Ok so for my birthday my boyfriend took me to Paris. So I told him he would get what ever he wanted. He wants a threesom. Should I go for it? Or should I just tell him straight up no. I really love him and I am willing to do it for him. I am just wondering if it is wrong. And what if he falls for the other girl.
2007-01-06 15:34:35 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell, you can fall for the other girl too. If this is a long term thing, then I suggest you dump him. He hasn't gotten his bachelorhood out of his system, and this will become a problem sooner or later. Better sooner than later to dump him and find a guy that's ready to settle down with you.
2007-01-06 15:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, there is no right or wrong here. the question is how comfortable are you truly going to be in this situation can you stand the thought of another girl with your bf or are you going to enjoy this experience you see Paris is an amazing gift but a threesome is a whole different thing it could affect your relationship after. A lot of couples have threesomes but they have rock solid relationships and they are doing it as a mutual pleasure by dividing sex from love
because they know that it is just for fun and one wont leave the other or continue to see the third party with out the other.
Do it only if you feel good about it for yourself not just to please him. Hey,if you do it you can ask him for your own threesome for your bday!
2007-01-06 15:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by viva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not neccesarily "wrong" - but you're in a relationship where you have feelings for this guy. There's nothing good that come from a threesome when you're in a relationship, except for experience that tells you never to do it again. I can't imagine how the relationship would work after that. Of course, it happens - but you've already displayed some insecurity about him falling for the other girl....
Let me tell you this - if you DO do it - you do the choosing of the other party.
2007-01-06 15:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him no strait up. just bcus he took u to paris for ur bday doesnt mean that u have to do whatever he wanted. and if hes a decent bf, why wud he ask u to do a threesom? another reason why u shud say no is that he cant just give u an expensive gift and ask something in return. and if hes asking for those kinda things from u, he just probably thinks he cud buy u with his money. dont do it!
muchluck
2007-01-06 16:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Ryan&&♫ Music= MY LiFE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do it do it cause you want to not for him. If you do go for it make sure all three of you understand the ground rules set up by you and that you have the option to back out at any time with no consequences. Make sure you pick the other girl so you are always in control and then have fun. Think of her as a sex toy both of you will enjoy together and you will worry less
2007-01-06 15:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by noddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good idea I'd say no
however if you do decide to do this then here are a few rules
1st You Pick the Girl, he has no input
2nd Protection!
3nd You get his man juice
for guys it's a sex thing not an emotional thing. I seriously doubt he would "fall" for her.
2007-01-06 15:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by hogie0101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few moments of a thrill is not worth a lifetime of shame and feeling dirty and animistic.
Plain and simple, some men are just not satisfied with normal intercourse. What is the next step? Making love with a another female, his father, donkey as he watches.
I can see in my crystal ball this fellow is sick in the head. Using your love for him to satisfy his sexual deviate behavior is cruel on his part. Don't go there baby. Dump the sicko!
Grandpa
2007-01-06 15:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't do it. If he really loves you he will accept your decision. He may have thought since you were so far away from home that he could live out his fantasy and only the two of you would know. You seem to be uncomfortable with the idea and I don't think you could ever let it go if you consented. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-01-06 15:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you already made your decision; you said that you are willing to do it for him. I'm thinking just like the first answer, the relationship will end anyway plus why would you tell him that you'd do anything for a birthday present?
2007-01-06 15:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will probably be so freaked out that he can't get it up. You should have gotten that threesome in Paris... French chicks have tricks!
2007-01-06 15:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋