than I was. I do not regret it because we ended up getting married. He was my first and only. It is not worth "wasting" yourself on some loser. I have lots of friends that did that and really regret it.

By the way there are more sexual activities that can take place without actually having to have sex. My boyfried/husband waited 4 years for me so needless to say I had to keep him happy some way. Please remember I know it is cliche' and sounds like something my mother would say but Why would he buy the cow if he can get the milk for free? Good Luck!

Answer 2

I was 15yrs old when I lost mine. My boyfriend at the time was the same age and was a virgin also. It wasn't the best experience. With all that said, if you go with an older man just be careful what you are getting yourself into. I had sex with a 32yrs old man when I was 16 and it wasn't much better than the first time. When you are younger and the man is older, they don't care about your feelings. All they care about is that they have some young girl in their bed for the night or until they are done with you and then they will never speak to you again. Good luck and just remember to really think hard about your decision. Being with an older man sounds great cuz they should know what they are doing but in the long run it's not all that great! Also your first time should be special but it don't always happen that way. I'm not here to tell you to wait until you find "the one" but make sure that this is what you really want to do because once you go through with it, you'll never get it back.

Answer 3

Mine was with someone 1 year older, in a committed relationship (we aren't still together however). It was the first time for both of us...and while it wasn't the greatest ever, the fact that we were both a little uncertain and nervous made it easier. Neither worried that we were doing something wrong or weird - we didn't know any better!

I think ultimately, you need to be with someone you TRUST, and who you know if committed to you (not to getting your pants off). That is the kind of relationship that will make your first time easy, and as enjoyable as possible - whether or not he's experienced.

And just so you know...it's going to hurt, no matter what. The first several times, to be honest. So don't expect too much!

Answer 4

we were both inexperienced, they were about a year older, it was a committed relationship. i dont regret any of it. but it also wasnt a big deal, a lot of people try to make their first time great, or with someone special, honestly it isnt that big of a deal at all, it hasnt affected my life in any way so i wouldnt worry so much about it. just let it happen when it happens, you'll know if its right or not, and it will be fine.

Answer 5

I'll tell you like this I dont regert give up my virginity to the guy I did even though we remained friends after the fact for about 3 years later he always was my friend anyway never went out with each other I dont regert cause I cant change the pass and he was a cutie anyways lol but who ever you lose it to just make sure you are comfortable and that you feel like your ready to face any consequnces after your done doing it with that person wether good or bad... but love your self no matter what are the result do it with pride lol ..

Answer 6

I was 16 and he was 16 as well, we were also both virgins. We were in a committed relationship but I sort of regret it because he turned out to be a psychopath and the sex was never good.

I think you should just lose it to whoever you feel most comfortable with and trust. You shouldn't lose it to lose it, wait for someone special.

Answer 7

I was 18, he was 21 (not his first). commited relationship. i wouldn't've done it any other way. he was the first guy i really loved, and we were together for a year and a half. glad i waited til i was out of high school (too many problems with relationships, guys, drama, etc in hs). I wouldn't worry about finding someone who's experienced as much as finding someone who really cares about you and how you're feeling. i knew that my guy really cared and i wouldn't be nervous or embarrassed or anything because he'd help me through it. don't just give it away to anyone! i'm glad i held on as long as i did.

Answer 8

I was 15 and he was 18, he had done it before so knew what he was doing, was only a short relationship but i dont regret it, there is no point in regretting things, it only makes you feel down and there is nothin u can do about it. Wait for the right guy for you, he might no be the one but he may mr right now and if he respects you and isnt only after sex then go for it.

Answer 9

My first time.... he was 3 years older, I had just turned 16 we were friends, I was single .... HE WASN'T !!! he told me he was, I found out better when I say him out with his g/f 2 or 3 days later.... I didn't really want to, he talked me into it, I don't know if thats really considered rape or not seeing how I finally said yes. It wasn't too bad, embarassing really.. he was the first guy to see me naked. Well I did leave my shirt on. Not very romantic, it was on the dining room floor. I do sorta regret it.

Answer 10

Oral intercourse would not make a woman lose her virginity. (a minimum of in my view...) yet oral intercourse is intercourse and should not be taken gently. you will possibly desire to basically have intercourse with somebody while you're in a excessive and committed relationship with them, or if the two considered one of you the two agree that the intercourse is only casual. The hymen would not block the front to the vagina in any respect. basically a broken hymen shows that a woman is now not a virgin. there is not any such element as a "era hollow." a woman bleeds from her vagina. the place you touch her, tongue her, or f*ck her is an identical hollow. And back oral intercourse and fingering would not make a woman lose her virginity. (in my view, the only intercourse that would desire to reason a woman to lose her virginity is intercourse--- [pee pee into va-jay-jay action])