Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

My 8 year old stepson has a birthday coming up in February and my husband and I want to surprise him with something really cool for his birthday. We only see him every other weekend, so we aren't real sure what he would like. He is hard to plan and buy for. We have 4 other children who want to be in on the surprise as well as the rest of the family. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

2007-01-03 06:43:12 · 6 answers · asked by 5yung1s 1 in Family

Okay so I like this girl and she likes me, we hooked up (kissed, im only 15) on new years. She says she still likes me but she doesnt want to "go out" because she is under stress. She said she doesnt want any titles. She suggested we be friends with benefits (at my age and maturity the furthest we'd go would be head). When i see her in school she is not cold to me but isnt as warm as she is on aol or outside of school. She says she is shy and reserved also. I am just wondering, can someone actually like you and not want to go out but be friends with benefits instead? and is this just leading down a parth where she says in a week, just friends or is this leading to going out.
I should also note:
She is hotter than me
She says she is just under stress, and when we talk on aol she is fairly open and says she likes me

2007-01-03 06:42:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a possibility that he could be deceased

2007-01-03 06:42:27 · 5 answers · asked by Red Devil 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in a relationship now, although I'm not sure whether I am happy or not, I am just kind of neutral. I met someone 6 months ago who I fell for but let go of because of my relationship and children and I didn't want to be irresponsible. But I can't seem to stop thinking about him to this day and I just found out that he really cared about me and still talks about me, he let me go also because he didn't want to be the one to ruin my relationship, he wanted me to make my own choice without his intrusion. We where never physical, just talked alot, and I felt horrible for mentally cheating. I don't know what to do, because now I am wondering if I am wasting my time and my husbands time by staying in this. I just really don't want to ever hurt him, I would be more inclined to try to stick it out and work on it. I just don't know how to stop thinking about this other man.

2007-01-03 06:42:23 · 4 answers · asked by MiZmeL 4 in Marriage & Divorce

The group I grew up with has grown apart. It is time for me to find new grown up friends. How do I do this? Where do I begin?

2007-01-03 06:41:50 · 8 answers · asked by vicks 1 in Friends

Whats the Best Way To Aplogize to Someone?

2007-01-03 06:41:44 · 10 answers · asked by tina.ryan 1 in Friends

i asked a similar question earlier,but everytime i am alone, which i am a lot, or just bored, he comes into my mind. i miss him so much! he broke my heart, and i told him a while back i didnt like him anymore, and im afraid to tell him i do now, but we listen to like the same music, and everytime i hear a song that he likes it makes me sad and really think about him. anyone have any suggestions to get him out of my head, or to fix my problem? i know you might say move on, i've tried, and i have dated other guys but this guy really seemed like the right one for me...

2007-01-03 06:41:19 · 7 answers · asked by Cephalopod Chicka 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy whom i really like and he said he loves me, he also texted me with lots of kisses and he once asked me to marry him, he always goes on my website and says nice comments like how much he misses me, but his friend told me that he is well known for saying this phrase ' i dont believe in love, i am not looking for anything, everybody is my friend, i love this life' does this mean he was just flirting with me and he does this with loadsa girls, am so confused, i dont think he likes me atall now, what do you guys think?

2007-01-03 06:40:59 · 17 answers · asked by Suriyah 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 06:40:22 · 7 answers · asked by cm_crazy13 1 in Singles & Dating

its almost one year and i have no clues about her please advice me iam helpless still in love with the girl who betrayed me what can i do if u have an answer pls mail me on khaleelullashariff@yahoo.com

2007-01-03 06:40:16 · 3 answers · asked by raf's 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 06:40:02 · 10 answers · asked by lzinzoid 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been divorced 2 years, have 3 children, and the only guys that are attracted to me are ones that are already taken. And, one young ****** that doesn't like my children. Mind you, he still wants to date me, just doesn't want me as a whole package. Is there hope for me or am I going to become and old maid?

2007-01-03 06:39:55 · 6 answers · asked by southern belle 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance LOVES when I b.low him (big surprise right?) but he's of the type that it seems impossible to make him c.um by just doing that. I've known some guys who have said "you'll never make me c.um doing it" but I've always proven them wrong, not this time! I simply can't make him, he seems to need to be inside of me (though oddly enough, he can make himself c.um?). I just don't get it and want someone...guys, ladies, whoever, to tell me what you've done when you were faced with this and more importantly, did it work? He's thrilled that I actually want him to c.um in my mouth, because obviously so many women disdain this, but my job is to please him, and if that will please him, then that's what I want to do. Any suggestions (and don't be gross about it please).

2007-01-03 06:39:43 · 11 answers · asked by Brandy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm extremely annoyed at my mom. She knows my brother's soon-to-be-ex is beating on their kid, and she knows the woman is off her rocker and she knows the woman has huge anger management issues... yet.... she is to "scared" to call CPS. She says CPS will put the child in foster care with "strangers". I keep telling her that won't happen if there is a grandmother (her) who has been involved in the kid's life since birth. She lives 10 miles away.
(And my 44 year old brother is a loser- she's "scared" to kick him out of her house because she's "scared" the kid will live in the streets with him. Both parents are ******* and the kid is used to hurt the other person.)
PS I called CPS back in March but nothing came of it.
My question: If there's a grandmother available, would the kid go to strangers/foster parents or her?
(California) Opinions welcome!

2007-01-03 06:39:41 · 8 answers · asked by Sabine É 6 in Family

My children's father has six or more children with five different women. He has cared for none of them and denied all but three of them (my two and his former wife's) but he never goes to see his kids, he does not want photos of them etc... Do these types of men not realize that their children contain part of their soul? As such they deny and hate themselves. How can this happen?Why does this happen?

2007-01-03 06:39:33 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A younger woman or older?

2007-01-03 06:39:18 · 12 answers · asked by Blue Eyed Blonde 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance LOVES when I b.low him (big surprise right?) but he's of the type that it seems impossible to make him c.um by just doing that. I've known some guys who have said "you'll never make me c.um doing it" but I've always proven them wrong, not this time! I simply can't make him, he seems to need to be inside of me (though oddly enough, he can make himself c.um?). I just don't get it and want someone...guys, ladies, whoever, to tell me what you've done when you were faced with this and more importantly, did it work? He's thrilled that I actually want him to c.um in my mouth, because obviously so many women disdain this, but my job is to please him, and if that will please him, then that's what I want to do. Any suggestions (and don't be gross about it please).

2007-01-03 06:39:16 · 18 answers · asked by Brandy 6 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, in your opinion which type of guy would you reccommend for your friend if you were to set her up on a blind date and why would you choose who you did? I need help deciding. Here are the potential candidates:

1) Downhome Country Boy loves to show & raise horses. Knows value of $. Has always had to work for everything himself. Loves to drink whiskey & have small house parties. shaggy brown hair & goatee. Weight~ 200 Height~6'0

2) Uptown Chicago Gangsta~ loves to flaunt money, expensive clothes,& flashy cars. Long black hair,tounge ring, tattoos, & cocky attitude. Also a BIG drinker/smoker. Weighs ~125 and~5'6.

3) Sloppy Hippie Guy w/ never combed long sholder length hair, baggy pants, and always a tye-dye shirt. He weighs about 270 and is about 5'7. Plays guitar, smokes, drinks like a fish. Very Smart, though.

4) Nerdy Chemistry/Video Game Lover~ Very Smart, but never had a girlfriend. Long curly hair, tan, Italian, w/ glasses. ~ 160 & 5'6. Drinks occasionally.

2007-01-03 06:38:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever dated or been married to a guy that you were not attracted to. Did you have a more attractive guy on the side.and did you take things from your unattractive friend for the benefit of your on the side friend. Such as money, or take his car to pick up your side friend etc. Did you do things for your side (more attractive) friend that you did not do for the guy that you were in a relationship with.

2007-01-03 06:37:57 · 14 answers · asked by deeman 1 in Singles & Dating

Is a 40 years or so, who was divorced, his wife left because he is very moody, and has a bad temper, now he doe not have many "real" friends around , so he spends most of the evenings chating with married women older than him, and most of his friends are people he met on the chat. Is he affraid of being left again? Or he is affraid to have a new relation He is a good guy, but he has internal problems , somehow he is aware of this, but he does not get any help. He said he is happy the way he is. but I CAN TELL HE IS NOT.

2007-01-03 06:37:52 · 5 answers · asked by achoooo!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

http://www.youtube.com/rp1000

I think crazy woman!

2007-01-03 06:37:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 06:36:27 · 6 answers · asked by robz 1 in Singles & Dating

My best guy friend and i have been friends since 5th grade. We went out last year in 8th grade but one of my girlfriends told me he wanted to break up with me so i broke up with him first. over the summer i started going out with my boyfriend (of 5 months as of now) and my guy friend got pissed off.We talked about how we broke up last year cause it was bugging me and i found out that he never was going to break up with me.And that he still likes me. And the more i think about it the more i realize that i still have feelings for him.But my boyfriend is amazing and great. but the other day i was supposed to go to a party with my guyfriend and my boyfriend wanted me to come over cause i was sick the day before so i couldnt go over and he made me feel totally guilty so i went ovr to his house instead. my guy friend got pissed off and said that i should break up with him because hes keeping me from my friends.should i go back to my guyfriend or stay with my boyfriend?

2007-01-03 06:36:16 · 8 answers · asked by Kay-Bianca 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy in college.We have been talking online and in person ever since the first week of school.On the first night we ever talked, he asked me out.I turned him down saying that I didn't even know who he was really, which was true.He has since asked me out 2 other times.Both times w/ rejections b/c I was not sure I wanted to be in a relationship.Since then, we have both gotten and broken up w/ other people, but still have been drawn back to each other.It's crazy, but the more I talk to him, the more into him I become.The only thing is, I know my family will never approve.He's got long stringy black hair, tattoos, & a tounge ring.He's from Chicago & has a cocky attitude due to his parents' money and what he buys w/ it.He also drinks and smokes extensively.He comes off as someone who is unapproachable,but to me he's completely different.He's such a sweetheart.How do I get my family to see him the way I see him, and not only what's on the outside before I turn this into something??

2007-01-03 06:35:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 06:35:12 · 6 answers · asked by cm_crazy13 1 in Singles & Dating

he doesn't know u but!!

2007-01-03 06:35:00 · 12 answers · asked by m.buffon 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 06:34:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I should've included that as I have not heard from him for 24 hours and he's normally up my butt on the cell phone either calling or texting and I don't trust him as far as I can throw him. He insists that I leave my phone on 24/7 and if the shoe were on the other foot, he'd be at my office, my home, my mom's home and anywhere else he could think of wondering where in the heck I've been!! With that, how should I react?

2007-01-03 06:34:35 · 5 answers · asked by dot2mom 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont have d picture rite now but email sexybackish@yahoo .my freind said 1 was prettier than d other but i think oppisite. pleaseee eeemmmaaaaiiilll . or i'll be fighting with her day and nite

2007-01-03 06:33:57 · 30 answers · asked by orlz 2 in Singles & Dating

my man is married in his country and has 4 kids, he proposed to me and ask me to go to pakistan with him, when i asked him what would your wife say, he said she wouldn't mind and that we could stay in the same house and share him, i got pissed off and yelled on him. is this normal

2007-01-03 06:33:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating