I feel like we have to do sexy stuff, like Bj,handjobs,finger etc
alot of the time i get a bit scared to be honest and sometimes i just dont want to, espcally handjobs and blow jobs etc, what makes things better for you in your relationship doing things like that? what gets you more in the mood and dont get bored over doing handjobs etc
we are not having sex at the moment, i am just coming over illness so i cant go on the pill for a while
And no i am not being selfish, i will do things for him even if i dont want to. and i know he might look somwhere else for stuff if i dont give him stuff.
Please help xx
2007-01-03 06:20:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my relationship I set strict controls on the amount of sex that my bf was permitted. I would make it very clear when I was coming over WHAT was permitted and for HOW long it would go on. If it was not going to happen that evening then he would know that from the minute he walked through the door. It is better, I think, that he knows well in advance that the lock is on. Good luck
2007-01-03 07:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
...your boobels, it feels so good!
Let him do it. It gives him a feeling of power and is good for your skin.
If you are getting over an illness, then mansmilk is one of the most nutritious drinks and it has been clinically proven that the high zinc content helps boost the immune system. Also, the complex mixture of hormones is a natural mood booster. He is obviously a very caring man that he generously knocks some up fresh every time he visits you.
And you don't need to give him "stuff". If he's into drugs, then dump him, no matter how good his mansmilk is.
Seriously, though, if the reason you don't like to go down is he has a smelly willy, then just ask him to wash, or you could suggest you both take a shower together and wash it for him, leading on to a mind-blowing bj in the shower!
You can get flavoured gels that make blowjobs and handjobs more fun and pleasurable for the both of you.
2007-01-03 06:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by feeltherisingbuzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are giving, but are you receiving? Just make sure that before you service him, he has to service you good and proper.
If you cannot be bothered to see to him why not buy a TOY and stick it on him if he is feeling a bit frisky, or better still why don't the two of us invest in a life size doll that you can take out of the cupboard when it is necessary.
It will see to him and you can paint your toenails.
Don't do anything you don't want to, some men are just DOGS on heat.
2007-01-03 07:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
of course you dont have to do sexy stuff... if you dont want to do it then dont!... if he really likes you he wont go anywhere else for "stuff" and if he does then he obviously isnt good enough for you...if he pressures you into anything just back off... but it sounds like this is making you resent the relationship... dont give into him.. stand up for yourself... if its really that bad then i would suggest finding someone else and getting into a hppyer more comfortable relationship... unless all you want is "sexy stuff" in which case stay with him
2007-01-03 06:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by natalia121 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel obliged to do things for him, even when you don't want to, it doesn't sound like a good relationship. What about tenderness and love? It doesn't sound like there is much of that in this relationship.
2007-01-03 06:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's just the age you're at. Eventually, your minds will develop and you will just "talk." I think that happens at, like, 60.
2007-01-04 12:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read bj tips on tthe internet or watch porn anyway learn new tricks then surprise him, maybe him really enjoying it will help you out too!!
2007-01-03 06:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by collegechick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he really likes you he wont go anywhere else for "stuff"... if he does than you shouldn't be with him... he has two hands he should use them... especially if you re just not having sex temporally for a good reason.
2007-01-03 06:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
listen, if its all about that get out now unless you dont want to. if you dont mind it do it. if you are annoyed by it make him do things to you. its that simple have fun! ciao!
2007-01-03 06:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by PrinCipeSSa ItaLiAnA 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he loves u he will wait and he could try playin wiht u a bit whilst u please him it doesnt have to be one way
2007-01-03 06:25:10 · answer #10 · answered by kasxxx32 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋