we was together for 2yrs. We have been broke up for 3yrs, relly bad break up. We didnt talk at all he only seen our baby at my mom house. We broke up bacouse we was so conrolling. He only seen our baby 12 times the whole 3yrs we was broke up. Then 4 months ago he started to see our baby 1 time everyweek he told my dad that he missed me and then we tryed getting back togerher. But i could not get over our bad breakup and told him it was not going to workout. Since I see how much i really do love and want him. I want us to be a family together really bad but now it seems that he dont want that anymore and is just happy with us just being friends.He have not try to get back with me at all he is just very friendly to me.What should I do ? Should I tell him how I feel or just let go?
2007-01-06 16:17:19 · 9 answers · asked by ashlee s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let ur emotions out and let them ride tell him how u feel u never stop lovein him u was jus upset u never stop carein u was jus fed up. If he felt that way some weeks ago then he feels that way now hes frontin. Wish u the best of LUCK
2007-01-06 16:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by angellious2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he has moved on, so should you. If it was that bad the first time, it could be worse the next time. You two do need to be friends for the sake of the child you have together, the child deserves to have both parents. It does not mean they have to live together or be married. He needs to support this child, and also be able to take him home with him sometime, this is very good for the child. Move on, and be friends.
2007-01-07 00:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes letting it go is the best thing to do, if you invest your feelings in it again and get rejected, it is gonna suck up all the self esteem you have built up since you parted. you are strong enuf to take care of your baby now, don't lose that strength, people can literally suck the life right out of you. people rarely change. believe me. they just become better actors.
2007-01-07 00:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the last thing we need is another baby mama's drama. Just tell him how you feel and how he can really affect your life and the baby's if he stays. Good luck to both of you ;-)
2007-01-07 00:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family only happens when all party's agree to it,i think you know the answer -its challenging raising a child on your own but don't cut yourself off to a control freak when Mr right may be just around the corner.
2007-01-07 00:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on the Dr. Phil show.
2007-01-07 00:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go because if he really wanted to be with you, he would have made the extra effort
2007-01-07 00:20:27 · answer #7 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go and just be friends.
2007-01-07 00:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel.
2007-01-07 00:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋