Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

I dont think it is.Do you ? Why or why not?

2007-01-03 06:21:19 · 17 answers · asked by Jessie006 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel like we have to do sexy stuff, like Bj,handjobs,finger etc
alot of the time i get a bit scared to be honest and sometimes i just dont want to, espcally handjobs and blow jobs etc, what makes things better for you in your relationship doing things like that? what gets you more in the mood and dont get bored over doing handjobs etc
we are not having sex at the moment, i am just coming over illness so i cant go on the pill for a while


And no i am not being selfish, i will do things for him even if i dont want to. and i know he might look somwhere else for stuff if i dont give him stuff.

Please help xx

2007-01-03 06:20:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I haven't been laid in over a year and for the majority of that time it hasn't really bothered me, I have had offers but no one has been of interest to me, whilst some of my friends have one night stands every other week and don't seem to fussy who they take home with them.

2007-01-03 06:20:14 · 44 answers · asked by Buffy 4 in Singles & Dating

I know that the best man pays for his own but im not sure who pays or the ushers

2007-01-03 06:20:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I was in a library just sitting there reading and these two girls came by. I looked up and caught their gaze, but I thought nothing and went back to my reading. Anyway, after five more minutes they sat down on the other side of the study booth where I was sitting and started talking about a book report. They were talking rather loudly, and I was thinking about moving. I reached down to get in my bag for a pen, and I happened to glance under and see the almost nude butt of one of the girls. She had her pants down and her whole backside showing save for a thong covering a little. I got back up quickly and decided to move. While I was packing up, the girl looked over the top of the booth, and I met her eyes. I was somewhat embarrassed, and it probably showed. I only glanced for a second. She put her head back down, and I got up a minute later and moved on. I have never had that happen in college before. Do you think she meant to do that?

2007-01-03 06:19:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cant always tell who is from the same place as i am by their faces
and if im attracted to them, its not so much until i find out where they're from..
but when i find out they're from where i'm from then i really like them right away

why is that ?

2007-01-03 06:18:41 · 10 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

I feel very insecure and inadequate at moment in my working environment as we have had two new gals started. They are both petite wear tight clothes so every time they bend over their g string is flashing, theyre quite loud and all the guys seem to fancy them. It even got to the stage i dont want ot go on work dos as all the attention is always on them and the guys who i normally get on with tend to pay all the attention to them even though i get on with them as well. It makes me feel like a spare part and it doesnt help that im shy

2007-01-03 06:18:16 · 15 answers · asked by ludvigjs 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 30, divorced, no kids, good looking, and wondering if I am still a possibility for a woman to consider.

2007-01-03 06:17:45 · 29 answers · asked by Steve 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend who dated sum1 for 6 months,they met online he was very convincing and always called her up and constantly said he loved and talked about the future.my friend found out he lied to her about everything..behind her back he was with his fiance and planin his own weddin, but to her sayin he luvs her wants to marry her.he said he had subdural hematoma,his fiances sis got raped, talked abt a sister constantly in actual fact the siter wasnt his but his fiances cousin, he said his own cousin went down for joyriding and he genuinly cried when he sayin these tragic stories.truth is they wont true.i wud like to knw if his got some kind of mental attention seeking illness or did he lie to end his r.ship with my friend but was too gutless to tell the truth?he married his fiance last month, do you actually think he loves his wife?

2007-01-03 06:17:36 · 10 answers · asked by ruz b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

her and her husband still live under the same roof until the house sells.it is disastourous.she says that she doesnt like it there so she is out at all hours of the night.the problem is,she has kids who need her .she has since this ordeal stopped caring about family,I think its because they see what shes doing as wrong.as her mother,its breaking my heart.Im at the point where I am contemplating therapy just so I can learn to deal with her behavior or atleast understand it.I dont want our relationship to end in the toliet nor do I want to see her kids hurt.everyhting she is doing is out of character for her.everytime i talk to her about her going out or about the kids needing her,she blocks me out and says that they are fine.i need help to understand

2007-01-03 06:17:35 · 2 answers · asked by dlbonhomme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just put up a blog on myspace. Basically saying I don't want a relationship and what not.

But anyways, now I got asked out by someone and I really want to say yes. Yet i might look like a hypocrite. Yet lol, this girl and I have known eachother for a while so I guess it's a pleasent suprise that came up.

I thought of waiting for a while. But I really get this feeling like if I do I won't get this opportunity again. Plus she's always been my friend and she is even my #1 person on myspace...whatever credit that amounts to lol

So...

Jump on the Opportunity or Let it walk away

2007-01-03 06:17:21 · 8 answers · asked by Kurt 3 in Singles & Dating

Tell me what you think of his marriage proposal........?
I am very confused. On Christmas morning my boyfriend of 4 years asked me to marry him. At the time he seemed very sincere. He did not have a ring because he said he wanted me to go with him and pick it out myself. The problem is that since then the subject seems like it is being avoided. Why would he ask me to marry him and now not even want to talk about it?? Am I over reacting or did he just ask me to marry him because he thought that is what I wanted???
Honestly - I am not in a big hurry to get married. I did say yes. And I do want to marry him. We have been together a long time. We live together and have kids together. And I know that I want my future to be with him. But I am not in a hurry. Part of me wants the security of being married - but we are both divorced and I think we still carrry alot of "baggage" from our first marriages - and I feel like we have alot to still work through before saying "I do."
I am just having trouble understanding him....any ideas??

2007-01-03 06:17:14 · 4 answers · asked by hunnyimissu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 06:16:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My BFF is getting grounded for stupid things that she does. One time in school she seen money on the ground in an envelope with a name on it, she opened it and went and bought all kinds of suckers wit it. Another time she went on myspace and made an acount and said she was going to meet this guy when she turned 16 and he is in his 30 or 40 (she is 13 years old). If her parents knew they would ground her forever, I go on her yahoo acount and delete e-mails from myspace and send them someting bak saying "STOP SENDING ME E-MAILS FROM MYSPACE! GO TO HELL!" I barely get to hang out wit her anymore! I need advice to help her! PLEASE!

2007-01-03 06:16:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is it a pearl bracelet from a midget?

2007-01-03 06:16:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in May. I'm curious, has anyone registered? What stores are you registering at? I'm not sure where to register so I need some ideas. Were not going to do the honeymoon registery as we pretty much have that paid for already.

2007-01-03 06:16:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-03 06:15:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A man who is honest, down to earth, down on his luck, on hourly wage, nice, who knows how to treat chick. He can only bring home meat and potato.
OR
A man lazy but not down on luck. Who sits on *** and play video game all day. Who want chicks only for a lay. Who is not down to earth but cocky. Who indeed is rich. In other words, man like me.

2007-01-03 06:15:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it possible to tell if a couple in relationship are having regular intercourse, by noticing their behaviour!!

2007-01-03 06:14:30 · 24 answers · asked by metallixan 2 in Singles & Dating

(okay i'll use fake names for now 'cos i don't want to say their real ones!)
The more I hang out with my friends the more paranoid I get. It's not that I think everyone is talking about me..but I feel as if I'm boring and some don't really like me. I have a group of friends, and they all prefer to talk to each other rather than me. Only 3 of them are really close to me, but one of them is very unreliable towards me.

Sharon sometimes gives me the impression she isn't interested in me. The other day she asked if me and Rose wanted to go to her house, but she rang and cancelled it because Rose couldn't make it because she was grounded. I suggested we just meet up anyway, and she seemed so unkeen if it was just me and her, and she rang me back later and said the day has moved to Friday. And I know for a fact if I couldn't make it to her house one day and Rose was still going, she wouldn't cancel the day.

I know it sounds stupid but it hurts. My friends mean so much to me.plzhelp

2007-01-03 06:14:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Close friends for 7 years, this couple has been dating off and on for the last 5. During this time he has always promoted her enjoyment of other women by participating but with minimal interaction. He met the other 2 women at a time when the couple were not dating and had previously engaged in sexual activity with them on two separate occasions. This actually puts a twist in the scenario even without the monthly visitor.

2007-01-03 06:14:01 · 8 answers · asked by hypothetical 1 in Singles & Dating

I still cannot fathom the fact that me and my boyfriend just broke up. It's been over three weeks now. I don't wish to let him go. I really don't wish him to leave me. I am a sad person. We hung out a couple of times during this three weeks. And I feel totally comfortable. He'd already expressed that we will be great friends. But it really hurts, because of the lost love. Does anybody understand. Each time i try to get back on my feet, i fall again when the memories flood back to me.Everywhere i go, theres like emotional landmines, and i have to be careful where i thread. I've got blown up a couple of times now. Im just tired. Tired of this. He wants me to move on. He's taught me alot of things, shown me alot of stuff, told me alot of crasy theories. Every time we hang out, i will somehow breakdown in the end. And he will say all sorts of things to ask me to move on. And at the point of time, i feel strong and powerful, but when i get home alone again, i just feel deflated. Come back

2007-01-03 06:13:50 · 13 answers · asked by Mimi P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a guy finds a girl who's willing to help him financially and spend time with him, why wouldn't the guy want to hold on to this girl? Why would he hurt her and move on to the next victim? I'm serious: why do men do this?

I see it happening at my work, in the neighborhoods, in church, and on the judge shows: women being used and disgarded. Why? Is this something men feel compelled to do? Is it because guys have no real care for women, or is it because men don't appreciate women who help them? What's the reason, guys?

2007-01-03 06:13:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating