Have you ever dated or been married to a guy that you were not attracted to. Did you have a more attractive guy on the side.and did you take things from your unattractive friend for the benefit of your on the side friend. Such as money, or take his car to pick up your side friend etc. Did you do things for your side (more attractive) friend that you did not do for the guy that you were in a relationship with.
2007-01-03 06:37:57 · 14 answers · asked by deeman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I have dated guys I didn't think where attractive but I didn't have another one on the side. The reason I dated these guys is because they treated me good and weren't stuck up. If a girl is doing this to you you need to stop hanging out with her. Your just being used.
2007-01-03 06:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's hard for anyone to at least marry someone they are unattracted to. I can imagine dating someone who I don't find real attractive because they more than make up for it with inner beautry or a great personality but there has to be some sort of attraction somewhere
2007-01-03 06:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by Zach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh???? This doesn't really make much sense seeing how the basic beginning of a relationship is the physical attraction that draws you to the other person. Most people wouldn't stay with someone that they felt they were no longer attracted to...unless of course there was a prenup involved stating that the loser gets nothing if they file for divorce.
But now that you mention it...kinda makes you wonder how Britney Spears hooked up with K Fed...he must have had a huge willie
2007-01-03 06:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I have dating men that were not good looking,but not because I
benefited in any way. The man just knew how to treat a lady. The only reason we are not in a relationship today is because he had a drug habit.
Annie
2007-01-03 06:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really was not attracted to my first husband, but I didn't cheat on him or have anyone on the side. Marriage is hard enough as it is So I think attraction is very important. At least when your not getting along you'll have something nice to look at.
2007-01-03 06:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by Susan P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dated guys that I wasn't attracted to only becuz there personality was so great. But no I would never do ne thing you mentioned to ne one I date attractive or not
2007-01-03 06:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i dated an unattractive guy. But, because there was no spark for me there, nothing went on. We hung out as friends, but had to let him go because he wanted to be more than friends. I like his personality, but it just wasn't there for me. I didn't use him, i'm not a user.
2007-01-03 06:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by southern belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've hooked up with unattractive chicks because I thought they had sexy looking feet.
God even gives unattractive chicks SOMETHING someone would find attractive.
2007-01-03 06:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by Submit to her Feet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't date a guy I wasn't attracted to. That's unfair on both ends.
2007-01-03 06:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I dated, it was for personality, not looks. So yes, my guys weren't the best looking, but I loved them anyway. I never cheated or abused them, or even looked for a better looking guy for that matter!
2007-01-03 06:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by CH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋