Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

please if any of you could give me some sound advice. im a 23 yr old muslim girl, and ive had my nikah, that is i AM married but i havent moved in with my husband. he lives in london & im in pakistan. he was here fr a few months and we got to know each other in every respect. initially when we got engaged around may '06 things were gr8 bw us. right after we got married, things have gotten really bad. its like we're 2 diff people. specially him. hes changed. we have difficulty getting our thoughts across to each other, he doesnt even tolk to me fr long on skype. incase ure wondering, no im the only woman in his life, he says he loves me, wants to marry me as in move in, wants to spend the rest of his life with me, yet i feel he doesnt mean it because he doesnt do anything to show that he really does. we've been struggling to make our relationship work fr the past 5 months, but in vain :( both of us do want to be with each other but..... things dont seem to fall in place. help......!

2007-01-05 11:28:33 · 7 answers · asked by Aphrodyte`` 1 in Marriage & Divorce

their spouse as in divorce everyone loses or is it as humans we want revenge cant people forgive

2007-01-05 11:27:52 · 14 answers · asked by ariesfunram 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-05 11:27:33 · 5 answers · asked by kgfk2 1 in Friends

how should you ask, or how you should be able to let him know you are ready

2007-01-05 11:27:19 · 7 answers · asked by Westside Princess 1 in Singles & Dating

i met my partner 2 yrs ago and he has hit me few times,once each time,i left him had counselling,he then wormed his way back and i let him,saying he changed,i do think he has but again im black and blue spent new yr in hospital with head injury, made sure my family didn't know cause they would think the worse,i told friends i fell over drunk,which i thought myself a bit, is this what he wants?i can be a pain when drinking he said was down to me i started on him and thought he would lock me out & get me arrested but they took me to my friends,im 32 & been out for years never ended up like that,is it me or is he playing the game so i think that way? he was tagged last year for abuse on me even though it wasn't bad, but then it should not happen at all should it?
he took me to hospital etc it hasn't been til last few days i been thinking "i'm not sure this was my fault"

2007-01-05 11:27:01 · 19 answers · asked by J P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

firm yet gentle,candle lights and relaxing music...how long would be up to you and where you want to be rubbed is up to you....you are the boss

2007-01-05 11:26:58 · 10 answers · asked by disciple 1 in Singles & Dating

I have always been the pretty gril and my sister is then not so pretty girl but SO smart and i dont now why my parents (specialy dad) do everything she saids and I feel that they dont triet me the same ???

2007-01-05 11:26:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

a few babes screamed when they felt my big manhood in there womanhoods place hahahaha.

2007-01-05 11:25:58 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HEY GALS I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH MY FRIEND!! MY FRIENDS MELINA HAS A BOYFRIEND NAMED RAFAEL AND THEY WERE GOING OUT BUT SINCE THEY BROKE UP I BEEN TALKING TO HIM!! ALOT!!! BUT PEOPLE BEN SAYING THAT I LIKE HIM BUT I DONT SO PLZ TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!!

2007-01-05 11:25:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone here believe in polygamy (such as how it is portrayed on Big Love)? Does it ever really work out with the other sister wives?

2007-01-05 11:25:05 · 6 answers · asked by christinedaae 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-05 11:24:37 · 1 answers · asked by deeteeru 1 in Singles & Dating

well my friends are always making fun of me and i cant take it anymore do any of you know a way to stop it or "come backs" and dont say "just ignore it" becuase im sick and tired of trying

2007-01-05 11:24:34 · 48 answers · asked by mcris4444 1 in Friends

I'm tired of the endless mind games and the trying to figure out people. It shouldn't be so hard. Why can't we just date without any hang-ups, mind games, and all of the other bs that comes with it? Eventually, I would like to get married but at the same time, I'm like phuck it!!! People play too many games and I'm not up for the bs. I've been told that I need to play the game too but that's not for me.

Is there any people out there that aint about the game playing? I'm just sick off it. I'm not asking for and instant commitment from anyone. All I want to do is go and have fun like going to a movie, dinner, club, etc. So what's the problem? I should be a man's dream because I love my independence so I dont have to be around you 24/7. I don't telephone harass anyone. PLUS, if you go out with your homeboys and or to a strip club, thats find with me.

Also, It seems that I attract men that drain me emotionally. I'm working on changing that.

2007-01-05 11:24:13 · 5 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Singles & Dating

I have recently found out that my sixth grader now has a "boyfriend". She told me "Nothing really 'happens'. We don't really go on dates. It's just like saying we like eachother." I want her to be happy and not to be angry with me, but I don't want her to grow up too fast. So my question is, at what age should kids start "daiting"?

2007-01-05 11:23:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On New Years eve, I came home really drunk, and I pissed all over his car. When he came out, I started pissing on him. Then I threw up in his truck while I was trying to go get McDonalds. I woke up the next morning and he asked if I took his truck. I said no. He hasn't said a word to me since.

2007-01-05 11:23:27 · 26 answers · asked by Arnold 3 in Family

I just found out that my future brother-in-law was married the same day that my fiance and I have chosen for our wedding date. Does etiquette or even common courtesy require that I change our date?

2007-01-05 11:22:35 · 12 answers · asked by BellaBean 1 in Weddings

im just starting to go with someone and they want me to kiss them but i refused how long should i make them wait..if we just been going together for 2 days

2007-01-05 11:21:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been trying to figure out how come the most of married people don't get along with their in-laws. Do you understand it?

2007-01-05 11:21:57 · 11 answers · asked by JACQUELINE T 6 in Marriage & Divorce

WHAT DO I DO CAUSE I WANT A BOYFRIEND I TRY TO STAY SINGLE BUT THATS NOT FOR ME

2007-01-05 11:21:38 · 25 answers · asked by CHALEAH J 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean i not popular but i still have lots of friends

2007-01-05 11:21:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i just got divorced. it wasn't bitter or hatred just fizzling out. i have no daughters so i'm not sure what to do with my wedding dress. i don't regret the marriage but i'm not sure what's right to do with it. it's two sizes too small and was custom made from a pattern.

2007-01-05 11:21:24 · 22 answers · asked by tocogi8 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-05 11:21:16 · 3 answers · asked by michael h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 11:20:18 · 30 answers · asked by robfishuk 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-05 11:20:02 · 7 answers · asked by CaitlynConvict 1 in Friends

I am wondering why some of my friends seems so special to me, they are not perfect, neither with so much qualities but somehow they appear great to me and I feel I am used with them and I am keen to talk to them and to share stuff. I can't explain to myself that even if I do not approve their actions, I still love them and support them because somehow I care for our friendship. I do not know why I see some people so interesting and I wonder what determine who should we like or pick up for a friend? I mean when some people are nice, how we choose who will be the right one for a friend? And why, when having friends we get so much attached and even when we are angry we still like them? Is it true that some friends are like a family, because in the family the members forgive each other and forget about the negative feelings.

2007-01-05 11:18:56 · 9 answers · asked by Natalie 4 in Friends

i got held back in the 3rd grade, but i wanna celebrate my sweet 16 when i turn 16. my mom and dad say i should celebrate it at 17 than people wont be asking to many questions. just not that but if i celebrate at 17 i'll get to celebrate with my friends who are of course a year younger than me. what should i do?

2007-01-05 11:18:42 · 4 answers · asked by vanessa 2 in Family

emagine every time you walk into a room people would her your theme song.
for me it would be : im to sexy

im a modle ya know what i mean and i shake my little tosh on the cat walk....
yea on the cat walk......
im to sexy for my cat or pussy for pussy cat !
........

ah, caught in the moment.

2007-01-05 11:18:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, here is the situation me and my wife were married 3 months before i went to war in afghanistan, when i was there i was very faithful to her, but she was unfaithful, not to go into details but there was many guys she was with and had one in my house for 7 months. when i got back i found out everything and we didnt divorce just separated for about a year, then we met up one day and she got pregnant, now the feelings arent there for her, but we have a son as of now, and she wants to work things out, make them good, but we have been separated for about a year, and then we had a fling and our son was born. my question is, what do i do, i mean am i wrong for feeling like this. i dont feel the love for her as i did, but this is my first son. someone please provide some help what do i do?

2007-01-05 11:18:19 · 22 answers · asked by The LuvDoctor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i like this grl but the problem is she's one of my best friends what do u think i should do???????

2007-01-05 11:18:13 · 4 answers · asked by circaskater56 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 11:18:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating