What should I do? We stopped talking.
2007-01-06 15:32:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anthony 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh, she talked back!
2007-01-06 15:34:31 · update #1
She's saying sorry yet?
2007-01-06 15:35:54 · update #2
Communication man, communication...mad about what i'm curious about, but when it comes to arguments, they only become WORTHLESS when there is no compromise to the situation. EVERYONE argues dude, hell i argue with my fiance once and a while, of course over the dumbest sh*t on the planet, but it's still an argument, what it boils down to is forgive and forget ..so to speak. In the end regardless of whether it's her fault or mine I always apologize, because in all honesty I SERIOUSLY didn't wanna argue, and since it happened then somewhere along the line I did something to either instigate or start it, so for that reason i'll be man enough to apologize, if she's a mature woman she'll do the same, then as MATURE adults you attempt to find an understanding of each other by putting yourself in their argument, trying to see their logic, and then review it with yours to find the equilibrium.
The whole stopped talking thing is a bit stupid, but normally that's just letting go of the steam so it's not that bad, just make sure when the steam passes you guys reconcile the differences PEACEFULLY like mature adults and carry on with life.
Mature by instead of throwing random insults and screaming (which is the most pointless types of arguments known to man), you give each person their say at the table, much like debate competitions....and like i said take both arguments into consideration, understand them, and then reconcile from there.
all i got ...hope it helps.
2007-01-06 15:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone needs to take the plunge and start the conversation that will work out whatever issue you are having with each other.
You shouldn't wait for her to make the first move.
If you were wrong, then apologize and let your friend know that you value her friendship and you wish to remain her friend.
If she was at fault, then let her know how what she said/did upset you. Stress that you hope she understand why you were upset and that you would like to continue being friends.
Either way, I believe this will be a win-win situation if you just pick up the phone and give her a call.
2007-01-06 23:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing wish you would have explained the situation better. If this person is doing bad things to you and making you cry or feel terrible intentionally you definately have to get them out of your life. I person who does not give you respect is not a good person in any way. If you did something bad to her then forgive eachother. And if you both did stuff than this is quiet common in relationships the best thing to do is talk to her and let her express her feelings too maybe you two can work it out and if not then let it go its not worth it if the person doesnt forgive you its a sign that they are likely to do you wrong or harm you in the future and you don't want that to happen. Try this and see what works and if it does good and if it doesn't forget her there are other better women out there.
2007-01-06 23:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by deadly_nightshade5 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If the both of you can't seem to get along, I would say, for the sake of your friendship or relationship, to give yourselves a little bit of space. It's not gonna hurt, it will give you both time to clear your heads and figure out what it is that is bothering each of you and causes this distruption between the both of you. Then you will have a clear head to figure out exactly what the each of your thoughts tell you to do from there on out. stay friends - or a couple. Or if it's something you both want but seems impossible (as you feel now) then maybe theres a resolution where you both can do your parts to make that piece in the puzzle fit. So you have many options after space, but seems to me that space is the healthiest thing for you both right now.
2007-01-06 23:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by mom_in_love 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am confused of your question..... but I will assume that you are unable to speak to a friend for certain reason...
I obviously don't know what it is, but there are one of two ways:
1. Ask a friend who is a friend of her to ask her what it is...
2. Try your very best to get her to talk to you and hear her side of the story... highly recommend you bring a friend along with it...
If all else fails... well, I have to leave that to you. No one knows who strong your friendship between you and her other than yourself...
2007-01-06 23:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by ShadowX 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All people go through this--in a week you two will forget all about it---that's the fun part of being young---and as you mature you learn how to work things out---be the bigger person--say you think it's silly and then forget about it. smile and be nice
2007-01-06 23:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you mad at me too? Are you my friend? We are sorry!! Why did you post this question??Just tell her sorry,anyways you were calling her names too.Why do you have to be immature about it?If you tell her sorry everything will be okay,I will talk to her..........
Just tell her SORRY!!! IT IS EASY!!! TELL HER "Hey..I am sorry" and that's it!!
--Luis,aka Moonlight Shadow--
2007-01-06 23:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by Moonlight Shadow 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you writing questions about me, Anthony? You were the one calling me names. Why do you have to be immature about it? Just say sorry and it'll be ok. Say sorry and we won't have to fight. I don't care when you do it, as long as you do it...
--Stephanie--
2007-01-06 23:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by Bleed!ng Star 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Um if you do'nt wanna talk to her, then just avoid her.
But if you want to keep in touch, don't completely avoid her. hopefulyl she'll apologize or you.
2007-01-06 23:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by princessofgimme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would help if you explained your situation a little bit more. All of us are clueless.
2007-01-06 23:40:38 · answer #10 · answered by Momof1 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋