ok, this is gonna sound a bit rediculous, but i'm am terrified when she's around him! i'm so afraid that she's gonna do something to make him want her. she's not really attractive and she's got issues, but i'm still afraid. do you have any advice to make me less concerned?? or anything else?
2007-01-03 05:41:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like he has this thing about biting that he likes, so when she's around him she'll bite him and then just say she was just playing. he doesn't react when she does it, but i know she's doing it for a reason.
2007-01-03 05:48:34 · update #1
yeah, i'm gonna knock her out next time. i shouldn't even have let her do it the first time. i got pissed and he knows i was.
2007-01-03 06:17:29 · update #2
I DONT THINK THERE IS ANYWAY AROUND INSECURITIES WHEN IT COMES TO EX GF (IN MY CASE ITS AN X-WIFE) ALL YOU CAN DO IS TRUST HIM, AND HOPEFULLY HE CARES ABOUT YOU AS MUCH AS HE SAYS ~JUST LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU HAVE THESE FEARS AND TELL HIM THAT YOU NEED TO BE COMFORTED IN EVERYWAY POSSIBLE WHEN IT COMES TO HER. IF HE REALLY CARES ABOUT YOU HE WILL AVOID HER AT ALL COSTS.
2007-01-03 05:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by JENN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can control is yourself so you have to trust. In the meantime make sure you are keeping up with yourself and internalizing that you are the most important thing in your life not the person you are dating. Another suggestion would be to keep loving yourself and making sure that you have healthy self-worth so that you can handle whatever may happen in the future! Peace and Light, Nick
P.S. it sounds like you have nothing to be worried about!
2007-01-03 13:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by renew69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let fate takes its course. You have to trust him that he wont respond to her actions. If you cant trust him, he will figure that out quickly and may leave you. Act like the adult and dont show the ex that it bothers you. She is probably trying to get you jealous. Dont let it work. Your boyfriend will like you much more knowing you trust and care about him.
2007-01-03 13:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by hank 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is a reason why he is not with her. why is she hanging out around him anyway? do you go to school together? don't be insecure. that could be bad. guys sense that kinda thing. just stay confident about your relationship with your man. what does she have that you don't? if he leaves you to get back with her..then he is not the guy for you.
2007-01-03 13:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by Bad Mood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he want her back...they broke up for a reason..he doesnt want her...i wouldnt trust her...but dont worry he's with you now....calm down, everyone is afraid of there partners exs...its human nature
2007-01-03 13:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by ladywetherell23 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry no girl would bite my man, exspecially infront of me with out being knocked out!!
2007-01-03 14:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by collegechick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel and then let it go.
2007-01-03 13:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by Southern_Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoever's got the bigger t!ts has his full attention
2007-01-03 13:44:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
what do you think she's gonna do to him?
2007-01-03 13:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
beat her before she neats you!!!
2007-01-03 13:48:42 · answer #10 · answered by heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋