There is just one problem and that is that there is no real passion between us. Our physical relationship is not what I would like. We talked about it and she said it is awkward at the beginning of a relationship. We have been seeing each other for 6 months. This part of the relationship reminds me of my ex wife when the sexual aspect came to an end. In this relationship we have not even reached the honeymoon stage. Should this be a concern?
2007-01-06 15:32:14 · 8 answers · asked by paco 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Worrying too much, worrying about worrying, and being anxious isn't going to help you sexually or intimately with any woman. That you're already comparing the beginning of this new relationship to the end of your last one isn't the least bit healthy! This is a new woman with a new body, experiences, techniques, and emotions. Maybe she's sensing your reluctance and is blaming herself for your disinterest. (I sure wouldn't be flattered by being compared to someones horrible ex-wife that was a real ice queen).
2007-01-06 23:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by Koro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honeymoon yet - good. You have increased your chance of a marry success by 50%
No passion - same type of woman as last time. This calls for counseling to find out why you pick these women. my guess is that is safe for you and relieves performance anxiety. The women may be getting mixed signals - and respond by pulling back.
2007-01-06 23:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are really 'two' ways at looking at your girlfriends answer!
#1. What does she mean by 'awkward'?
I am a woman, and to me, to say something like 'awkward'
I'd really be telling you I'm not ready for a commitment.
#2. It is possible that she's apprehensive about getting too
sexually involved.
She may feel that six months just isn't long enough to give some
one your 'all', sexually.
The only way to know for sure is to ask her, or at least ask her what she means by awkward'?
If she is one of those women who holds sex as something
'sacred', then don't push the issue.
Look at it this way, at least you know she's 'not' a lush, or
a palyer.
So be grateful for that..
2007-01-06 23:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a problem. It is usually hard and fast in the beginning.
If it isn't what you want, get to moving on...
Have you tried suggesting some fun games??
No pun intended, but maybe she needs a jump start.
Some women just don't know much about sex...
maybe you need to school her, in what you like and want.
Might be fun to try....rent a movie, light some candles...
2007-01-06 23:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a good base to build on. Help her to fully explore her sexuality, and bring out the sensual being inside. Fear or rejection may be holding her back. Be a teacher, be patient and ENJOY
2007-01-06 23:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by mizzmel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you prefer: Sparks? OR Reality?
2007-01-06 23:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probaly, should move on.
2007-01-06 23:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by StreetPunk93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋