I owe the guy I like a meal, as I offered and promised if he should win this thing, I will treat him to a meal. Now it was back in early December when one Friday I proposed that particular weekend sometime we could go out for a picnic or go out for a meal, but he happened to be totally occupied that weekend with relatives. He apologised and said he'll keep me posted. Is that a brush off? And does he expect me to propose another time or would he actually suggest another time?
2007-01-06 16:07:55 · 13 answers · asked by Lilliana 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually he did suggest alternative plans, but not so I could treat him out, but still so we could be out together, but each time I happened to have already plans!
2007-01-06 16:12:29 · update #1
Well tough one, lets see I think he could of been busy, like you said he was spending time with family,but he should have found time by know especailly if he likes you but you don't know that if he does. I don.t think he's brushing you off.It seems you both are going back and forth with planes in going out but you both seem to be busy. You have to both come an agreement with a date, but don't make it seem pushy.You seem like you have a really good heart to.Plus when he said he'll keep you posted he means he will check his schedual to make sure he does not have planes with anyone.He should explain to you more clearly what he meant. But what do I know about anything ha ha ha ! Good luck I don't if anything I said would help, but rememember this your in my thoughts and in prayer.
2007-01-07 07:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by Smiley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Com'n girl, you know the answer to this. I'll keep you posted is a total brush off ... it's fine if he's busy with relatives that weekend but if he really wanted to go out for dinner he should have come back with an alternative day/time. If he hasn't brought it up in the last month, then don't bother asking him again.
2007-01-06 16:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your friendship may have burned out...It happens. If you're confused though and want to keep him as a friend, try talking to him about how you're feeling, but don't be too emotional, after all he is a man, that will likely scare him off...Be friendly about it and see if you can ask him this question your asking on here. Its very possible your reading into things too much and he doesn't even know he's given you this impression. You'll never know if you don't clear this up with him. Good luck!
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I owe the guy I like a meal, as I offered and promised if he should win this thing, I will treat him to a meal. Now it was back in early December when one Friday I proposed that particular weekend sometime we could go out for a picnic or go out for a meal, but he happened to be totally occupied...
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2017-01-04 10:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by abuaita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is telling you he will keep you posted when he will be available. If he is interested in you he means he will propose another time. But since this is January 2007 and you haven't heard from him, it sounds like a brush off. I am sorry to tell you this. But that is what it sounds like to me. Move on.
2007-01-06 16:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by 1stladyb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stepped up to the plate,so now it's on his ! I'd just do what you do and let it ride , I wouldn't ask again ! And if he come's back around within a reasonable amount of time, then o.k. -- If not your better off knowing now ! --- Good Luck --- Pattijo
2007-01-06 16:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by pattijohughes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During the holidays he could have been really busy. i wouldn't offer anymore, he knows he got the invitation and said he would keep you posted- he will let you know when he can. Be patient and not so eager. Guys seem to run from that. They are like the lion they like the chase.
2007-01-06 16:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it could be a brush off, or he really could have been just too busy with family. I would give it one more shot, ask him one more time, and if he puts you off again then just let it go. At that point I would leave it up to him to bring up the subject again.
2007-01-06 16:15:52 · answer #9 · answered by giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brush off
2007-01-06 16:10:32 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋