Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

My boyfriend and I have been sleeping together for a while now. I know he enjoys it but his face doesn't say anything good. He looks bored and emotionless. He says that it's just his normal look. It makes me feel uncomfortable and unsatisfying. I talked to him about it and he think that I should just trust that fact that he says he likes it rather than go off of how he looks. But during sex, I can't help but see this guy who looks like he is just going through the motions. I don't know how to fix this.

2007-01-03 04:38:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

98 times a year. That is just shy of once every 4 days. Does this seem accurate to you, or would you say more or less???

2007-01-03 04:36:29 · 62 answers · asked by Smilingcheek 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello, I live with my boyfriend in the state of ohio. Last friday, he went to a local bar and I promised I would meet him there one hour later. When I got there, I noticed that he was talking to a lady at the bar and I just snapped. I walked over and started harassing him, calling him names, and I grabbed his shirt. He then asked for the tab so he could leave and I tried to grab it from him and then finally suceeded. When I saw a beer on there that he never drinks, I slapped him as hard as I could, and then without warning he punched me on the cheek. I was stunned and then he proceded to leave the place. Some guys started walking out behind him and I followed, the next thing I know the cops are called. My boyfriend walked home. They interviewed me for awhile, and then went to our house to arrest him. When the cops got there they didnt want to arrest him because he had a red hand mark on his face. But by law, they had to. This is now a huge mess, I can can truthfully say that hes never

2007-01-03 04:36:06 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My god son's mother called me Saturday to tell me that she was pregnant once again. She has 1 child, had one abortion and one miscarriage. She is pregnant from a guy that she has been sleeping with for about 2 years now. According to her, this guy does not even consider her to be his girlfriend just a female friend. When she found out that she was pregnant she was disapointed about the news and wanted to know if I would adopt her unborn baby. I don't know if she was joking or not but I said no then she asked if I would be this child god mother also.
I basically in so many words called her stupid for continually getting herself into impregnating situations when she is struggling financially with the one child that she already has. Was I insensitive for my comments? I didn't mean to be rude but I just don't understand why she continually puts herself into these dumb situations.

2007-01-03 04:35:15 · 26 answers · asked by Cheryl J 2 in Friends

the only problem is that he doesnt commit to me,,he has never said words like"i want u as my life partner" or" u are the girl i want to be with for the rest of my life" but i knw he loves me a lot...but still dont knw y he dusnt commit to me...i hav tried asking him a lotta times but he always says he z too young to descide...can u guys just interpret sumthin from this ???please help

2007-01-03 04:32:30 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am completely freaking out!! I ordered 2 bridesmaids dress one maid of honor dress and one flowergirl dress from an Eden Bridal Dealer. I ordered one more bridemaids like two weeks after the first order.The dealer has received the dresses but he tells me that he did not order the last dress because I did not pay him.We agreed that the dresses would be received and then I would pay the final bill. Now one of my bridesmaid has no dress.It is too late to have another made by the factory because the wedding is in one week. What am I gonna do? Are there any online vendors that keep Eden style 7104 on royal blue size 16 in stock?

2007-01-03 04:32:18 · 25 answers · asked by martini_40727 4 in Weddings

I met this wonderful, handsome, sexy, smart, educated, divorced man who will not commit. He has a dating rule, (which is popular here in GA), that we don't meet each others kids, friends or family until their is a committed relationship. I kinda understand that rule, but then I don't. We met 10 months ago and all we have in common is sex. We both have expressed many many times how much we adore each other blah blah blah. He sends me instant messages and text messages weekly, and stays in touch at least once a week. Because he won't take me out in public, because he won't talk about his personal life with me, because this and that, I have tried to break it off with him three times. He won't let go. His excuse is that since his ex-wife cheated on him while he was away at work (he works out of the country), he is going to wait until he gets a job at home making a salary he is happy with. Give me a break. I'm not his ex-wife. I want him in my life, but I'm frustraded. Help.

2007-01-03 04:32:08 · 8 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi There

I have a gut feeling that my boyfriend is cheating and I want to catch him in the least expensive way. but in order to prove it I either have to be there or have Pic's im my possesion. So I can't be there cause I have a baby to take care of. ANY ONE FOR POINTERS

2007-01-03 04:29:04 · 2 answers · asked by April W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

have a close friend whom has been acting wierd lately.First off he all started when she came over after thanksgiving, she had been calling me everyday, and then she stopped.And once she left my house, she text messaged me calling me an hoe, (which was out the clear blue sky) I don't know where the hell that came from, and then she stopped calling me altogther, and so I called her to wish her a happy new years, and she never returned my call..which like I said before, in which I 'm never used too, Anyone have any advice as far as how to interpret it and what to do?

2007-01-03 04:23:56 · 41 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Which race has the biggest Co*ck......come on ladies you must have experiance of a few well ......which is it....?

2007-01-03 04:14:58 · 5 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

I decided to marry my bestfriend after leaving my spouse of almost six years who had two affairs. I am very happy with my fiance but still work about my exspouse. He is going through a very hard financial problems that even though he has two job, he can't makes it. He has not been able to purchase groceries and only eats at work. I have been purchasing the food for our pets that he kept. Yesterday, I forced him to go with me to get him some groceries. He refused to take them after my fiance called me but at the end he took them. I have not told my fiance about the groceries only the pet food. I know he is not my responsiblity but I still love my ex regardless of what happened between us but know we could never be together. I feel guilty feeling so happy about my future with my fiance. If something happened to my exspouse, I would never be able to be happy. Is it morally wrong for me to keep this from my fiance? Is it wrong to feel God will reward me if I help my exspouse out?

2007-01-03 04:13:55 · 115 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 04:10:32 · 1 answers · asked by the secret miley c. 1 in Friends

I have this female college professor who keeps looking at me and she is very attractive! She sometimes drops a small hint of flirty behavior. Whenever I see her walking around campus... she ALWAYS waves hello with a smile and make small talk. Whenever I see her in class lectures... she always look my way and smiles. She doesn't do this to any other students because I have kept a sharp eye on her for 2 years! Plus she isn't married.

However, would it be out of my league to date a female college professor? Could this cost her to lose her job? Could this cost me to lose my college degree?

Or should I take her flirty signals as a way to have fun but still keep my distance because she needs to keep her job in order to live?

2007-01-03 04:07:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Flirt with a girl who you are very close with but is dating someone else? I mean her and the guy she is dating have gone out for a year now but arent really a happy go lucky couple... Which is why i dont understand whhy they are dating... but the past few days she was telling me how she still has stuf i gave her when i liked her and she was reading letters to me that i wrote and stuff.... not to mention she said she would of dated me in a heartbeat if i asked a long time ago... would it be wrong to flirt back with her if it seems she is trying to stir something up?

2007-01-03 04:05:18 · 41 answers · asked by David E 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 04:05:04 · 11 answers · asked by Tamara H 1 in Weddings

2007-01-03 04:04:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm 11 years old
I am not to young im just trying to find my soulmate
and im not sure how to find my solemate will I feel different when we go out or what

2007-01-03 04:04:33 · 42 answers · asked by Tyler P 1 in Singles & Dating

I can understand like... whenever I have issues I go to him... but men don't like to reveal their issues with women...

2007-01-03 04:04:32 · 47 answers · asked by reba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that my friends all have no jobs (or bad job), live at home with parents, drink and smoke daily, no education or motivation, dirty, but all of them have girl friends.

I am 25, own a house, have a great job, light drinker, clean shaven, great shape, not ugly, good personality and the only girls I meet have emotional probelms...what am I doing wrong or am I looking in the wrong places, mostly bars and parties.......

2007-01-03 04:03:51 · 32 answers · asked by mickeys12 1 in Singles & Dating

...or just yourself?

Please be honest. And, state your age.

2007-01-03 04:03:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cuz i was wonderin how u say player...u kno like a guy or lady who play ppl....my mom n grandma said thats wat u call players[pica flor]i guess cuz the bee is always landing on different flowers n once he sucks out all the sweets from the flower he moves on to the next one????idk nyone kno how to say player in spanish tho

2007-01-03 04:00:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know what other color to use with the black. I'm having an outdoor wedding at night. There will be candles and white lights everywhere. Please give me some ideas on another color to use.

2007-01-03 03:59:18 · 4 answers · asked by country_Princess 1 in Weddings

basically this is my side i met this girl about two weeks ago and she really likes me and i like her but her last relationship she went out with a 26 year old and shes only 18 and im 18 aswell and the guys she goes out wiv have cars and have money and respectable careers and im a civil engineer tech only an apprentice and i dnt get paid dat much and dnt have a car all i have is me and it makes me wonder y she lykes me out of the many guys dat fancy her and i mean many and shes doin gd 4 herself shes an independent lady has her own car and her own job and her future looks bright as in her career path and mines 2 but mine will take time and if we do go out i afraid i mite be an incovenience 2 her she comes and see me all the tyme we talk to all tymes of the hour in the mornin but a lot of guys fancy her even police officers damn now i dnt know how to play it wiv out being jealous help plz

2007-01-03 03:58:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am about to 'split' with my partner of five years, we have been having a lot of problems and feel it best if he moves out for a while, hopefully things will improve between us and we will end up back together. We also have an 18 month old daughter.... I am looking into claiming benefits (though not all as I do work) mainly tax credits and need to know what are the rules regarding what is classed as a partner but cant find anything on the web. Someone told me you will be classed as having a partner if they sleep over at your home more than three nights a week?! We want to keep things on as good terms as possible and he will want to see our daughter a lot which I have no problem with. Thanks in advance X

2007-01-03 03:58:13 · 20 answers · asked by ames 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 03:58:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guy talkin to a girl...what does she always want to hear?

2007-01-03 03:56:34 · 16 answers · asked by smartmitch 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been meaning to ask a girl out for a couple of weeks now, but she's never alone. Any time she leaves class or walks around the halls, she goes with friends. How can i ask her out?

2007-01-03 03:56:14 · 11 answers · asked by theanswernator 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 03:55:45 · 5 answers · asked by sleepingliv 7 in Singles & Dating

thanks~

2007-01-03 03:55:14 · 12 answers · asked by _ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 03:54:34 · 54 answers · asked by melissa 2 in Singles & Dating