i need some new ideas?

Question

i need some ideas to spice it up in the bedroom we are coming upon 8 yrs and the sex is good, but it's starting to become the same what's yall's ideas on things that are interesting to you?

Answer 1

Depending on who you talk to, or where you look for information on how to spice things up, you will have no dearth of answers. Won't be surprised if you receive a ton of them.

What's most important is recognizing a need for it and be willing to do something about it. That's half the battle usually. You're already a winner in my opinion. Most often it isn't as much about what you do to spice things up. It's more about the attitude and desire to do things differently that perks it up.

Trust me, when you and your husband appreciate the need to "bolster" your sexual intimacy, you'll absolutely be more creative. You'll spend that little extra time and energy to have "creative" foreplays and after-plays. You'll be more willing to please each other and experience intense orgasms in each other's sexual satisfactions.

Every now and then, we all need that little extra reiteration and "kick-in-the-butts" to realize this. Just go back into your bedroom with a great attitude and a desire to the best you can to spice things up. You'll probably come back to write about some really "hot" things you guys did :-) That's how powerful is our sense of imagination and drive.

You now go and give him an orgasm of a lifetime darling !!!!

Answer 2

Toys. Po rno movies. Lubes. Books. Games. We have a set of straps to tie the other to the bed (no pain for us).
Be a sport and try almost ANYTHING twice. The first time you'll probably screw it up so give it a second shot. If it still sucks forget it.

Check out the book "101 Nights of Grrrreat Sex" by Laura Corn. It gives each of you a seduction task for the week with complete instructions. Each of you spends the whole week wondering what neat trick the other is going to play on the other. It is hot.

Answer 3

A few trips to the Hustler Store and you'll be back on track ... they really do have soooo many new things out there it's a lot of fun ... just looking & researching them all ... !

They have toys, porn, dress-up ... and more ... if you've ever had any fantasies or just want to try something new ... do it ... go together and pick out something new to try ... me & my man do it all the time ... it's so much fun ... plus you feel a little naughty looking at all the different things they have to offer.

Try the vibrating c*ck rings - fun fun fun ... do some role playing ... sexy little school girl is ALWAYS fun ... get a vibrator - anal sex starter kits ... whatever looks interesting ... try it ... !

Set " Date " nights ... write little nasty notes to him ... send him flowers ... cook his favorite meal ... go to the spa & get some waxing done - maybe put his initials on it ... lol ... I've done a " B " before for my Bobby ... !

Answer 4

role playing, you could be a schoolgirl s l u t, or a cheerleader, or a goth s l u t. Have you tried different position, send me an email with more info so I can help.

Answer 5

TRY SETTING UP A DATE IN A HOTEL ROOM AND OR MEET AT A BAR OR HAPPY HOUR BEFORE YOU GO HOME YOU CAN SET THE MOOD BEFOR HE GET HOME VISE A VERSE TALKING DIRTY TO EACH OTHER MEASSGES ECT. GOOD LUCK AND HAVE FUN DOING IT .

Answer 6

Pay someone to watch you two have sex...I charge $75 an hour.

Answer 7

Have extramarital affairs!! Takes notes and share the experiences with each other!

Answer 8

roll play

escape convict and the wardens wife is a good start

Answer 9

have one of those fun or slumber parties and buy a few toys that look interesting to you to use together later....watch porn together too that's also fun....

Answer 10

i have some idea's for you but not ones i can tell you here but you can email me at [e-mail]