Why some people appear special to us?

Question

I am wondering why some of my friends seems so special to me, they are not perfect, neither with so much qualities but somehow they appear great to me and I feel I am used with them and I am keen to talk to them and to share stuff. I can't explain to myself that even if I do not approve their actions, I still love them and support them because somehow I care for our friendship. I do not know why I see some people so interesting and I wonder what determine who should we like or pick up for a friend? I mean when some people are nice, how we choose who will be the right one for a friend? And why, when having friends we get so much attached and even when we are angry we still like them? Is it true that some friends are like a family, because in the family the members forgive each other and forget about the negative feelings.

Answer 1

to me, there's not really an answer for that, you are a great person who is always forgiving to your friends.of course no one is perfect, but there's a lot of stuff you have in common that keep you and your friends tight for life.your friends seems more like a friends forever, no matter what happens, your always going to be friend with each, and yea like family.

Answer 2

People hang out with likeminded people... step aside and think of the simple qualities of you and your friends. Are they similar? Do you speak the same? Say the same phrases a lot? Of course you do. People are most comfortable with people that are just like them... there is no threat. That's why you feel more comfortable to share stuff with them... you don't see there being a threat. So as you parents say.. you are who you decide to hang out with.. For example put 5 women in one house hold long enough and their menstrual period cycle all start around the same time. It just happens.

Answer 3

Tough question, but yes, friends are our extended family, so we often forgive them their sins.
Sometimes, we like someone, not for who they are, but who they remind us of, without realizing it.
Growing up, you may have had a favorite aunt, uncle, grandfather etc, who made you feel loved and cared for. Someone who made you feel happy.
Then when you grow up, you look for those same attributes, in other people, and when you find someone similar, you become friends.
But as they aren't the same people, as you remember, they will often disappoint you, when they do something, your idol, wouldn't do.
We are all social creatures, and are parts of a tribe or clan. From the small one, of your family, to friends, then your city, your state, and your Nation.
We feel connected to them, and we cheer them on, most often in sports. But the same in other ventures. They are we, and we feel connected.

Answer 4

a friendship is a special thing. we see each other for what we really are and accept each other for who we really are. we can get angry at each other but we know each other and how we react to things - we understand each other better than family members ever will and somehow know how to open up to each other without fear or intimidation.

Answer 5

they are the people who were there for you, maybe they do eat your chips at lunch, but then they stand up for you when that mean kid said you were a sl*t. friends are people we admire, even if we don't always agree with their actions.

Answer 6

i am similar to you. i have a lot of "loser" friends which i do not think are losers at all. for example one of my friends are called fat, ugly, disgusting, etc. he is also a bit weird.. but i love him anyway (not in a gay way)

Answer 7

If their nice it makes us feel for them more...its good to have sumone to talk to .

Answer 8

because you are able to see them for the truly special person they are, you have opened yourself to them

Answer 9

they probably seem like dat 2 u but maybe they have the same feelings u neva know maybe u should ask them how they feel bout u n tellthem u want da truth..... n c wat they say n tell them how u feel bout u....