Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

I've gone out with a great guy for the past 5months. We basically sleep over each other's home every night and have informally met various members of the each other's family. Last night he made the statement that he is not my boyfriend. He has shared that he has been in long term relationships that have destroyed him. This morning, he did not kiss me goodbye like usual-- i think he is still mad from last night's conversation. What should I do?

2007-01-03 05:43:18 · 16 answers · asked by sallySC 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are divorced and both are remarried, but my mom talks to me about court and says bad things about my step mom and my father, my mom always asks me why I don't want to go live wit her (I'm fine wit my father I have a wonderful life wit him) I feel like saying to her "shut the hell up, don't you get it, all you do is push me farther away from you.". What do I do? Advice please!

2007-01-03 05:43:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well I met this guy at my local bar, and we started talking and hit it off. Well a couple weeks later he told me that he was married...I was not suprised because he has a good job and good looking...Well he expected to get mad and walk away..But I have still been talking to him and meeting him for drinks occasionally. Well he never calls me, just texts and tells me to call..so it does not show up on the phone bill..Well Saturday he gets drunk and calls me over and over. Well I was out so I did not answer. So his wife checked his phone records and has been calling me and knows where I live and my name. Is there anyway out of this?

2007-01-03 05:42:43 · 25 answers · asked by haleigh b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

And if does not work, do u still get a bonus for trying? Can it works both ways (boys & gals)?

2007-01-03 05:42:14 · 33 answers · asked by mia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 05:41:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, this is gonna sound a bit rediculous, but i'm am terrified when she's around him! i'm so afraid that she's gonna do something to make him want her. she's not really attractive and she's got issues, but i'm still afraid. do you have any advice to make me less concerned?? or anything else?

2007-01-03 05:41:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats happening?
I've been going out with this guy 4 awhile now and he never really talks 2 me well he does but not alot he talks 2 my best friend more then me sometimes. Does he still like me?

2007-01-03 05:40:11 · 2 answers · asked by musicfan799 1 in Singles & Dating

Do I have the right to ask her to stop? It bothers me, especially when she says she is "tempted" to see them because they were "friends with benefits". I love her and trust her to be faithful but I fear this the kind of situation she will use to break my heart.

2007-01-03 05:40:04 · 13 answers · asked by J H 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i know this girl for awhile, not well just here and there....i knew her older sister in high school. now im not an ugly guy but i know im no model, ive got an awesome personality and thats how i get the girls but....shes is extremely hot and can get any guy she wants! we hung out with friends back in september and kinda kept in touch but not really she blew me off a bit.....3 weeks ago we started calling each other again........hanging out with friends, going to clubs with other ppl, but she also calls often just to go eat and spent a day together meeting her gramps at work and seeing her mom at work , im always at her house...we threw new years party together....she always calls, and yesterday visited me at work ....i dunno....im i just a friend???????

2007-01-03 05:39:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 05:38:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am worried for a family member's safety and would like to find out if her spouse has obtained a gun or not.

2007-01-03 05:38:41 · 5 answers · asked by tiki8355 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Men and women please answer. I was so excited, but now all of her attention is focused on our son. We couldn't wait to conceive and tried and succeded the month we got married. Now I regret it, I want time with my wife, l want her to pay more attention to me. Is this normal or am I selfish?

2007-01-03 05:38:22 · 21 answers · asked by jrawls 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a speech that i need help on, its on diabetes and i can't find any thing on it i have to find proper. if any one has diabetes and can help and give me advice because it runs in my family can u leave ur first name please. thanks

2007-01-03 05:38:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she is married ...why would you wanna see you your ex?

2007-01-03 05:37:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, essentially this is whats up. Theres a girl *isn't there always?* we both liked eachother at one point, she technically isn't allowed to date, but we dated anyway, I was her first relationship, about 4 days into it she asked if we could be friends, because apparently I was too "clingy" (that's because I just got out of a really deep relationship a few weeks before all this) but I still really like her, and I'm worried she's just lost all interest in me, I gave her some space over break, and we havn't talked at all since break started, I'd like to get another chance with her, just so I can prove I'm not clingy to her. It was just the circumstances when we were dating. my ex was bugging me a lot during then. any advice?

2007-01-03 05:37:27 · 7 answers · asked by stattiiic 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother widowed mother lives here in India -where we too live with our two teens. As the eldest son - the onus fell on me to take care of her. I have tried to convince her to sell all assets and move to either UK, Spain, Aust. or The US,where my brother and sister reside respectively. She, is adamant about living in India.She is very sentimental about the house as my Dad built it with a lot of grit and hurdles. Things at that time the financial situation was at its lowest ebb.Things got better as we grew up.The problem is my wife and I are not comfortable living in India. I am proud of India& being an Indian but having lived so many years abroad my thinking has changed and hard as I try I cant seem to adjust with the red tape, corruption here& am sorry to say we cant even speak our langauge Hindi. I cant leave my mother alone and return to Europe? I have a fantastic job with one of the most reputed Companies in the world and can posted to Spain. Any suggestions?

2007-01-03 05:37:25 · 4 answers · asked by livingonthinice 3 in Family

2007-01-03 05:36:51 · 17 answers · asked by Finally together 1 in Singles & Dating

Does this make me non attractive to women, or am I still viable as a possible mate for someone?

2007-01-03 05:36:49 · 14 answers · asked by Steve 1 in Singles & Dating

The most recent situation just happened about 2 mins ago. I work with my bf--and we are supposed to be totally honest with each other (aren't all bf's?) about work, and personal. If we don't want to answer anything, we don't lie, we just say I can't talk about it. Well, I've been left alone here in the office to take care of some work, and quite unexpectedly a letter popped up---totally opposite of something important that this friend had told me. The kicker is---it was written 3 years ago. SO--do I say something now that I saw this, didn't mean to, but am bothered that I was lied to back then? Or just let it go? In the past this happened--my mother had asked me to help her clean out her computer--and when I did---found several saved im conversations between her and my DH about me, both against me. DH and I were having some marriage problems at the time. I let it go then and never mentioned that I had seen it. Do I just let this go too?

2007-01-03 05:36:34 · 4 answers · asked by donnabellekc 5 in Friends

My boyfriend is addicted to meth and we have been tring to help him and last night he went to get eggs and never came home.Hes been claen for 3 month as far as I know. and after the last time I told him i couldnt keep being hert. I dont have alot of money and my family leves in another state. any help or seg.please.

2007-01-03 05:35:53 · 12 answers · asked by tina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 05:35:27 · 16 answers · asked by KC 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 and he is 18. We're 2 years a a couple months apart. He is amazing and more mature than most older men I've dated and he treats me well as a friend. I want more and so does he. Does age difference matter at this age?

2007-01-03 05:35:15 · 27 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 05:34:41 · 4 answers · asked by HockeyChumps R 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong for me to be 3 years older than my boyfriend? You see I don't know what to do, b/c he's dad doesn't like me b/c of me being 3 years older than my boyfriend. What should I do? His dad scares me b/c of him not approving of me. Should I break up with him b/c of his dad not approving of me?I'm afraid to call b/c of his dad, and he doesn't have a cell. Also, his dad only allows him 15 minutes on the phone if I do decide to call him, which isn't very often. What should I do? Please Help!! I really love him, and we been going out for 3 years. But his dad wants him to go out with 2 of my other friends, one who is 11 months younger than me, and the other one who is 2 years younger then him. You see his dad only likes him going out with 2 years younger or 2 years older. Please Help!! I don't know what to do!!

2007-01-03 05:33:39 · 8 answers · asked by Twinkie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 05:33:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think my wife is a Cavewoman.

I have been married to the same woman for ten years. Until this day she still don’t know how to use a computer, program a cell phone, and get from one place to another without getting lost. Just yesterday she asked me what a MP3 player was. Last year she and her sister were talking about SUV’s. After she got off the phone she told me that she wanted an SUV. I asked her what kind? She said,” There’s more that one kind”? Some people may think this is funny but it’s very frustrating. It’s almost like living with someone that can’t read.

2007-01-03 05:33:19 · 12 answers · asked by millie mill 1 in Marriage & Divorce

with u....

2007-01-03 05:33:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Was told by a counselor one time that I had built walls around myself after so many years of heartache...family, marriage...and that should let a few cracks begin to let the good come in....easier said than done. How is it done?

2007-01-03 05:33:03 · 3 answers · asked by Gypsygrl 5 in Family

i want to know how does a girl feel when she finds out shes preganant and her boy friend leaves her i mean what makes her
refuse abortion sometimes

2007-01-03 05:32:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 26 years old and my fiancee is 27. i'm due to get married in 3 1/2 weeks to him. i had been having womans problem and found out today i won't be able to have children. he loves children, i know he wants them. i have never loved someone so much in my whole life and i know he feels the same way. do you think he'd leave me if i told him. i know this is terrible of me but i was thinking of not telling him. what do i do. he is the only person i could ever be with and we've both kept ourselves until ur wedding night....i'm so confused, i just don't know what to do....

2007-01-03 05:28:57 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce