If a guy finds a girl who's willing to help him financially and spend time with him, why wouldn't the guy want to hold on to this girl? Why would he hurt her and move on to the next victim? I'm serious: why do men do this?
I see it happening at my work, in the neighborhoods, in church, and on the judge shows: women being used and disgarded. Why? Is this something men feel compelled to do? Is it because guys have no real care for women, or is it because men don't appreciate women who help them? What's the reason, guys?
2007-01-03 06:13:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I asked a question along the same lines as yours a few days ago. Why do women date guys who treat them like sh*t and you know what the answer I think is. Women like "bad boys" for whatever reason - excitment, better sex, because a woman thinks she can change him.
And why do men hurt women? Its not because men hate women (some do, they need mental help), its for the simple reason because we can, and you (women) allows us.
But this doesn't mean its right,
2007-01-03 06:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats why I take care of myself and will not date anyone who cant take care of themselves as well. I will only help someone finacially if we have been together for awhile and I can put that kind of trust in them...but of course I had to learn this threw experience.
As for the sex aspect...You should know rather or not you are being used for that, if the only time he wants to spend with you is when you are having sex then somethings wrong. Girls should not give it up so easy (even though we did need to get ours to.)
I have seen many women do the same things to guys! I have a few associates who use guys just for thier money not really sex.
2007-01-03 06:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are far better than men because they don't commit all the crime and do all the evil that so-called "men" do. Or would cowards be a better word for all the bad guys? Sure women commit crimes too but not nearly as often as men. And what on earth ever happened to REAL MEN? The ones who rescue and protect women instead of abusing them like only cowards do?
2016-03-29 06:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Selfishnes, they keep getting what they want form women and so they no they can go to the next and the next and so on. That us why Girls have to make guys respect them.
Girls give in to guys desires too easy nw a days. we need to go back to being hard to get making guys fight for our company and care then they will learn to appreciate.
Now there will still be jerks out there who will never learn but those you wnat to stay away from
2007-01-03 06:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by sl2mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am a gal and I use males they don't use me...When I say I use males is just for the fun thats all no money I have to sy it I don't need it...And when it gets bored I dump it even that male will hate I just don't care and don't matter who that person is I just have and after a time I just sy bye bye...Because it gets bore ofcourse everything have to be safe...So is not just guys gals do it too...
2007-01-03 06:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as there are women who are going to out up with it , there are going to be men who do it.
2007-01-03 06:18:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jonathan I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just went through this with my ex. As long as i was working and letting him use my vehicle he was great,but the minute i started wanting my truck and for him to get a job .Things started hitting the fan and guess what I LEFT HIM>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
2007-01-03 06:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by melissas69er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That works both ways. And those are easier to figure out when you wake up and find out you don't really know that person after all.
2007-01-03 06:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are pigs!!!!!!!! Too many guys have no repect for woman. They weren't raised right. A real man enjoys a real woman, a real guy will do what's necessary to please a real woman! Any guy that does not not honor woman, he's a punk.........
2007-01-03 07:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by DWM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my ex bf used me for sex! so what can i do, except regretting the day i let him!
some are pigs and have no mind that think about who they are hurting! but i love him because he is my first love.
2007-01-03 06:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋