hey guys. Im lost I really dont know what to say. My boyfriend's mom has been really ill with heart conditions the whole year. She has been in and out of the hospital manytimes. Today he sms-ed me saying she looked really bad today. she is in the hospital. I feel so sad! I really wish i know how to comfort him but I dont know what to say!! My heart feels so....I want to throw my arms around him and say everything will be ok...but will it?...I wish I could take away all the fear....What's the use of asking "is mummy ok" when its so obvious she isnt? what should I say? how should I reply his msg? please help.
thanks!
2007-01-06 16:08:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his message: Mommys doing quite poorly today.
My reply: ????
2007-01-06 16:17:41 · update #1
You should just let him know how you feel, that's always the best way
2007-01-06 16:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by Sexytaurusaka305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your b/f that you know he is hurting and you feel for his mom, and him. Let him know that you are there for him if he needs to talk or you can just liston. Let him know he can count on you. Let him know just as you said that you want to throw your arms around him and tell him everything will be alright.
2007-01-06 16:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it clear that you are there for him---all the kissy face huggy stuff is out---what could be the point. It never hurts to just ask " how's it going?" This goes on all over the world--friends are there for one another---and yes--it can be overdone--nothing you can say or do is going to change it---If you have nothing to say--say nothing at all--get that????
2007-01-06 16:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know you are always there for him whenever he needs to talk or just hang out. Just reply that if he wants to talk or c u to let him know and tell him that he and his mom are always in your thoughts
2007-01-06 16:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell him that you are there for him, if he needs to talk, maybe offer to go to the hospital to sit with him, if you want to. things may not be okay, it sounds like she is very sick. just reasure him that you are there if he needs an ear or shoulder to cry on
2007-01-06 16:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by fan_of_the_dolphins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hon not much you can do. Just be there but dint get to close give him space to grieve.
2007-01-06 16:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by bittywrap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know u are there for him and he needs anything Ur there. and uwish she would be okay get him cards and her cards and flowers say sorry
2007-01-06 16:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋