Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

should i become a bit more of an *** because being nice and caring just dosent get me anywhere... what do most girls prefer... i just feel used.

2007-01-03 06:13:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 06:13:25 · 3 answers · asked by pinkbooger 1 in Weddings

Honestly describing what he/she is. Both positive and negative
Saying sorry when he/she has hurt a friend/lover.
Expressing his/her love for the partner.
Trying to know whats wrong with u when u r upset.
Making the atmosphere softer with humor.
Making sure that u are not bored.
Loves the world....can even hug a tree.
Is ambitious, practical and enthusiastic.

2007-01-03 06:13:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

These past months ive been very lonely. For some reason most of my so called friends have stopped talking to me and even my family seems distant. I have no clue why its happening I did nothing from the different....And im not in any realtionship but i want to be..I see lots of happy couples dating and I think about how much I want that. Ive tried dating guys that the few friends I have left try to hook me up with but it ends up being a total disaster. I dont think im that bad looking and Im a fun person so why cant I find that guy thats worth sharing a realtionship with? And why is my family and friends so distant?

2007-01-03 06:12:59 · 9 answers · asked by A. 2 in Singles & Dating

As an introvert, sometimes I feel at a disadvantage.

2007-01-03 06:12:56 · 5 answers · asked by Subconsciousless 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 06:12:53 · 16 answers · asked by talisha b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

HELP- Im a man seeking a hot teller

2007-01-03 06:12:35 · 4 answers · asked by be real 1 in Singles & Dating

Inquiring Minds Wanna Know.

2007-01-03 06:12:30 · 1 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok to start I feel im just a good person at reading people, I can see right through most people by what they say, how they say it, and yeah..... but for a while now ive suspected my mom of cheating on my dad with her boss at her workplace. she recieves money in visa cards, like 250 cards for xmas. I know thats not reason enough but like i said I can read through people, the things she says, acts, get dressed, and I just make it seem like im a stupid 19 year old who doesnt know anything.

But she is smart enough to keep it out of the house, like an at work only thing. I think it might because she doesnt get play at home, I duno. Parents have been married for 20 yrs, im 19, and I dont have a car for many reasons.... besides that I just need advice on how to either approach her, or figure it out. Because I know theres a 99% chance she will lie no matter what to me, and I could obviously tell if she will lie, but that wont do good. Shell probably storm to my dad and turn it on me. Help!!

2007-01-03 06:12:30 · 5 answers · asked by heatstream44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend was set to be married to her boyfriend of three years in April. But, the Friday before New Year's, the guy broke it off wanting to end it permanently on the grounds that she is too immature for such a commitment and, him being in the Air Force, didn't want to worry all the time about her and their future kids. Unfortunately, my friend was under the impression that there was still hope (trying to change for him). On New Year's Eve, my boyfriend and I had a get-together at our apartment for all of our friends. The exes decided they would still be coming. Even though the guy showed up with a date (who I and my boyfriend think he cheated on my friend with before the break up), trying to show my friend this was it for them, she still thinks there's a chance. He's cheated on her in the past and I've never told her because everyone else who has tried has failed because she refuses to believe it. After my hints, she still believes they will be getting back together soon. Help!!!

2007-01-03 06:12:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend said his cat has been spraying his wifes undergarments and clotheing. There cat has never done this before. Is there a possible way she could be seeing another man?

2007-01-03 06:11:54 · 7 answers · asked by penny m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend keeps lying where he is. its the second time he has lied to me how can i trust him. we have been together for 2 and a half years and been living together for a year. i love him but what can i do. we are also engaged.

2007-01-03 06:11:18 · 5 answers · asked by Helen E 1 in Singles & Dating

trying to do things rite this time - most of the guys i asked said to hold out as long as you can, the guy will respect you more - we are divorced in our 40's & it seems rite - we've been dating 1 month now.

2007-01-03 06:11:04 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hint: clean, good chats...none of that "i-wanna-be-nasty-so-i-can-look-cool" nonsense

2007-01-03 06:10:33 · 7 answers · asked by dabugster20 2 in Friends

I dont know if this guy in work likes me or just likes me as a work colleague. Ive known him for 18 months when were alone which isnt very often we get on quite well we get the giggles. We talk about our views,thoughts,interests,family stuff and we seem to have a lot in common. We are both shy and when theres a few people in the room we find it hard to talk. I get a awkward vibe off him like he isnt comfortable. I did think he liked me but then these two new girls started and he seems to be more interested in them and when we went on a works do he and the rest of the guys of the office were more interested in talking to the one gal and i just felt we were avoiding one another. The things he was doing i just assumed he liked me but now im not so sure but dont know if ive got guts to ask. How can i tell the difference. I was told to make more convo with him to make him more comfortable but i feel why should i make all the moves yet these gals hog his attention

2007-01-03 06:10:24 · 6 answers · asked by ludvigjs 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 06:10:01 · 2 answers · asked by Kdawg 1 in Weddings

When me and my bf kiss I don't know where to put my hands. I usually put them on his hips. What should I do?

2007-01-03 06:09:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 06:09:35 · 18 answers · asked by talisha b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a unmarried young guy and I had a dream of migrating to America in the future. I'm also strongly believes a parent serves as an important role model for their children. But I was shocked to see from the news that the ratio of married couples is lower compared unmarried couples. I just cannot imagine that if I really migrate to America, my children will only get contact with the people who are mostly divorced and this might serves as a negative impact on my children. Every parent sure will always hopes that their children's marriage is successful but when I saw the news I had started to think twice. I have nothing to go against those people who divorce due to spousal cheating or abuse but I find the famous reason is due to irreconcilable differences or no fault divorce is just a bunch of craps! I heard from some sources claim that feminism is indirectly contributed it, is it true?I just want some feedbacks or opinion regarding this issue. thanks

2007-01-03 06:09:07 · 16 answers · asked by tommyboy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And I love her personality as well as physical appearance. She is the one I plan to marry next year. The problem is: Two days ago, I gave her oral sex for the first time. I found out her thing is smelly. How can I help her improve that condition. Ladies, Is there any kind of perfume and gel or liquid help improve my girlfriend's unpleasant odor. I love my girl friend and I want to buy that for her. (Note: My girlfriend is twenty-three yrs old. I am her first boyfriend and I don't expect her to be 100% perfect. But I just want to help her improve herself and help me to give her a better oral sex when I can stand the smell. Also, My girl friend is kindof shy, so I don't want to tell her about it without buying the stuff for her first). Note 2: She is a clean girl, every where in her body smells good except that part. So please don't tell me to tell her "take a bath". Also, please don't tell me to find a better girl because I truely love her.

2007-01-03 06:09:04 · 12 answers · asked by funguy 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is turning 19 on the 21 and i have no idea on wat to give him, he is just so special, he likes to skate he is kinda skater i guess and he has his own style so can someone help me wat should i get him or give him???URGENT

2007-01-03 06:08:30 · 10 answers · asked by Jussiie Fresita 2 in Singles & Dating

okay heres the deal, my boyfriend out of the blue said that he did some stuff with another girl, i found out who the girl was and apparently he gave her his class ring, we've been goin out 7 months and i really like him because i once made a mistake so he gave me a second chance but when i said i was gonna give him one he said he didn't deserve it, i've been crying all day and he's been followin me around like usual at school, i'm so confused!! he didn't even sign the note with "love" like he usually does. HELP!! tell me what this means and if anyone has anything that would cheer me up that would be greatly appreciated

2007-01-03 06:07:45 · 14 answers · asked by ♥PopLock&DropIt♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

Inquiring minds wanna' know.

2007-01-03 06:07:35 · 31 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and he only lasts about 2-3 minutes in bed. I thought he'd last longer after time but he hasnt. I don't know what to do bc I am losing interest in sex since I dont get anything out of it. We dont have foreplay bc I think its pointless, especially if he's the only one getting pleasure. I really need suggestions because it is ruining our relationship. I've talked about it with him and expressed that I am not happy with our sex routine. I'm sure he feels bad but he only says "sorry, I can't do anything about it". PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

2007-01-03 06:07:16 · 31 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Singles & Dating

Knowing what you know about your husband NOW, would you still have married him?

I recently heard a survey being done with a few questions and this was one that really stuck out in my mind.

2007-01-03 06:06:14 · 24 answers · asked by Earthy Angel 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Let’s hear it. This sounds like fun.

I call mine “Baby”.

2007-01-03 06:05:44 · 20 answers · asked by Belize69 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is this possible or shall the father/son go in their own life?

2007-01-03 06:05:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why do you stay with your wife if you are not happy in your marriage?

2007-01-03 06:05:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 06:05:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay well my friend is having a fashion/spa bday partyand i need to get her something...have any ideas but i dont want to spend more than 20$$$$...

2007-01-03 06:04:52 · 3 answers · asked by RockerChick 2 in Friends