Family & Relationships - 6 January 2007

2007-01-06 15:37:09 · 19 answers · asked by lil hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

hi , i'm 14, my family hate me (they say it to my face) i dunno what i did and they wont tell me i asked...its been like this for 1 1/2 years...i dunno what to do i feel so many emotions all at once it feels like its crushing the life out of me, i feel so sffocated...i tried to tell someone like people told me to in the last question i asked but nobody seems to believe me...i am still awake at this stupid hour of 4:30am cuz i can't sleep, everytime i close my eyes i see the blood gushing from my vains or my ahem "family" souting at me, my 7yr old sister said she wishes i would go and kill myself...i tried but it didn't work...i promised my m8 i wouldnt cut mself anymore but its so hard, i have scars on my wrist from 6 months ago still and my m8 told me to stp cutting last friday...i feel so icsolated..my doctor says i'm depressed but i only feel like that when i'm at "home" with "them", i can't leave home cuz i have nowhere to go, i ran away but the police bought me back, i want out

2007-01-06 15:37:04 · 29 answers · asked by pritzy-fairy 3 in Friends

2007-01-06 15:36:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay isn't hooters supposed to be a family friendsly restaurant? lmao so whats with the outfits those girls wear?[no offense] also how do they hire them? and do they hire guys and if they do..do the guys have to wear those outfits???

2007-01-06 15:36:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's been my bestfriend for over 4yrs, we just decided that since we love each other so much, why dont we get married and stop killing ourselves. My parents are still indecisive cos they think his spiritual affiliations are different from mine. But they are so wrong. If they do not give their consent, they could kill me cos he's my life. What do I do?

2007-01-06 15:36:04 · 7 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Weddings

My names Andrew I have a son, hes 19 years old. Im 36, yes I was young when he was born. Hes been dating this girl, Ashley for six months now. Shes 17 but will be 18 in a few months. They like each other alot but im sure theyre not in love. Recently Ive been having feeling for Ashley that I shouldnt be having. I have urges to just grab her and kiss her. But I dont just like her on a physical level, shes a really sweet girl. A while ago I was sick and she was there to help me. And by the way Im not married or seeing anyone else. Im not sure what to do, should I act on the feelings later after she turns 18 or should I just keep quiet about it ? I would never "make a move on her" while theyre together. But I really dont think theyll be together for much longer and I dont know if I should ask her out or something when they do break up...

HELP me please, your advice is greatly needed and appreciated

Thank you, Andrew

2007-01-06 15:35:50 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have asked a couple of questions about this subject, but there are new develpments. I logged onto my husbands myspace account (call it women intuition telling me to) and I saw messages between him and a woman he went to school with. They were both basically telling each other how unhappily married they were, he told her I was a complete bit*h and she was saying that she didn't want to be with her husband anymore. She has sent him a survey and in some of the questions, he gave answers that were very hurtful to me, saying that getting married was a mistake, and telling her she was hot. I was crushed. I couldn't even concentrate at work because I was so hurt. I finally confronted him, and he claims it was innocent conversation and that he will not talk to her anymore. I also sent a message to her, basically telling her what I told him, that I felt that their conversations were inappropriate and that they needed to be confiding in their spouses, not in each other. She sent me one back...

2007-01-06 15:35:22 · 27 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive noticed the interraciall couples alot latley, and im all for it, im black and i have a white aunt and a puerto rican one as well, beautiful kids........................anywayz

I notice more and more black males and white females together, but umm hardly ever any white males and black females.........now to my question

I wanna know why this is and dont sugar coat it cuz it wont hurt me either way, why do you black males feel the need to stray away, and why do you white males fell the need to stay away.......

Hummmmmmmm i wonder---- white guys would you date a beautiful beyonce or christina milian, and black guys would you rather date the same bootylicious beyonce or the "smokin" Jessica Simpson.......Please let me know

2007-01-06 15:35:19 · 7 answers · asked by Im that girl! 3 in Singles & Dating

i have this friend who's grandfather owne's his own chain of grocery stores. she thinks she is the best thing sonce jesus himself! she treats everyone like their below her and she doesn't even own the money, her grandfather owns it. she doesn't even have all the nice clothes. what do i do?

2007-01-06 15:34:56 · 4 answers · asked by armena101 p 1 in Friends

Ok so for my birthday my boyfriend took me to Paris. So I told him he would get what ever he wanted. He wants a threesom. Should I go for it? Or should I just tell him straight up no. I really love him and I am willing to do it for him. I am just wondering if it is wrong. And what if he falls for the other girl.

2007-01-06 15:34:35 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

baby you must be tired cuz you been running throug my mind all night,
dam i cant belive i found somoane more beutifull than me.

well these are the only 2 i can think of right now.

2007-01-06 15:34:11 · 6 answers · asked by manni 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 15:34:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is just one problem and that is that there is no real passion between us. Our physical relationship is not what I would like. We talked about it and she said it is awkward at the beginning of a relationship. We have been seeing each other for 6 months. This part of the relationship reminds me of my ex wife when the sexual aspect came to an end. In this relationship we have not even reached the honeymoon stage. Should this be a concern?

2007-01-06 15:32:14 · 8 answers · asked by paco 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so here's the deal. i'd like to hook up with this guy. we both really like eachother. i want the realy deal. the whole making out thing and i know i'm gunna have to make the first move. so how shoudl i do it? also i know he wants me to give him head but i am kinda nervous. i mean i dont have a problem with it i just really like him. any suggestions.

2007-01-06 15:32:12 · 2 answers · asked by littlexxzombie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have always been confused with what you women want. How do you want to be kissed, what should i do with my hands, how much tongue (if needed), etc. Please answer with detail.

2007-01-06 15:32:06 · 25 answers · asked by Elliot 1 in Singles & Dating

What should I do? We stopped talking.

2007-01-06 15:32:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anthony 4 in Friends

Sorry for putting you guys on the spot xD
I was just wondering because my ex boyfriend cheated on me, dumped me, found a new girl in less than a month, told her the same things he told me, and the pattern continues.
1.) Do you care about the girl that your with? 2.) Why do you play with their heart?
3.) Do you care about how she feesl after you dump them?
4.) Is quantity most important to you?

2007-01-06 15:31:21 · 2 answers · asked by asdfghjkl 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked this girl out and she said no. and it was okay and all but than three days later she is running up to me. and it got weird. she started calling my cell phone, txting me, left an e-mail with her screen name. we ended up spending close to an hour just chilling and later i caught her staring at me on the bus. and it got weirder as time went on becasue all of these things escalated. she was staring more, her friends whispering things to her and she would tell them to shut up and thant hey would all look at me and she would just look for ways to get near or talk to me so it seemed. i'm really confused and still like her, but her best friend is telling me no go.

2007-01-06 15:31:00 · 12 answers · asked by Hayden 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm kind of in an awkward position. My dad is a senator and he's thinking about running for president, and he's pretty sure he's going to run and he's wanted to for years, but my mom really doesn't want him to and she's trying to get me to talk him out of it. She tryed to talk him out of it but they've been fighting a lot lately. She was ok when he was working in the state, he was a state rep, then state treasurer, then governor, and she was ok with that because he was still at home but they've been fighting more since he became a senator a few years ago because he has to be away from home in Washington a lot and he's not home nearly as much because he's out trying to get money so he can run for president. But she wants me to try to guilt him out of it. I tried telling her that maybe it would be better because if he was president we'd all live together in the white house but she wants to stay here she doesn't want to go to washington. she wants me to try to tell him I'd miss all my friends at school and i really don't want him to do it and i would miss my friends but I also know how important this is to my dad and I don't want to crush his dreams and I think he'd make a really good president i really do. I told her to talk to him about it but she told me she's afraid to say anything else because she doesn't want to screw up their marriage but I can tell she really doesn't want him to run and I feel bad but I don't think I should have to be that involved in this. what should I do?

2007-01-06 15:30:41 · 8 answers · asked by ponygirl3313 1 in Family

whats the best way to get ur attention and keep it

2007-01-06 15:30:06 · 28 answers · asked by ndirish918 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this 6th grader on my bus who's name is... uh... er... I'll call him "Jason". Jason is a really nice guy, but the thing is nobody listens to him. He's really easy to talk to, and since he tells jokes and I laugh at everyone's jokes, we talk alot. Then yesterday, I got on the bus a little early because I was avoiding... uh... "Kevin", who saw me write something about him in a chat room, so I got on faster. I sat in my usual seat, seat 6, and the bus filled up fast and Jason got on a little late, and Amanda was in his seat, so he chose to sit next me. We talked for a long time, and as the seats gradually emptied, he never moved. He kept sitting next to me, talking and talking, and when I looked out the window and he quieted for a second, I looked at him and he looked away quickly. Then a girl named Carrie asked, "Hey, are you guys going out?!" We both said, no, and she smiled and looked away. As soon as Jordan got off of the bus, Hannah sat in the seat in front of me and said,

2007-01-06 15:29:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous 3 in Singles & Dating

do you think a girl should be to have a bf?

2007-01-06 15:29:34 · 3 answers · asked by Moi, 3 in Singles & Dating

I am shy and in high school still it's my last year I'm making more friend's
1maybe out two guys like me right but don't like them,how I get bofriend.

2007-01-06 15:29:02 · 1 answers · asked by Jacquelyn E 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, if youare just going to make a stupid remark, then whatever, but, have you ever just stood in your room, or somewhere, and peed in your pants> yea, i have done it, i like watching the wet spot grow, and i video taped it once..people seem to like it.
i wanted to know
1. have you ever peed in your pants on purpose?
and
2. have you enjoyed watching people do that?

2007-01-06 15:28:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 15:28:13 · 13 answers · asked by X 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Suppose you could put any type of horse head on any
famous person's body to make the perfect husband/wife.

I would put an Appaloosa head on Jamie Pressley's body.
That'd be soooo sweet!
I'll be dreaming of it/her tonight. sigh.... I'm in love.

2007-01-06 15:28:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please try to answer using personalities and traits

2007-01-06 15:28:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 15:27:54 · 10 answers · asked by BigSchum 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex husband absolutely hates that my daughter tells me everything. We openly talk with each other, my ex and I. What he does not understand my daughter and I have respect for each other and she feels comfortable telling me more. He criticizes me all the time, telling me that I need to be more motherly with her and not her friend. I don't have a bit of trouble with my daughter. She is 12 and nicely achieving her goals. My daugher respects me and never back talks me. So, is it so bad for me as her mother to make her feel like she has a friend in me also?

2007-01-06 15:27:40 · 10 answers · asked by hbuckmeister 5 in Family

if he loves her and not for sex ppl who think thatt and its not me just a Question (and i know all the laws and that stuff )and i want your opinion.

2007-01-06 15:27:07 · 14 answers · asked by gmuse6 1 in Singles & Dating