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Question

well my friends are always making fun of me and i cant take it anymore do any of you know a way to stop it or "come backs" and dont say "just ignore it" becuase im sick and tired of trying

Answer 1

Obviously if they keep making fun of u they arent ur friends. Dont take that ish. Get some new friends, ones that wont make fun of u!

Answer 2

Tell them that it's bugging you and to cut it out. If they are making fun of you in a bad way, maybe they're not the friends you thought they were. When REAL friends make fun of each other, it is fairly obvious to tell that they are being sarcastic. I don't know if this helps or not. The ignoring thing worked for me.

Answer 3

Well, for a start, ther'e not your friends. Friends don't do these sort of things. However, here are some comebacks. TELL THEM

If they feel the need to make fun of others then there must be something wrong with them, as they are insecure enough to be afraid to let things and people be.

That everyone has good and bad points. EVERYONE. And if there'e too stupid to realise this, then who in hell wants to take notice of anything they say-there'e too stupied.

Ther'e at an age where they are expected by all reasonable society to act their age. If they cannot do so then they are only children. Not ready to be an adult in society. Hence they deserve to be treated as children, not to be taken seriously.

If they are that cruel, then they are wholly immoral and unethical.
They have put themselves outside the pale of humanity. So not only are they to be considered as unethical but they are to be regard, because of their own moral choice as part of the animal kingdom.

Thereore to cut a long story short. These people are INSECURE(afraid to face people as they are)STUPID(too daft to see people for what they are)IMMATURE AND CHILDISH(not mature enough to operate in adult society) and UNETHICAL AND BESTIAL-BEAST LIKE(won't treat people decently and act like animals)
In short: they are Stupid:Cowardly:Unadult:Moral lacking-SCUM. You can come back at them with these.
But the bottom line is THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS: get wise-dump the scum. You deserve better. For bullies do not respect others volunteerily, they must be restrained and forced to do so - like animals. And it is unjust, what they are doing. Do two things. One, dump them and dump them NOW. Two, they are harrassing you. Get them with the full force of the law and/or the rules of the organisation and places you are with them. They will not do so by any other way. Be ruthless to them.
You see, those who are constantly boasting and making fun of others are hiding weaknesses. They are not the real deal and they know it. They are fakes. A lion does not go about roaring and boasting it is a lion. This fact is crystal clear and everone knows it. A lion only has to be present. But these things are not the real deal, they are weak fakes. For they cover their weaknesses with shows of bravado and strength. These are fake. So as far as these people(and they are NOT friends) are concerned, there is only one philosophy to apply to them:
TURN OR BURN. Hope this helps.

Answer 4

One of the best things in life is having friends who love, support and respect you. If your current 'friends' do not contribute any of these positive things to your life, they're probably not worth the effort. Maybe they're making fun of you because they're small minded - maybe you have different goals, interests or beliefs, and they have a hard time accepting people who are not exactly the same as them. You will find real friends eventually who you have more in common with, who respect you for who you are. Keep the lines of communication open, but don't let them criticize you. Be yourself, stay strong. You will find friends eventually who love you for you.

Answer 5

ask then how the want to be black mailed
the easy way or the hard way
they will ask you what, and or what is the difference, you tell them the easy way is, you guys stop it now, all of it, and that's it..nothing else,
and the hard way is, you do not stop, I tell all your secretes..and they may say like what do you know, you say, believe me enough...
and hopefully they will stop,. hey it could back fire on you, and they could get much meaner, and or say stuff about you..at that time,you have to think of what your prepared to say and do about it..
either just the truth, or take it way past where any of this should go, into bigger and bigger lies, once this is started, there isn't an turning back, it may even lead into a fist fight or worse..
or you could just say to them I HAVE HAD IT, COMPLETELY HAD IT..STOP NOW....
or beat them all up and be done with them...

good luck

Answer 6

They say never change for anyone but yourself. But, you can't change other people. You can only change yourself. In fact, changing yourself would be for yourself in this case. My question to you is, what is it that you do that they make fun of you? People don't just all pick one person to make fun of. It must be something out of the ordinary (within the confines of your group of course) that they're making fun of.

My roommate does constantly find reasons to make fun of me. So instead of getting pissed everytime he does it, I decided to change the things he makes fun of, like having a terribly dirty room all the time, or hanging out by myself all the time instead of going out, or being sort of chubby.

I lost weight, organized my room, started going out more. I obviously couldn't grow 3 inches taller (one of the things he makes fun of) but I can quit having him as a friend. One day I finally had enough and stood up for myself. Whoever said just ignore them is an idiot. The more I ignored him, the more he knew it bothered me. So finally he pushed me past the line and I pushed back. Physically. And the fight began. He hit me a couple of times, but I fought better. And I threw one really good punch that knocked him down for good. I do regret making him bleed, but he had to learn that he can't keep pushing my buttons.

It will drive you over the FREAKING EDGE... Now we're friends again and he quit making fun of me. In fact, for all the changing I did, I now have alot of friends, I'm in a band, and I feel much better about myself.

Those punks that say violence isn't the answer never had somone constantly picking them apart little by little until the just snapped. See, you can't snap. You have to take care of it BEFORE you snap. Use a good punch to the nose, eye socket, or jaw, rather than an adrenaline-driven, raging alcoholic baseball bat to the side of the head... that could kill them. But that's exactly what you'll do if you keep letting them treat you this way.

What are you doing with friends that make fun of you all the time anyway? Those aren't friends, that's a group of people with a pinata. Be the pinata that comes to life and bites their a$$.

Answer 7

Nothing you say is going to fix it. The one thing that will fix it is if you show that the kidding doesn't bother you (fake it). The reason that they pick on you is because they get pleasure from your reaction. No reaction, no pleasure. Worked great for me when I was young. I had a physical defect and everyone had a real good time bringing it up. Once I stopped reacting, they went looking for someone else to bug.

Answer 8

Doesn't sound like very nice friends if they're always making fun of you. Maybe you should reevaluate your "friends". Don't hang out with them for a while and see how they like it. If they wonder why you don't want to do anything with them, just tell them they either straighten up or you're not friends anymore.

Answer 9

Yep this is easy fight back give 2 them what they give 2 u . The more u take the more they will give maybe there not real freinds if they make fun of u all the time there not freinds fight back trust me ! Goog luck

Answer 10

Do your friends know that its hurting you? If they do you need to find new friends bc their not really friends if their always making fun of you, and if they don't know tell them and if they don't stop use my above advice. Hope that helps