WHAT DO I DO CAUSE I WANT A BOYFRIEND I TRY TO STAY SINGLE BUT THATS NOT FOR ME
2007-01-05 11:21:38 · 25 answers · asked by CHALEAH J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask a homely boy to be your boyfriend. He will be thrilled.
2007-01-05 11:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Alright... So you say you want a boyfriend right? Well there are ways you can go about this. Well first of all. Chances are you are sick of being single and in the back of your mind you are thinking " i'm never going to have a boyfriend! and i'm never going to have sex!" this isn't a bad thing! Listen. Relationships hurt. And honestly until you are around the 18 and up range chances are you won't be spending the rest of your life with your significant other. This is alright though. You learn from your experiences but you also get hurt from your experiences. Its the hardest lesson ever. One problem with you wanting a boyfriend is you can't just request and snap your fingers and expect a boyfriend to appear. Usually you get a boyfriend by becoming friends with someone you like first! or seeing a cute guy at school or something that you like and talking to them. Ask for #'s ( but don't do that unless you are really desperate because then you come off as desperate) What i'm trying to say is.... You don't NEED a boyfriend. You WANT a boyfriend... being single is alright too.. join a club... or something.. you can meet lots of new guys there. But there isn't much a girl can do to successfullly obtain a boyfriend. Sure you can flirt, look pretty, ask them out ( thats if your desperate) but the guy is the one who decides. You can't have a one way relationship you have to make sure the guy likes you back. This takes time, effort, sacrifice.. So if I were you I would just wait it out and go out and meet new people you will find a guy you like that you can pursue etc. Good luck
2007-01-05 19:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by LIZ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, let me fly in the face of conventional wisdom...which is going to be "you don't NEED a boyfriend": If you want a boyfriend, that's good enough for me.
The only real secret is to be yourself, and to put yourself in places where you can meet people you share interests with. You didn't mention your age or location, but church an school are both excellent choices. If you're friendly, and approachable, I think the rest will take care of itself.
2007-01-05 19:25:44 · answer #3 · answered by David G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are UNDER SIXTEEN, you're too young. If you're over sixteen, you still need to concentrate on doing well in school and graduating with a good GPA. Too many girls get way too caught up in their social lives that what's really important - doing well in school and preparing for an independent productive adult life suffers.
Wait until you've finished highschool to really get involved with MEN. Boys aren't worth it. They improve with age AFTER they graduate from high school.
Don't panic. Wait till the boys grow up....
2007-01-05 19:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by WhatAmI? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you try to stay single, but that's not for you - you need a boyfriend.
that statement is contrary!
oh well - the more you want, and pine upon your desire to have, the less you'll get.
if you spend all your time looking for love, things that actually need to be done will be left without
2007-01-05 19:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't get a boyfriend just for the sake of getting a boyfriend. Wait for a guy you like, then you can ask how to get him.
2007-01-05 19:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by FoodLOVER 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're underaged, having a boyfriend isn't exactly the best idea. However, if you're not, flirt a little with guys yo like, and maybe, they'll like you back.
2007-01-05 19:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by Diamonds_R_4Ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and be more sociable. Get out more. Smile some more to, so that you can show you are a nice person that is easy to approach
2007-01-05 19:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Noah's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a boyfriend. You need a boy when you don't have good friends, that are there for you.
2007-01-05 19:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by morglovsya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advertise
2007-01-05 19:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by SheiksOnAPlane 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
get one or get involve in an activity that will keep your mine of having a boyfriend.
2007-01-05 19:23:49 · answer #11 · answered by ms attitude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋