I met this wonderful, handsome, sexy, smart, educated, divorced man who will not commit. He has a dating rule, (which is popular here in GA), that we don't meet each others kids, friends or family until their is a committed relationship. I kinda understand that rule, but then I don't. We met 10 months ago and all we have in common is sex. We both have expressed many many times how much we adore each other blah blah blah. He sends me instant messages and text messages weekly, and stays in touch at least once a week. Because he won't take me out in public, because he won't talk about his personal life with me, because this and that, I have tried to break it off with him three times. He won't let go. His excuse is that since his ex-wife cheated on him while he was away at work (he works out of the country), he is going to wait until he gets a job at home making a salary he is happy with. Give me a break. I'm not his ex-wife. I want him in my life, but I'm frustraded. Help.
2007-01-03 04:32:08 · 8 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think if you truely love him and can't see yourself without him then give him sometime...but limit it. Sit down and tell him how you feel and tell him if he's not ready to move on then you're gone. Good luck! Hope all turns out well!
2007-01-03 06:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by kfoxy55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all due respect, are you sure he isn't still married? He's a little too secretive and distant. After 10 months you deserve a little more than sex and and a weekly progress report. I think you might want to quit wasting your time and move on to someone who is available, emotionally and physically.
2007-01-03 12:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby...This guy is sooooo married with a family and you are soooo being played. Run away now girl don't look back and promise everybody on this board that you will not do this kind of thing again....Good Luck
2007-01-03 13:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy is soooooooooooooo married. He's not getting out of a marriage. He's one happy dude.... wifey and family at home, and you on the side for sex and nothing more than a few text messages here and there. Honey, please wise up. Move on, move on, move on.
2007-01-03 13:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to make a decision about whether to stay with him or not. I would give him a choice and tell him either you're together or you're not.
2007-01-03 12:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out Now! He is messing with your head and not being honest. Good Luck.
2007-01-03 13:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by Steve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is still married and that is why he is keeping the relationship a secret!! I sure would check it out before you really get hurt!!!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2007-01-03 13:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by linda bug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you fat?
2007-01-03 13:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by mickeys12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋