The most recent situation just happened about 2 mins ago. I work with my bf--and we are supposed to be totally honest with each other (aren't all bf's?) about work, and personal. If we don't want to answer anything, we don't lie, we just say I can't talk about it. Well, I've been left alone here in the office to take care of some work, and quite unexpectedly a letter popped up---totally opposite of something important that this friend had told me. The kicker is---it was written 3 years ago. SO--do I say something now that I saw this, didn't mean to, but am bothered that I was lied to back then? Or just let it go? In the past this happened--my mother had asked me to help her clean out her computer--and when I did---found several saved im conversations between her and my DH about me, both against me. DH and I were having some marriage problems at the time. I let it go then and never mentioned that I had seen it. Do I just let this go too?
2007-01-03 05:36:34 · 4 answers · asked by donnabellekc 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry, Im not up on all the internet code....BFF then....Not a boyfriend. DH is Husband
2007-01-03 05:46:42 · update #1
If i were in your situation, i would ask just for curiosity...because it happened 3 yrs ago...theres NOTHING i can do about it..but curiosity doesnt hurt right?? and i wouldnt hold any grudges against him ;)
2007-01-03 06:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by jinjer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You asked for that to happen. She did not want to tell you about it, then she won't. Maybe she just needed to get it off her chest so she wrote it down. Feelings are feelings and you can't blame her for having them. Maybe she sees the honesty as too much. Sometimes we need little white lies in our lives. Everyone has to vent somehow. Let it go. If it was written 3 ys ago then by now it is history. And best friend is bff; bf is boyfriend. What is DH?
2007-01-03 13:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by juliet03angel281 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool BUT extremely freaking WEIRD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-03 13:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go.
2007-01-03 13:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋