I'm tired of the endless mind games and the trying to figure out people. It shouldn't be so hard. Why can't we just date without any hang-ups, mind games, and all of the other bs that comes with it? Eventually, I would like to get married but at the same time, I'm like phuck it!!! People play too many games and I'm not up for the bs. I've been told that I need to play the game too but that's not for me.
Is there any people out there that aint about the game playing? I'm just sick off it. I'm not asking for and instant commitment from anyone. All I want to do is go and have fun like going to a movie, dinner, club, etc. So what's the problem? I should be a man's dream because I love my independence so I dont have to be around you 24/7. I don't telephone harass anyone. PLUS, if you go out with your homeboys and or to a strip club, thats find with me.
Also, It seems that I attract men that drain me emotionally. I'm working on changing that.
2007-01-05 11:24:13 · 5 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hope I'm not sounding desperate because I'm not. I'm just sick of the UNnecessary games. I know that life is a game and I'm ok with that BUT I dont like the unnecessary games!
2007-01-05 11:32:02 · update #1
AMEN!!! I hear ya and I am in TOTAL agreement with you!!!
2007-01-05 11:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by bryan c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. You know what you want and expect from a relationship. It should be simple and just say what you want from each other. But sometimes, men don't get it and some just want to play games. I guess it depends on how old they are and what they really want. I am glad you see the pattern and are looking to change it. Good Luck.
2007-01-05 19:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Games are stupid. I'm having trouble with the same thing. All the guys I attract are the users. Hang in there sister!!
2007-01-05 19:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by punkrocker490 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound desperate. desperation draws the jerks like a dead animal draws flies. why not focus on your on worth without a man being involved? but i must remind you that all of life is a "game". if you remember that everything involves rules of some kind.
2007-01-05 19:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by bldskd9 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Exactly. Dating is so illogical and stupid. Too many games. Too many headaches. This is why I find myself hiring hookers. They give me what I want, I give them what they want. Direct and simple.
2007-01-05 19:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by FrozenCloud 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋