Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

I was hanging out with my guy friend a few days ago and all of a sudden he started confusing me. He started kissing me on the forehead.. and in his car he took my hand and told me how cute.. but thats it. Is he trying to say he likes me without saying it... or is he just messing with my mind.

2007-01-03 06:32:54 · 8 answers · asked by Miss Shorty 2 in Singles & Dating

I resently noticed that I sleep on the left side of the bed and my boyfriend sleeps on the right. I have also noticed that every couple I know is the sameway. Is that just the way we are or is there a reason for it??

2007-01-03 06:32:00 · 51 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend Shelley is in her 50's, and her son Mark is 30, he split from his wife of 5 years a year ago. They had a son, who is now 18 months. Marks wife for some reason is not allowing contact with the son. Mark gave up trying for access 6 months ago and just puts up with two 2 hour visits a month. Marks wife is now dating Shelleys next door neighbour for 3 months. This is torture for Shelley as the wife has visited the neighbour almost daily with her grandson, and she not been allowed to see him. The wife is being so awkward. Aparently grandparents have no rights?? As a friend what can I do to help her?? I would love to hurl abuse!! But my friend isn't like that and it would obviously get us nowhere. Shelley and the wife use to get on so well. This is so hard for her. Any advice???

2007-01-03 06:31:56 · 8 answers · asked by Liz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

No details just give me your best advice.

2007-01-03 06:31:50 · 20 answers · asked by Dawn S 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 06:31:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband left me 8 months ago. He was involved with another woman. He lives down the street. He has to go out of town for work for three days and wants me to keep the kids. Ok. I hate him. The angel in me is saying they are my kids, keep them. The demon part is saying that he should have thought of these inconveniences before he left. He has set up a whole household for himself, completely furnished threee bedroom house with duplicates of everything for the kids so there is clearly no hope of reconciliation here. I hear that he and the woman split up three weeks ago. I know, that shouldn't matter. But I don't want to be a doormat for him and the mother of the kids when it is convenient for him.

2007-01-03 06:31:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we just broke up - on and off for 6 years.
I love him and this burning pain and sick feeling wont go away.
I cant eat and im smoking a lot.

2007-01-03 06:31:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

your live in boyfriend for 5 yrs is going on vacation to his country for 2 weeks. he has a wife there and 4 kids. how would u feel,i know he tells me that he loves me, but does he really. i mean i know he will tap his wifes ***. do u think if i cheat i would be wrong.

2007-01-03 06:31:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A certain friend of my fiance and I is almost 30, living with their parents, and comes over way too much. My fiance and I have a life - hobbys - jobs - going to school and such, however, this friend calls everyday just wanting to hang out - stays for hours on end. We've tried to not answer the phone, tell them that we are busy, tired, spending time alone, but they don't get the clue. Its not that we don't enjoy their company, its just that they over stay their welcome and we don't have the heart to tell them that they are getting to be too much. My fiance and I have had numerous arguements because he thinks I'm being too harsh - however, he gets annoyed as well from this person. This person calls every single day to hang out. How on earth can I stop this without hurting their feelings? Our friend has a job, but is just unhappy and has thought of suicide in the past - I think my fiance feels impelled to spend time with them, but it is in a very small way, hurting our relationship. HELP!

2007-01-03 06:30:39 · 6 answers · asked by Marilyn Monroe 1 in Friends

i am but 2-days my last day tho i dont wanna go back to school so r u>? or ona work vacation?

2007-01-03 06:30:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"i do" my 26 year old brother who act's like he's 11

2007-01-03 06:29:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This boy has been a family friend since ive been like 8 years old and ive liked him since i was like 10. I'm 14 now and hes 16 and he's liked me four 2 years and about 3 months ago his sister married my cousin and they have a baby girl now is it ok if i still like him?!?!

2007-01-03 06:29:28 · 11 answers · asked by Amanda W 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 06:29:16 · 6 answers · asked by nena 1 in Singles & Dating

I think she is pretty,outgoing, and funny. But I know that Jenny likes me, but because Jenny is often quiet, so I choose to hang out with Yen. After hang out with Yen, I find out that I don't like her personality that much because I think she is pretentious and manipulative. So I stop hanging out with her. I start to notice Jenny without letting her knows. I have never asked Jenny out alone, but we often hang out in a group with other coworkers, and I think I like Jenny personality and her look is okay. She's a straighforward person but she is really warmhearted. Now I want to date Jenny, what should I do, what should I say to her? (Note: I'm twenty seven now, so please don't tell me that's I am immuture. Plus, I did not have sex with Yen, so please don't tell me that I'm a jerk). I only need advice to date the right girl for the long term. And if thing works out, I will marry Jenny.

2007-01-03 06:28:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Before I begin, a little info about me
I am 19 years old and am only 5'4". Despite my short stature, I do keep in great shape (I was a distance runner in High School, now I am a regular weightlifter). I am strong (can bench 245, I weigh 145), and am for the most part confident about my appearance.
So why the unfair stigmatism toward short men when it comes to dating? Despite the fact I am in great shape, I often get the "you can't protect me" line. Tall girls all the time complain how we short men don't approach you, but when we do you burn us down and make us feel like the worst person in the world for approaching you! And what is with this whole trend of shorter women only liking extremely tall men? I was taller than a 5'2" girl I asked, but she said her minimum requirement was 5'9"!
What is with the unfair judgments in height? What can I do about it?
Women complain all the time about how we men are shallow, but damn do they judge hard on something we can't change!

2007-01-03 06:28:48 · 7 answers · asked by MidnightSlayer28 2 in Singles & Dating

I am asking my married sister-in-law to be in our wedding. It sounds odd, but is she a bridesmaid or bridesmatron? What title do I list her in the program?

2007-01-03 06:28:37 · 15 answers · asked by NoTurningBackNow 5 in Weddings

If your roommate has been unsuccessful@ getting any sex at all for the past 3 months
But you bring your girlfriend over to spend the night(in your room,of course),& she makes those noises at night (that your roommate can hear)
do u think he'll get mad?

2007-01-03 06:28:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...he only works 12 hour shifts 6 days a week and then comes home, cooks my dinner and does the house work. He goes on like he's downtrodden and always complaining he's tired. Every day I go out with my mates and when I come back he's left he washing for me to do! What a cheek! On his day off this weekend I'm going to take the sky card out. I'm also going to take the fuse out of the heating so he'll have to do the housework to keep warm. I'm sick of his lazy ways and he doesn't give me enough money for clothes shopping. What do you think I should do to make him do more around the house?

2007-01-03 06:27:57 · 31 answers · asked by Jo_Diva 4 in Singles & Dating

or to make it sound right, because it dosnt

2007-01-03 06:27:51 · 7 answers · asked by Sage 1 in Singles & Dating

I stated my state!!!! DUDE.............I'm sooorrrrrrrryyyyyyyeeeeee! Still available for some talk! Still new to my state!!! Still need to meet PEOPLE!!!! Can you help?

2007-01-03 06:27:43 · 6 answers · asked by Myndlynd T 2 in Singles & Dating

I need ideas on what to bring to class. My family is a close family but sometimes we dont see much of each other because we are all super busy. Any ideas??

2007-01-03 06:27:24 · 5 answers · asked by Sarah B 1 in Friends

We are having a beach wedding to save $. However, we have a large family over 150 people. Since it is a sunset wedding, do we have to have a typical reception with dinner? Any suggestions on how to have it very casual, informal and INEXPENSIVE?

2007-01-03 06:27:04 · 9 answers · asked by triathlon1979 2 in Weddings

2007-01-03 06:26:55 · 14 answers · asked by sunshine & summertime 3 in Singles & Dating

Here's my theory....Waaaay too man men stay in marriages that they are unhappy in. I think they do it because they don't want to lose whatever material things they deem to be important. As a result, men tend to carry on extramarital affairs, which is much more painful to a woman than losing anything material. If these guys have a prenuptual signed, aren't they more likely to end the marriage when it's time and not feel the need to protect their assest, thus hurting and scarring women in a sometimes irreversible way....I'd give up any financial rights, I'd leave with nothing, if my only other option was to stay and be cheated on...Wouldn't you women agree?

2007-01-03 06:26:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 06:26:26 · 9 answers · asked by hot_cowgirl_1986 1 in Singles & Dating

and i always say no cos i never know if i want to go out with them. its happened so many times and i dont know what im afraid of. most of them are gr8 guys and then i hate myself for stringing them along. does this ever happen to anyone?

2007-01-03 06:25:45 · 21 answers · asked by just a girl 3 in Singles & Dating

Don't get me wrong I love my brother in law. He is the little brother I always wanted. Ever since my husband and I got married and moved into our place he has visited at least 5 days a week. I just need some alone time with my husband. How do I tell my brother in law (nicely) to give us some time to settle down. He doesn't seem to take hints and my husband thinks it is funny. Help he takes showers, watches tv, and downloads porn....He is such a brat.

2007-01-03 06:25:23 · 9 answers · asked by redheaded GINGER 1 in Family

Ok so my husband and i have been together for almost 4 years married almost 3 and we have a 2 year old. Well in the past 1 1/2 years we've been split up and back together 4 times, NOT GOOD ON THE KIDDO. Ok so this last time we split up was cuz this girl that he knew prior to us getting back together, i just met her, and her and my husband tell my friend that she's pregnant with his kid. Well so i get over it (kinda) and get back together with him, i thought we were doin sooooooooo good this time!!!!! Till the afternoon on new years eve and i find a text message on his phone that he tried (cuz he cant send or recieve) to send to this same girl and it said"hey you wanna F*^k?" I asked him about it and he denied the whole thing, even the fact that he knew the number and said his "friend" did it that he was hanging out with. Well his "friend" as his own cell phone.... what would you think and do???

2007-01-03 06:25:14 · 16 answers · asked by **** 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am widowed, having lost my wife in 2003 after 6 beautiful years of marriage. I am also a single father of two young girls.

Am I carrying too much emotional baggage for your tastes?

2007-01-03 06:25:12 · 4 answers · asked by Jack C 5 in Singles & Dating

Did you find it exciting

2007-01-03 06:24:47 · 13 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce